u/borntobeastar999

i recently realized that i’m actually a pretty introverted person, despite being extremely active on social media and, generally speaking, being a very outgoing and magnetic person. at one point i had a lot of friends, and i’ve never really had any issues communicating with people. it’s just that i get tired of it very quickly, and oftentimes i’m simply not interested in talking to people. i genuinely can’t listen to someone for more than five minutes, while at the same time i often prefer being the one talking. like, it’s easier for me when i’m talking and someone is listening to me, and i usually don’t even talk about the most basic, overused topics like discussing someone’s life or whatever. it’s usually historical, philosophical, psychological, or otherwise similar kinds of discussions.
that’s why i have very few people around me in general — simply because i’m not interested in interacting with most people. i can easily block someone if i realize they’re texting me too much or constantly spamming me. it can annoy me A LOT. but for a certain circle of people — my friends, my partner, or whoever else i genuinely care about — i can literally listen to them for hours and spend the entire day with them without getting tired at all. i’m willing to completely give myself to a person. but with everyone else, it just doesn’t work that way.
and overall, i don’t even want to make new connections. i don’t feel like meeting new people because, generally, it just doesn’t interest me. i’m perfectly comfortable being alone, even in environments that i regularly go to. it could be math classes, some other classes, work, whatever. i’m completely comfortable being there by myself.
but what do you do when you genuinely get tired of interacting with people really quickly? i can’t spend a lot of time in a group because afterwards i need like a day or two to recover. i can’t even spend that long just hanging out with people i have things to talk about with, if they’re not part of that small circle of people i actually care to be around. i just can’t spend a lot of time with them.
has anyone else ever felt like this? do you also get irritated really quickly by being around a lot of people, or by someone talking way too much, or just by social interaction in general? share your experiences.

i wouldn’t call myself a religious person, cuz i’m a buddhist and that’s a controversial topic, but i would like to hear y’all’s stories for sure!!

i really don’t get all the hate towards pads, but i’m going to have a vacation at the beach, so i’m forced to try tampons for the first time ever. any recommendations or opinions??

hi guys. literally a couple hours ago i made a post about noticing my sp becoming more distant. and sometimes negative thoughts start creeping into my head because i still talk to this person, and i’ve heard so many times that people who manifest their sps basically don’t communicate with them at all. like, they’re either blocked or something else, so they don’t really have the opportunity to see what’s going on in that person’s life.
because of that, i started wondering: if i just disappear from social media for a while without telling her and tried to completely withdraw into myself and focus on manifesting, would that actually be a good/smart decision? could it help me? and could it somehow mess up our relationship or not? what do u think

good morning everyone! i’ve run into a bit of a problem. i read a lot of stories about people successfully manifesting their sps, but my situation is a little different.
my sp and i broke up almost a month ago, and i started manifesting her a little over a week ago. we had a healthy relationship, and honestly, it’s still healthy between us. the thing is, whenever i read other people’s success stories, i always see the same thing: either they hadn’t talked for months, were blocked, or didn’t even think about each other anymore. meanwhile, i’m still talking to my sp and trying to take little steps toward her, even though it usually ends with me saying “i love you, goodnight” and getting hit with a “dummy, go to sleep”. sometimes she’s hella distanced which never happened during the time while i wasn’t manifesting her.
i can’t fully let go of her because we still talk and interact, and i genuinely don’t know how i’m supposed to manifest her to start a new chapter of relationship with me, while still communicating with her. any ideas?