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Me and nk (2yo girl) are at the beach and there’s a lot of women jogging today and she’s staring at them go by.

Me: Women are so strong and so fast! Girls are amazing!

NK: Yeah, but not guys 😅

I had to double check that’s what she said. But honestly, slay. We love a girl’s girl. 🩷

I’m a nanny to twin toddlers and I’m trying to plan themed weeks for summer break. Any way to make a flag/map week fun? Or I should I go for something else?

Edit: Thanks for all the great suggestions!

I’m going to take them the WTC Seattle to see the flags outside and to the Maritz Map room at the Seattle Central Library. I also got a stamp kit for making maps and a couple white flags for them to design after we create a new map/country! And the map stamps can be used for the pirate week craft!

The kids go out of town that week so this should be more enough! Thanks again!

This is about me and my bff (both 34F) and her husband (48?M).

To make a super long story short, we’ve been besties since 14 and raised our kids together. Her and her hubby and I used to make throuple jokes. We called each other soul mates. Seven months ago her husband verbally abused me at their son’s bday party. He kicked me out and said I’m no longer family. This was after I asked if I could speak to my bff alone for a moment. He was in active addiction at the time. (I wasn’t aware of the extent of his addiction and abuse in the home. They hid it well.) Seven months later and my friend stands by her husband and is fully enabling him. None of us are talking. We used to spend every holiday together and camp all summer. I am also no contact with my family (more angry violent men) so
This had been extra isolating and painful.

Has anyone experienced a long term friend break up? I never would have seen this coming ever. It feels like I’m in a different reality. I poured my heart and soul into them as my family. Today I officially ended the friendship after trying to talk things out for the last time. They both refuse to talk about it.

Edit: anyone in Seattle wanna be friends!? lol

Edit 2: the irony of our hand written (I wrote hers and she wrote mine) matching girl power tattoos that we got after the first Women’s March… 💀