I need to lose 5kg in 3 weeks. How many calories do I eat a day to achieve it? I already walk 15k steps a day on average and i’ll continiue doing so but I’m wondering how many calories i’ll have to eat.
How do you even find a boyfriend if you’re 17? Where does everyone even meet their bf? I can’t use dating apps yet because I’m not 18, but I really want a bf because I’m lonely, and I feel like almost every other 17-year-old girl has a boyfriend, exes, talking stages, etc., and I’ve never had any romantic experience at all.
I wonder if it’s even possible for me to find anyone because I’m not good looking and I lowkey have no social skills. At least I’m skinny, but my face just isn’t very good looking. I genuinely have terrible social skills tho because I’m neurodivergent and have severe social anxiety.. I’m still gonna try first tho
I wish I could somehow meet a guy online first and then meet irl later, but I have no idea where to find guys online for dating without dating apps. Or does anyone have any better ideas for how someone like me could find guys? The only guys my age I know are just guys from my class, but I don’t want them because they are mean to me, treat me like garbage and make fun of me
Also, my standards aren’t very high. My only preferences are white guys because I’m white as well (bonus if he’s blond because I just think it’s cute, but he doesn’t have to be), 17–20 years old, taller than me (I’m 170cm/5’7), preferably neurodivergent as well. Kind and accepts me for being quiet and weird. I don’t mind if he’s ugly or weird either
Sometimes I wish someone would notice i’m not okay, but the truth is nobody will belive that you have an eating disorder or take it seriously if it’s not just stereotypical ana and u aren’t under bmi 16 yet.
90% of my diet consists of junk food because i am scared of wasting calories on food that isn’t my favorite, i vomit almost everything i eat and i use binging and purging to cope with feelings but apparently i can’t possibly have an eating disorder because im not only eating 1 piece of cucumber a day and i dont look like a skeleton yet so i must be fine and nobody cares
So I just had something super dissapointing happened to me and I got stressed and all I want to do right now is go to the shop and buy binge food and b/p for comfort, but I really shouldn’t because I’ve already had enough calories today and I know i’ll feel horrible after but the urge is so strong right now I feel like I might give in soon.
Why is it so hard to find porn of men targeted toward women and not gay men? As a woman it feels like whenever I try to find porn of a man literally almost all of the content is just targeted for a gay male audience. Like if I wanted to see porn of a blond male and I searched it up it would all just be gay porn targeted towards gay men which isn’t something I want to see as a woman. But if you searched up blond woman porn it would 100% show content targeted towards straight men.
And also almost all of straight porn is clearly just centered around what straight men want to see. Like it’s mostly just about the attractive woman being focused on and objectified while the male doesn’t even have to be attractive or shown a lot because they assume only straight males watch it for the girl.
There seems to be very little content of men targeted towards straight women and it pisses me off like just why? Why is everything just for men? Why can’t there be more content of men being objectified for women too?
How and where do you find a boyfriend as a 17 year old girl if your face is genuinely ugly, you have no social skills because autism and years of isolation, you are genuinely weird and can’t even make a friend? I’ve never had a boyfriend before or any romantic experience and I really want some. Is it even possible for someone like me to ever get a boyfriend?