u/bluesubok — reddlx

Image 1 — I give up with b4 and current pics almost 4 months post op

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▲ 27 r/GastricBypass

I give up with b4 and current pics almost 4 months post op

I understand that most relationships do not survive gastric bypass surgery. the accusations of cheating, being called a slut and a cunt and whore are fucking charming blet me tell you. I can't fucking afford to leave. We're not married been together 7 years it's his house. All because I have lost weight.

HW 299

Met the surgeon at 260. Surgery at 238 and 187 today I had surgery in March.

I can't enjoy my journey if I buy anything cute I'm a slut.

u/bluesubok — 7 hours ago

▲ 94 r/LetMeHelpYouOut+1 crossposts

I think I need help

So I live in Moore with my bf, I have 2 kids still at home and an 18 year old that we took in in January.

We live in his house. I make. A whooping $15/ hr and have no idea how to leave.

A week ago I walked 6 miles home on my birthday. He didn't believe I was walking even when I got followed by some homeless men he told me " U do U"

I can't spend money I can't talk to him I can't do anything and he says it's all me.

I had gastric surgery in March since January I have dropped from 265 to a current 193.

He said he supported me, he obviously doesn't. And my life is hell. He may not hit me but he is financially, verbally and mentally abusive. I'm tired. Now he is calling my kids names.

I have no family here at all. He has driven all my friends away. I'm isolated I have noone.

I really don't want to move my daughter out of moore high she is a Jr this year and finally coming out of her shell.

My girl I took in is supposed to head to school in the fall.

I don't know what to do. I'm at my wits end and wish the mfer would hit me so I had proof.

Because walking around SE OKC at night by yourself is fucking safe and normal right.. ever stroll on se 59th and eastern as a woman in a dress alone at 11pm..

Be called a bitch and a c*nt on the regular is freaking old. Not being allowed to speak is fucking old.

I'm so tired, when I had surgery I was hoping I didn't wake back up..

I not a mean person. I'm feel like it's helpless and I'm about to give up.

I'm about to sign my kids over to their dad and poof. I dunno what else to do.

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u/bluesubok — 22 days ago

▲ 40 r/loseit

Down 100lbs

I did have weightloss surgery in March. In my journey to wls we discovered that I have

PCOS/PMOS

insulin resistance

Hypothyroidism

Lupus/ possibly other autoimmune bs.

My heaviest weight was 299 I saw that weight in 2016 I'm sure it went up I just didn't look at the scale.

Met the surgeon at 260lbs January 20th

Had surgery at 238 March 11th

Today I'm 198. June 4th

I met 2 goals at once and I wasn't expecting them.

I am 101 down from heaviest and I'm in freaking onederland.

I have promised myself for over 20 years that I would be under 200lbs for myself for my birthday Ipromise myself every year. I have failed umm 22 times. I did it. TOMORROW IS MY BIRTHDAY 🎂🍪 I wasn't expecting to have kept my promise to myself this year..

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u/bluesubok — 1 month ago

▲ 445 r/TwoXChromosomes

I need to boast I guess. I don't mean to brag I'm just proud

I have spent my entire life being chubby, chunky, overweight, and plain old fat. While seeking help I landed with surgery because I have a mixture of

PCOS/PMOS

insulin resistance

Hypothyroidism

Lupus

Possible rheumatoid

Thanks to living in america and being married to my ex I didn't have access to health care and insurance for almost 15 years.

My heaviest weight was 299.

Met my surgeon at 260

Had surgery at 238

Today I'm 198.

I met 2 goals at once and I wasn't expecting them.

I am 101 down from heaviest and I'm in freaking onederland. I have promised myself for over 20 years that I would be under 200lbs for myself for my birthday bi promise myself every year.. I did it. TOMORROW IS MY BIRTHDAY 🎂🍪 I wasn't expecting to have kept my promise to myself this year.. here are some before and currents.

It would only let me attach one photo so I made a little video

u/bluesubok — 1 month ago

▲ 85 r/GastricBypass

Rambling about my journey

I have been overweight since I was a kid. In my late teens early 20s I hit the 200lbs mark. In 2017 I weighted in at 299. I'm positive it went up, but that was the last time I looked at a scale for a while and worked my ass off. I got down to 250.

I hovered between 250 and 280 until 2025. I changed careers and got down to 240.

And bounced between 240-250 for the whole year.

My new insurance kicked in in January. They 100% cover wls everything leading up to it is regular insurance so woot I got RNY for less then 3K in the freaking US that's a score..

I had surgery on March 11th and weighted in at 238.8 that morning. So I'm just shy of 3 months

Today the scale says 200.2.

This is so significant to me because for the last 20 plus years I have promised myself that I would get under 200lbs. I would do it for myself for my birthday 🎂🎈.

Guys my birthday is Friday!!

I did it. It took 10 years, surgery and 4 significant medical diagnosis, but I fucking did it.

Even if I stall rn and have a wild upswing flux I did it. I feel like I have met the only goal I had number wise. I am one pound from having lost 100 pounds.

I'm gonna be 43. I am a 5'3" woman with a delicate build. I'm in a 12/14 slack and large scrub pants and an xl scrub top. I haven't tried anything else. And I know I'm not done losing.

u/bluesubok — 1 month ago

▲ 3 r/okc

So I had surgery 7 weeks ago. Gastric bypass and I'm losing and don't want to lose my muscle so to the gym I need to go.

I'm near 240 and sunnylane so no gyms are know of are near me that have both classes and weights. I have always gotten dopamine from lifting and I want to learn to lift heavy. So I really don't know where to go.

Cost and distance are my considerations. I am.

Restricted to cardo until mid June.

Honestly I am terrified that it's just going to be judgy assholes and I'm not going to want to go back. I have been tormented out of gyms before.

I'm a fat 42 year old woman who is trying.

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u/bluesubok — 2 months ago