u/calmwinter1312

Hello,

So I've been struggling with powering a used BMPCC4K I recently got. I bought it with a Tilta NP-F970 plate and three batteries (2 BATMAX 7.2V 7200mAh and 1 Coolshow 7.4V 7800mAh). When I try to use the 12v output to the 2-pin input on the Blackmagic, it opens at around 11.7V then starts dropping voltage until the camera switches off.

By reading the forums, most people said they switched to a dummy battery setup and that it worked, so I bought a dummy battery and connected it to the Tilta 7.4V output. The camera switches on, quickly drops the voltage and shuts off.

So now I have no idea what to do, would the problem be with the batteries, is it the Tilta plate? Is there any way to find out? I know the problem thankfully isn't in the camera because when I connect it with two-pin straight to a wall socket it stays on.

Hey, so I wanted to write this post just to vent a little bit. I'm 24 and I was in my first relationship for a bit under a year with someone I thought would be my life partner, I've always been very picky and judgemental when it comes to dating and it had never really worked out, but when I met her our first date lasted for almost 12 hours of just talking and talking.

Anyways, we had a pretty rushed relationship, I moved in with her about 3 months partially because of the housing crisis. The day to day was great, we never really fought, we communicated well. One thing that bothered me is that she didn't really spend anytime with friends or finding her own hobbies to do, so we spent a looot of time together. Anyways, she had some deep traumas stemming mainly from abuse and she started to feel uncomfortable due to this being her first truly healthy relationship, expressing doubts over pretty much everything, and that led me to break up with her about a month ago, not because I really wanted to but I could clearly tell that she was just afraid to do it. She recognized that if it wasn't for her own issues we would have been perfect for each other, so she committed to work on herself because she also believes, or at least she says, that i'm by far the best person she has ever met and that if she can't make it work with me, she can't make it work with anyone, and we agreed to be open to the possibility of getting back together.

So, I lived with her and had to move out, temporarily going back to my dad's house, which is in another city where I have no friends. I feel completely isolated. To add insult to injury, I lost my job as well, less than a week after breaking up, so no looking for a new place just yet. We were no-contact for a bit, maybe less than two weeks, but I was like, dude my life sucks so much right now that who cares, i'll just text her. We've been talking everyday since, it's bittersweet because she does make me feel better because we were best friends as well, but I know she's going out and just overall doing better than me, and i'm afraid that she'll just get over me, since she's doing all the appropriate post-breakup things while i'm alone and just sitting thinking all day, even if i'm busy. Anyways, we agreed to meet up a few days from now, which would be our 1st year anniversary, to just try and see if we can hang out, I don't know how i will feel. My days have been a repetition of switching between hopefulness and discouragement, just hoping that she figures herself out quickly so we can get back together, but I know rationally that I can't depend on someone else like that, it's just that I lost almost everything I had so quickly.

Thanks for reading and sorry for the messy stream of consciousness style, did anyone here have a similar experience, what are your thoughts?

Freelancer em Captação e Edição de Vídeo

1. DADOS PESSOAIS

• Idade: 24 anos
• Formação académica: Licenciatura em Cinema e Audiovisual
• Experiência profissional: 2 anos
• Estado civil: Não especificado
• Pessoas dependentes/filhos: Não especificado

2. PERFIL DO EMPREGADOR

• Sector/Indústria: Futebol
• Cidade/Região do Empregador: Norte
• Número de trabalhadores: Não especificado
• Multinacional? Não especificado

3. CONTRATO E CONDIÇÕES

• Cargo atual: Não especificado
• Anos na empresa atual: Não especificado
• Horas de trabalho: Não especificado
• Média de horas por semana, incluindo horas extraordinárias: Não especificado
• Trabalho por turnos ou das 9h às 5h (flexível?): Não especificado
• Serviço de permanência 24h: Não especificado
• Dias de férias/ano: Não especificado

4. SALÁRIO

• Salário bruto/mês (anual): É o que quero saber
• Salário líquido médio/mês (incluindo compensações): Não especificado
• Compensações líquidas: Não especificado
• 13º/14º mês (Completo? Duodécimos?): Não especificado
• Vales de refeição: Não especificado
• Carro da empresa e/ou cartão de combustível: Não especificado
• Seguro de grupo (% empregador): Não especificado
• Outros seguros: Não especificado
• Outros benefícios (bónus, opções de compra de acções, ... ): Não especificado

5. MOBILIDADE

• Cidade/região de trabalho: Não especificado
• Distância casa-trabalho (km's/tempo): Não especificado
• Como te deslocas? Não especificado
• Como é compensada a deslocação casa-trabalho? Não especificado
• Dias de teletrabalho/semana: Não especificado

6. OUTROS

• Com que facilidade podes planear um dia de folga? Não especificado
• O teu trabalho é stressante? Não especificado
• Possibilidades de formação: Não especificado
• Responsável por uma equipa e/ou projetos (relatórios): Não especificado

Mensagem / Pedido: Estou a começar a trabalhar como freelancer na área de videografia. Tirei licenciatura em cinema e audiovisual e tenho um pouco abaixo de 2 anos de experiência profissional a trabalhar com produtoras, mas consegui tirar um portfólio decente tanto em termos comerciais como criativos.

Surgiu-me uma oportunidade para trabalhar na área do futebol, essencialmente querem que eu vá gravar os jogos para fazer conteúdos principalmente para redes sociais, mas também querem fazer long-form content ocasionalmente. De resto, seria também gravar treinos, interações e entrevistas com os jogadores, etc.

Não faço a mínima ideia de quanto lhes pedir, estava a pensar num valor base de 800€ para um pacote mensal com a gravação dos jogos com 4 vídeos short-form para cada um e um treino a cada 15 dias, por exemplo, com 4 vídeos short-form também? É um balúrdio, é baixo? Não sei, o que acham?

Hey people, I decided to post because I have a sexual incompatibility problem but I couldn't relate enough to most of what I read here on reddit, way too many dead bedrooms

So, I (M24) have been in a relationship with my amazing girlfriend (F21) for 9 months. It's my first relationship and it's been going really well. We definitely moved very fast and we're already living together. It might sound too soon, and the housing crisis definitely played a part, but honestly it just felt right.

Since this is my first relationship, I didn't really know how my libido would work in a long-term relationship. I kind of had to figure it out as I went, but I always knew hers would be higher. At the beginning we took things slow because I was pretty insecure, but once we got comfortable we started having great sex, for a while around twice a day. As time went on, especially after we moved in together, my libido settled into what I think is just my normal. Now we usually have sex around 1 to 3 times a week, depends.

She has a lot of nostalgia for the honeymoon phase, not just sexually but in general, whereas I'm completely at peace with how the relationship has naturally evolved. To me, that's just what happens in most healthy relationships.

But the issue isn't really the frequency, we did have some problems with that before, but we've mostly worked through them. It's more about the sex itself.

She places a lot more importance on sex than I do. To me it's an important part of a relationship, but there are several things I'd put before it. For her, it's almost a spiritual connection between two people, so our sexual differences affect her much more deeply than they affect me. For example, I told her that I don't really get much pleasure or excitement getting teased. It just doesn't do much for me. That made her worry that this, along with a few other things she'd like me to do that I'm just not comfortable with, could become a much bigger issue down the line. She's also had some negative past experiences that made her view sex negatively in the past, so with the beginning of this relationship and mostly work that she put in herself she rediscovered its positive potential and is now very afraid of wasting it.

My first instinct is to think, "It's not that big of a deal," but I know that's unfair because it clearly is a big deal to her. I really care about her and I want this relationship to work. We do communicate about our problems, but we both feel kind of stuck and don't really know what to do.

I'm wondering this just one of those situations where we have to figure out whether these differences are deal breakers and learn to live with it or not, or if she's maybe overthinking relatively small incompatibilities. Or maybe I'm being too closed off, I don't know. Anyways, I'd really appreciate any advice.

Thank you!