u/bluesond

Just wanted to generate some discussion about same sex relationships here that’s not purely focused on sex, not that sex is bad or wrong! Nor is anyone less bi or less queer if they’ve never had same sex experiences.

I just really love loving women as a woman. I love hearing happy stories about WLW and MLM. Sometimes our stories as bisexuals in same sex couples specifically get lost in the fray of gay and lesbian stories or opposite sex stories.

I’m so thankful for my same sex marriage. I love being queer.

I hate that I’m at a point where I worry that it’s threatened, but nobody can take away the love.

Edit: it’s crazy how little this sub cares about bisexuals in same sex marriages

I’m taking myself to a double header of horror movies she’d never see with me! Obsession and then Back Rooms. Should have maybe 10min of downtime between the two.

I could obviously do that when she was home too but why tf would I spend that much time not with my wife? Kidding, of course, but also sorta not.

And then tomorrow I’ll get the house in perfect shape for her return because I love her and know it makes her feel so much better and loved. Plus that’s just what you do.

Anyways, I love being queer. Love loving a woman, even if she hates scary movies

Edit: well we had the fire alarm go off during trailers for movie one, so we’ll see if I’m now disrupted for both

I was lucky to get so many comments on the work in general. And I fully understand a delay in comments or not commenting at all!

But that user had commented on every single chapter and hers were my favorites almost always. She just said the kindest and funniest things and really loved elements of my characterization that I also loved. I’d been excited to see her thoughts on the end and a bit bummed when they just never came. It didn’t get to me too much, but even last night, I randomly thought about her and hoped she was well.

Waking up to seeing her multi-paragraph comments truly made my day. And it reminded me why comments mean so much. I gotta do better commenting myself.

I almost feel like I have more closure on the work knowing what she thought. It sounds so crazy, but yeah. She just always stood out to me in the sea (or sometimes pond) of comments.

As an example, we celebrated our annual “Halfsgiving” today.

For years now, we’ve bought turkey on mega sale after thanksgiving. Well, now that we’re vegetarian, it’s a ‘celebration roast’ which sounds suspicious and disgusting, but is genuinely so damn good.

Anyways, we will buy it for like 80% off and then by may, we no longer want it in the freezer. So right around that 6 months after thanksgiving mark, we cook Halfsgiving!

We spend a few hours in the kitchen together without all the stress of holiday company or entertaining and then we eat our yummy thanksgiving meal. Only downside is how hot the kitchen gets in Texas in may when you’re using the oven all day.

This sorta thing just makes me so happy. It’s amazing getting to share a lifetime with someone you want to be around. I’m so fucking grateful to be queer haha. I know the hets can have it too but I just love being a woman with a woman. My wife is my best friend and I love all of little inside jokes and traditions and special things.

Can’t wait to pass this onto our kids.

Happy Halfsgiving to all.

We celebrated our annual “Halfsgiving” today.

For years now, we’ve bought turkey on mega sale after thanksgiving. Well, now that we’re vegetarian, it’s a ‘celebration roast’ which sounds suspicious and disgusting, but is genuinely so damn good.

Anyways, we will buy it for like 80% off and then by may, we no longer want it in the freezer. So right around that 6 months after thanksgiving mark, we cook Halfsgiving!

We spend a few hours in the kitchen together without all the stress of holiday company or entertaining and then we eat our yummy thanksgiving meal. Only downside is how hot the kitchen gets in Texas in may when you’re using the oven all day.

This sorta thing just makes me so happy. It’s a blessing getting to share a lifetime with someone you want to be around. My wife is my best friend and I love all of little inside jokes and traditions and special things.

Can’t wait to pass this onto our kids.

Happy Halfsgiving to all.

We boulder. I’m not great, but I have fun.

I’m really scared of trying ropes out, though. They intimidate me.

I’m scared I’ll be bad at knots. I’m scared I won’t be good at keeping her safe. I’m scared I won’t be good at it in general. I’m scared the heights aspect will get to me.

I don’t want to go in terrified. I just know I’m not a great person at quickly learning something like this and while I do want to, the stakes of messing up feel high.

But if I go in scared, that’ll make it worse!

Had no idea going in how gay it would be, but my wife and I literally lost count of the lesbian couples.

Hispanic mascs were EVERYWHERE. Masc shortage is over, they’re in Lubbock listening to country music, y’all.

I even saw some cutie lesbian couples two-stepping down on the floor.

I grew up in the northeast and despite being a rainbow dot in a red state, I forget how we’re everywhere sometimes.