u/baddie4-life

Im not sure what to do. Surprised the manager even hired me but it was completely shady to begin with. I only took it up because I was in a desperate position. I didnt even make it to my first paycheck, I quit in 3 weeks because it was a miserable experience.

Im not sure how to go about this. The manager keeps stalling my paycheck and wont cooperate with me. Wont respond back to my messages, everytime she gives me a day to come collect it, she has an excuse ready.
Im so confused. I dont know what to do pls help me

Can i file a complain against her to Dunkin’s management? But i literally got paid in cash?

Im not sure what to do. Surprised the manager even hired me but it was completely shady to begin with. I only took it up because I was in a desperate position. I didnt even make it to my first paycheck, I quit in 3 weeks because it was a miserable experience.

Im not sure how to go about this. The manager keeps stalling my paycheck and wont cooperate with me. Wont respond back to my messages, everytime she gives me a day to come collect it, she has an excuse ready.
Im so confused. I dont know what to do pls help me

Can i file a complain against her to Dunkin’s management? But i literally got paid in cash?

My current situation is very sad. Its about my entire life rn not just a man, and idk how to stay positive and in the right mindset when life keeps effing me over and over again

My SP texts me everyday and will take me out once a week but the connection feels very shallow and slow. Theres chemistry and we like each other a lot but the thing with ME is that I need to feel connected. I want emotional connection and closeness and he’s not good at that.

I know he likes me and tries his best, but i just need more. It’s like he likes me enough to keep me around but distant enough to not progress into anything more

I will say, we are not together, we have been seeing each other since 2.5 months now and although its a short amount of time, Im already exhausted from figuring out all of this.

He is a good man and I want it to work so bad but my needs are not met, he does not give me the time of attention I am used to. Every man I had before him, they were obsessed with me and constantly blew up my phone gave me the attention i need but he is a very distant and private person.

Is it worth manifesting a change in HIM?

My interviews were amazing too and I genuinely thought Im getting this job, never even had a negative thought cross my mind.

I was so ready for a follow up email from them, then get two rejection emails from two different jobs.

What do I even do…

Really confused on this, yes both works cuz universe will provide everything but Idk what to focus on.

Be obsessed with myself? Try not to gaf bout him anymore but still deep down want this to workout?
Or
keep affirming he is mine and everything i want is mine?

Whats better in your opinion

Need help, yes im obsessed with myself too but I need him obsessed too hes avoidant/too busy for anyone.

The call genuinely lasted a good 10 seconds at most. I very respectfully told him I wouldn’t like to lead him on or go on any dates. I never even went on a date with him and I only met him once at a bar. He was pushy and weird and my gut just told me to not go out w him so instead of ghosting him I respectfully told him Im not in a place to see anyone rn.

He insisted I call him for 5 mins then when I actually picked up (cuz I genuinely just wanted to get rid of him respectfully I didnt want any issues) he literally barely said a few words and hung up idk why he even called. It makes me feel paranoid that he tried “tracking” me or something like that.
Is it even possible?