u/coffeetheshit

First I (F) wanna clarify some things! My laptop is the only laptop in my home, my dad has a mac but can't play games on it, only my laptop can be played games on, we have other devices but for work and not for gaming.

So a few hours ago, I was watching TV when dad asked me if he could play on my laptop, I didn't want to let him play on my laptop right now, so i told him "later, not now", I thought he would understand, as I would also ask if I could do stuff on his mac and he would say later and I wouldn't care, but he cared a lot, he told me that i can't say no(even though i didnt say "no", i said "later") to parents for no reason, that I could say no to siblings, friends, even my family but not my parents, he also said that he also couldn't say no or later to me either as I am his daughter, but the thing is, he does and he did say "no" or "later" to me, most of the time! And he forgets that said later, or that he said he would let me use his mac later and just never give me the chance to use the mac.

I also want to say that I actually begged for this laptop, i told my dad over and iver to get a laptop for my finals but he just didn't get me one, he waited until like, the middle of my exams where i didn't need the laptop as much to get me one, but i still loved it, now i can play games and stuff! But now he is continuously asking to use my laptop over and over, it feels like he wants to take my laptop from me. Another thing I had old laptop but when we were visiting my family, my dad gave it away to my uncle without telling me before hand, only telling me 1 or two days before our flight/two days before giving my old laptop away so yea, I had lots of artworks on that I couldn't save as he gave it away.:( also my dad wants to download new high resolution, games on my new laptop that will crash or lag my laptop to unusablitity. And games that can cause my laptop to freeze and delete some important files of mine:<

I feel like this is unfair that I begged for a new laptop and can barely even use it now because my dad keeps using it over and over, am i the asshole in this for saying "later" to my dad wanting to play games on my laptop? .:(