
u/bluesond

We boulder. I’m not great, but I have fun.
I’m really scared of trying ropes out, though. They intimidate me.
I’m scared I’ll be bad at knots. I’m scared I won’t be good at keeping her safe. I’m scared I won’t be good at it in general. I’m scared the heights aspect will get to me.
I don’t want to go in terrified. I just know I’m not a great person at quickly learning something like this and while I do want to, the stakes of messing up feel high.
But if I go in scared, that’ll make it worse!
Had no idea going in how gay it would be, but my wife and I literally lost count of the lesbian couples.
Hispanic mascs were EVERYWHERE. Masc shortage is over, they’re in Lubbock listening to country music, y’all.
I even saw some cutie lesbian couples two-stepping down on the floor.
I grew up in the northeast and despite being a rainbow dot in a red state, I forget how we’re everywhere sometimes.