u/cherrystallion

How did you know you’re an asexual lesbian? Asking because all my life I’ve been battling whether I’m asexual + aromantic or a lesbian. I’m aware I can be both but the asexual part is what keeps me confused. Ultimately, it doesn’t matter since I do not date or have sex but deep down I do want to know who/what I am even if my sexuality isn’t very prominent. I only love women but I no longer have interest in dating and I’m not sure I ever did. I have some interest in sex but nothing substantial to start having sex again. The thought of being viewed sexually or being touched that way makes me shudder. However, I do miss eating and fingering women..

Asking because all my life I’ve been battling whether I’m asexual + aromantic or a lesbian. I’m aware I can be both but the asexual part is what keeps me confused. Ultimately, it doesn’t matter since I do not date or have sex but deep down I do want to know who/what I am even if my sexuality isn’t very prominent. I only love women but I no longer have interest in dating and I’m not sure I ever did. I have some interest in sex but nothing substantial to start having sex again. The thought of being viewed sexually or being touched that way makes me shudder. However, I do miss eating and fingering women..

So what were some of your signs?

Hey yall, I’m planning on going to a black lesbian/sapphic dance/club event this weekend and I’m a little nervous. I really just need some words of encouragement tbh. To start, I’m well aquatinted with doing solo activities but never clubbing alone. I don’t have any lesbian friends and I don’t typically celebrate pride month or do anything gay in my day to day life so I really want to go to this event to have a little fun. Im mostly introverted and can’t really cut a rug, im not usually a wallflower tho but I’ve never been out alone. Im considering taking one or two shots so I can loosen up a bit. There’s some anxiety because I know I have issues with blending in the crowd being that I’m tall and thick.. it’s really hard to miss me. But I’m also very awkward so being approached into conversation is like a death sentence to me. Somebody please help me get out of my head cause I can go on for hours about why I should just bedrot instead. I just wanna be around my people for one night!!

& sorry if this dragged on too long, ya girl is shivering in her boots!

As someone with a square butt, I’ve let the internet and irl convince me I need a bubble round booty but if I’m being realistic that’ll never happen without surgery or strict strength training. Neither I’m willing to do which signals to me that I don’t want it bad enough and that’s ok. I love my shape so going forward I will try to get my algorithm to understand that I don’t have a focus on rounding my glutes.

Just wanted to put this out there in case any other square booties was feeling down today. It’s ok to just have a full body workout without focusing on what will round you out! It’s also ok if that’s your goal though!!

I got my first Pap smear today and the doctor asked if I had been experiencing any itchiness. I told him no because I truly haven’t.. or at least I didn’t think so. After the Pap smear is over he said everything looked ok I just have “a little bit of yeast”, he didn’t say yeast infection so I asked him if it was a yeast infection. He said no and the prescription will clear up the yeast he saw today. On my way home I did start feeling a bit of itchiness and when I went to the bathroom an hour later, I say the cottage cheese looking stuff when I wiped. Then I remembered mid march seeing the cottage cheese looking stuff in my underwear on a drunk night in Orlando but I was not itchy or maybe I didn’t realize..? Both times seeing this in my underwear has been before my cycle starts.

Question : has anyone experienced not having the full list of yeast infection symptoms but still needed to take the pill? Mostly curious, I’ve never dealt with any vaginal issues before.