Why does my dad keep reusing dirty dishes and even take paper plates out of the garbage?
I’m genuinely trying to understand my dad’s behavior because it’s driving me crazy and I don’t understand why he does this.
He will literally take used paper plates out of the garbage and reuse them instead of getting a new one. He also keeps taking dirty dishes out of the dishwasher and reusing them rather than just letting them be properly washed, and doesnt clean the dishes, his hands or his body with enough soap and water. He is very frugal in everything he does and its to the point where it drives our family insane!
It’s not like paper plates are some huge expense, and obviously reusing something that has already been in the garbage seems really unsanitary to me. I’ve told him this, but he continues doing it.
Has anyone dealt with a parent who does things like this? Why do you think someone would behave this way? Could it be extreme frugality, growing up without much money, anxiety about wasting things, hoarding tendencies, or just a habit he refuses to change?
I’m especially interested in hearing from people who have seen similar behavior in their parents because I’m trying to understand what is going through his head.