Émotions qui refusent de partir après un conflit?

Je me retrouve parfois dans des situations qui font monter mon adrénaline (typiquement, un conflit de voisinage).

Une fois le conflit terminé, je ressasse longtemps l'échange et ça me fait souffrir. Je boucle entre colère, tristesse, acceptation et raisonnement... J'essaie de m'en défaire: exercices de respiration, pleine conscience, sport... mais je peux rester bloqué dessus pendant des heures.

J'ai l'impression que ces conflits déclenchent une émotion forte et durable chez moi. Je la ressens malgré moi, et ça donne du grain à moudre à mon cerveau hyperactif. Et même si elle finit par passer, elle vient s'ajouter à la liste de mes frustrations. Au conflit similaire suivant, ça me déclenche encore plus fort, ça s'en va encore plus difficilement.

Bref, je cherche à savoir si le TDAH joue un rôle là dedans, si c'est juste des traumas, si c'est autre chose, ou une combinaison de tout ça. Ça me rassurerait d'avoir vos retours d'expérience et éventuellement un peu de littérature sur le sujet :)

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u/butterfly_labs — 1 day ago

Vendeur banni de LBC après "envoi" du colis

Salut,

J'ai acheté un truc sur LBC avec le paiement sécurisé LBC.

Le vendeur a annoncé avoir expédié le colis. Il a été banni le jour même.

Que faire? LBC me conseille de "contacter le vendeur" tout en me disant qu'il n'a plus accès à la messagerie...

Je n'ai pas de numéro de suivi, et aucun bouton pour faire un recours.

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u/butterfly_labs — 3 days ago

Unable to export watch face

Hi there,

First off, this tool is awesome.

I'm on the free plan. I designed a test watch face. I'm now trying to export it:

  1. With wfbinstaller-macos-arm64:

It says No Garmin device found , whether I'm using MTP or Garmin USB modes.

(The watch is detected by Android File Transfer when running in MTP mode)

Note: I'm on MacOS 27 beta, which caused me issues with system permissions before.

  1. With direct PRG download:

The download is blocked. This banner is displayed:

Ads help us keep WatchfaceBuilder and PRG downloads available to everyone. ...

The Cloudflare captcha also resets.

I have tried disabling my ad blocker, I have tried with another browser, with a VPN, ...the outcome is the same

What to do?

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u/butterfly_labs — 7 days ago

Passkey support in Firefox desktop?

I have just migrated to Proton Pass. When I attempt a passkey authentication, Proton Pass does not react, I just get a prompt from Firefox: "touch your security key".

Is it supposed to be working? FYI, I imported my Bitwarden collection, I'm not sure if passkeys were transferred. I don't see a mention of passkeys in my saved items.

Passkey auth works fine with the Bitwarden extension in Firefox.

https://preview.redd.it/77cdidnkkneh1.png?width=816&format=png&auto=webp&s=8357fd81379ea03e5ced56d701e76297601058b7

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u/butterfly_labs — 1 month ago
▲ 6 r/Drime

Rclone arguments recommendations?

I use this command:

rclone sync /mnt/ssd4to/ drime:/ --drime-upload-cutoff 1M --transfers 8 --checkers 8 --multi-thread-streams 0 --timeout 5m --contimeout 60s --retries 8 --order-by size,mixed,50 --progress

I don't know if these params are good, I mostly copied them from somewhere else.

I haven't tried bisync yet, and I'm not sure I will because it can lead to data loss on both sides if not used correctly / if something goes wrong. And I don't trust Drime yet with my data.

I know every situation is different and rclone has a lot of arguments, but I'm curious what you guys use.

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u/butterfly_labs — 1 month ago
▲ 4 r/Drime

Photo backup stuck at 0% ?

Hi there,

I had set up photo backup when I'd first installed Drime, a couple days ago.

Today, I'm seeing this notification for the first time. It popped maybe 2-3 hours ago. It's stuck at 0%. I haven't opened the app yet today, just thought the team would like to be made aware.

u/butterfly_labs — 1 month ago

Tente de camping, 3 places

Salut,

Je cherche une tente de camping pour 2/3 places (2 petits humains + 1 chien moyen).

J'ai testé la MH100 XL de Décathlon (100€), mais je suis déçu de la qualité des matériaux et de l'agrément. Je vise donc un truc plus haut de gamme.

Il me faut un auvent assez gros, des arceaux métalliques et quelques rangements/accroches.

Poids max 6kg.

Budget 200/300€. Neuf ou occasion.

J'écoute vos recommandations.

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u/butterfly_labs — 2 months ago

Is there any reason NOT to use Out Silent Mode?

The only downsides I have noticed so far:

  • Indoor unit maybe slightly noisier (compressor working harder?)
  • Fan stuck at minimum speed -> less airflow
  • I think the power is capped at something like 600W instead of the usual 1200W

But even with the last 2 points, the target temperature is still held (22°C inside, with 34°C outside)

Hence the question: is there a reason not to use Out Silent? If not, why is it not default / adaptive?

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u/butterfly_labs — 2 months ago

Xurta et canicule

Salut tout le monde,

C'est mon deuxième coup de chaleur en une semaine: tachycardie, légère nausée, sensation d'être un peu à l'ouest, fatigue oculaire et inconfort général.

La première fois, c'était suite à un gros effort de cardio. La seconde, aujourd'hui, c'était pour être resté sous la chaleur sans bouger (team building de ma boîte en plein cagnard sans ombre...).

Je pense que le Xurta a contribué: l'augmentation de la température corporelle est un des effets secondaires possibles.

Depuis que je prends ce médicament, je m'hydrate un max, mais ça n'a pas suffi...

Je suis curieux de savoir si ça vous arrive aussi, et comment vous gérez.

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u/butterfly_labs — 2 months ago

Condensate pump running for longer than usual

I’ve noticed that for the past few days, the condensate removal pump has been running longer: about 20 seconds instead of the usual 5 to 10 seconds. It seems to be running somewhat dry. I haven't changed anything in my setup, and the weather conditions have been more or less the same. How can this be explained?

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u/butterfly_labs — 2 months ago
▲ 2 r/oMLX

Optimization advice

I am currently running Qwen3.5-122B-A10B-oQ4-MTP-fp16. I have enabled MTP in model settings.

Performance is pretty good, but I'd like to know if I can improve it.

I have tried DFlash and SpecPrefill on older versions of oMLX, but I couldn't tell if they really improved anything, and it wasn't very clear how they interacted with each other / if they worked with all model architectures. Maybe it has changed?

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u/butterfly_labs — 2 months ago

JetBrains support?

Kilo and Roo work with JetBrains products. Are there any plans to support JetBrains in Roo? I couldn't find it in the marketplace.

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u/butterfly_labs — 2 months ago
▲ 13 r/brico

Comment refaire ce mur en placo?

J'ai arraché le carrelage au-dessus d'un évier, le placo est parti avec...

Le carton est troué des deux côtés par endroits.

J'ai jamais fait de placo, mais je suis plutôt bricolo.

Comment réparer ça proprement? Des conseils étape par étape svp?

u/butterfly_labs — 3 months ago

Solar charge controller not supplying enough power to battery?

I have this setup for a standalone system:

- 50w 19.8v solar panel

- 12V 20Ah battery

- Egcsolax MPPT 20A solar charge controller (picture below)

https://preview.redd.it/9lbnh254km2h1.png?width=1316&format=png&auto=webp&s=bfee7e0e5a4f2a4474dc207043c717c0d07ddb8c

My issue: in full sunlight, the inverter reports a maximum PV power of 5W. 10% of the advertised peak power of the panel.

What's wrong?

I was thinking, because the battery has a lower nominal voltage than the solar panel (12v vs 19v), maybe the controller can't supply enough voltage to the panel, hence the panel can't reach its full efficiency?

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u/butterfly_labs — 3 months ago

Qu'est-ce que c'est encore que cette diablerie

Je ne suis pas professionnel. La messagerie fonctionnait encore ce matin...

u/butterfly_labs — 3 months ago

Orange Pi Zero 3 won't fully boot

This board is like new and used to work fine.

One day the computer stopped responding. This was after transporting it while powered up; it is possible that I shorted some pins in the process.

I found out the partition table of the SD had been corrupted. I repaired it using TestDisk. The SD now mounts fine on other Linux computers. But the board won't boot.

Symptoms on powerup:

  1. Red LED turns on for 2-3 seconds, then turns off
  2. Green LED lights up, then starts blinking. Red remains off
  3. The board does not request an IP and is unreachable on the network (wired connection)

Is it toast?

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u/butterfly_labs — 3 months ago