Why did Barnabas never try to mind-control Julia?

I was just thinking about how Barnabas tries to mind control most people around him when he wants them to do stuff for him. But I don’t recall him ever attempting this with Julia. Did she have some natural resistance to his mental powers because she was a very smart lady and also knew what he was from the start?

He threatened her a lot to try to get her to do what he wanted, but why not just mind control her like he did everyone else? Threatening her is more risky because she can still disobey him. Those he had mental control over really couldn’t disobey him.

He always refused to bite her, even though that would have given him control too. But by the time we get to the point she’s offering herself constantly, she’s also in love with him, and that might give her some kind of protection from his control, even if he were to bite her.

I’m remembering the episodes where she was bitten by another vampire and that one she couldn’t really resist.… but she wasn’t in love with that vampire.

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u/crystalized17 — 6 days ago

The Red Queen ❤️ still getting the best costumes 🌹even when you think the movie was awful 😂

I have to gush about this dress in particular! Her entire hand/arm and upper gown look like they are dipped in blood and I LOVE it! Despite being the "good guy" right now, at least she still gets to wear some amazing stuff.

Now I can complain about the movie lol:

I have not seen Rita Ora in anything else so my opinion of her is based solely on her Descendants performances. In 'Rise of Red' and 'Wicked Wonderland', every time she comes on screen, no matter what she is doing, the quality of acting immediately increases several levels. And her singing voice also really stands out compared to the others as well, which is significant since nobody they pick for Descendants is a bad singer! She's like Kristin Chenoweth in the 1st movie. She stands out that much to me in acting ability and singing ability compared to everyone else.

For me, 'Wicked Wonderland' was the same level of storytelling quality as 'Rise of Red', but worse since there were no amazing songs and they did not deal at all with the big issue I had with 'Rise of Red' I wrote about here two years ago: https://www.reddit.com/r/Descendants/comments/1e57bky/how_queen_of_hearts_story_ended_in_rise_of_red/ I'm frustrated they doubled down on this storyline and have done nothing to fix it. Mad Hatter? What? Why should I even care he's the villain? He had almost no screentime in the last movie! It's also such a waste to use Rita in this way. Not much screen time in 'Rise of Red', but that's like how I wished Kristin Chenoweth could have been on screen more in the original movie. But she had even less screentime in 'Wicked Wonderland' AND they're using her as the "good guy" when she would be soooo much better as the villain. To her credit, she's still doing an amazing acting job even as the "good guy", but ughhhh she is capable of so much more as the villain. It's almost like they had to backseat her and give her as few lines as possible because she's too good and would steal the show from everyone else if you give her too much screentime as the main villain or whatever. The kids' acting would never hold up to it in a million years and they would feel even weaker than they already do. I did wonder with her sudden outburst of "off with his head!" to the mad hatter at the end if that meant she might get to return as a villain in a 3rd movie, or if that meant nothing at all. It's still possible for the writers to deal with the issue I have from the first movie and would be funny for the Red Queen to be BIG MAD she's been forced to act like a goody two shoes this entire time because of her daughter's time traveling. You can still redeem the Red Queen from that, but it needs to be on her own terms, her own choices, and not Red forcing it on her via time travel magic.

For the songs, I think 'Wicked Wonderland' was worse than 'Rise of Red' because there were no hit songs I liked. 'Rise of Red' had a couple of songs that were as good as the original Descendants trilogy. Songs that were amazing in 'Rise of Red': "Red", "Love Ain't it" (the big reason this song worked is because of Rita's singing and acting) and I did think "Life is Sweeter" wasn't awful. Everything else wasn't good at all and they brought Uma back just because her song from the original trilogy was so good, so that doesn't count.

For 'Wicked Wonderland', none of the songs were good. I enjoyed they let Rita sing one song because its nice to hear her unique voice again, but man even she couldn't save how boring that song was! "Perfect Princess" and "Heartless" came closest to something that was OK, but still not great nor catchy. The rest of the songs were boring, boring, boring.

Basically, I found myself singing songs from the original trilogy all the time. I found myself singing "Red" and "Love Ain't it" too at random times in my day. Nothing in 'Wicked Wonderland' is going to cause me to spontaneously burst into song during the day. Which is REALLY BAD for a Disney movie since Disney is so good at writing songs that people go around singing at random moments like they've caught a singing disease lol.

'Wicked Wonderland' felt like they just crammed as many songs in as possible because they knew none of the songs were good. Quantity over quality. Whereas 'Rise of Red' did seem to be trying for Quality instead of quantity, but it just couldn't quite hit the same level like the original trilogy.

Do we want a sequel to this? Will Descendants ever end? Do I want a sequel to this mess? I want to see more Rita Ora, but that's about it.

u/crystalized17 — 26 days ago
▲ 30 r/BALLET

The Prima Ballerina Still Going Strong After 75 Years

Full article:
https://archive.is/uwtst

Here's some other info I could find on her:

https://www.praemiumimperiale.org/en/laureate/morishita/

https://www.wsj.com/arts-culture/books/aging-like-an-elite-athlete-a84b6c43

https://www.nytimes.com/1976/07/11/archives/yoko-morishita-japans-pioneer-prima-ballerina-japans-pioneer.html

I would love to hear from people who know more about the ballet scene in Japan, but from what I can tell (from watching little clips on youtube and whatever else I could find) is that she is an extreme case of "Wendy Whelan" and other aging soloists who don't want to retire. And the ballet community allows it out of respect for their years of hard work and fame.

It makes a lot of sense this is occurring in Japan because Japan is a country that venerates the elderly. USA and Hollywood etc always venerate the young and get rid of their actors and dancers once they start to look "too old".

She is still very fit and in shape, but if you watch clips of her, obviously she's not as good as when she was younger. So they are allowing this out of respect for her. I think she also just recently became the president of the company, so even more, she's not going to kick herself off a stage she now owns haha. It strongly reminds me of the Navka and Plushenko ice shows in Russia. Since they are very famous from their younger years and have their own ice shows now, they simply give themselves one of the lead roles in their shows.

I find it very funny, but also entertaining. It's not a bad business move at all. Fans never get tired of seeing their favorites, even as they get older and can't do as much as they used to.

I like it as proof that you're "never too old" when someone doesn't like it that I still dance or skate or throw myself down a hill on a snowboard etc. 🤪 What's this nonsense about being "too old"? Never heard of it! Watch this! *jumps out of an airplane* Ready to rock! 🤘

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u/crystalized17 — 27 days ago

What kind of jump harness would you invent?

just a bit of fun, thought exercise since I’ve been thinking about it. pretend you have enough money to build any kind of contraption you want to help with your jumps.

my desired harness:

  1. something that can hold adult weight up like the off-ice harness. something where you can jump up from like a standstill axel, rotate twice (like off-ice harness) and then land. I’ve never been on a on-ice harness where I could be dangled because I’m too tall and too heavy.
  2. also something like the track harness but more free moving. So you’re not trapped trying to jump in a straight line. Maybe build a track the size of a hockey circle and place it above the circle markings on the ice? Then you can just follow the hockey circle and have a more natural jump pattern instead of a straight line. At least for the edge jumps. Maybe you keep the straight line track (draw a red line on the ice so it’s not so easy to get lost on it!) and add circle track at the end of it so people can choose which part of the track to use! also make sure it’s strong enough to dangle tall adult body weight, even if it’s a small, female coach pulling on rope.

We probably need whatever machinery they use to lift acrobats into the air when they’re on a rope. 😅

If we had more effective tools, you’d see more people land more jumps.

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u/crystalized17 — 1 month ago

Cafe-au-lait spots or just giant freckles?

I really think the first image is a cafe-au-lait spot. It’s all by itself on my hip, aka on an area that is always covered by clothing or swimsuit. So there’s no way it is sunlight-activated like a freckle would be. It appeared around age 7 or something and has never changed at all in shape or color for my entire life.

The 2nd image is under my breast. Again, an area the sunlight never sees, but it’s smaller, so I’m not as sure it’s cafe-au-lait spot instead of giant freckle.

The 3rd image is much more likely to be two giant freckles. They’re both on my stomach and sunlight has hit my stomach on the rare occasion. They’re just odd because the rest of my stomach is so white and clear. But their size is much closer to all of the freckles that coat my arms and shoulders. If you want to compare them to freckles on my arms, see this post: https://www.reddit.com/r/AskDermatologists/comments/1uo4lzf/what\_type\_of\_birthmark\_is\_this/

I’ve stayed out of the sun as an adult and yet my childhood freckles never fade. So it’s really hard for me to tell what was sunlight-activated vs cafe-au-lait.

u/crystalized17 — 2 months ago

What type of birthmark is this?

Birthmark I’ve always had on my arm. It’s always been this color and exact shape.

It started very high up on my shoulder and moved down as I grew taller.
When I got fatter, it moved around more to the back of my arm.
As I got thinner, it moved back to the center of my arm.

So it definitely demonstrates how that patch of skin moves around based on if you’re growing taller or fatter.

All my life, whenever people see it, they think I’ve been punched in the arm and ask if I’m OK.

u/crystalized17 — 2 months ago

Unprocessed vegan for over a decade and you still end up with crohn's disease (and no family history of it)

Just wanted to make this post mostly in case this happens to anyone else in the future and they're googling for information because its "WTF? WHY?"

Especially when you read article after article, research after research of stuff like this: https://www.forbes.com/sites/robertglatter/2019/06/24/cure-crohns-disease-with-this-diet/#5f4b8c026c4c saying a unprocessed vegan diet helps the majority of people with remission and there seems to be a strong correlation with poor lifestyle choices (bad eating, smoking etc), even if many times they claim it doesn't "cause" the disease and its just "genetics". Well, what if you have no family history of it? Where are the genetics coming from?

*Note: it has happened to a first-degree relative of mine and we have both been vegan for over a decade from very young ages: very early twenties is when we started being vegan. The vast majority of our immediate relatives were not vegan, but they were always thin, ate plenty of veggies despite being omnivores, and they never touched cigarettes or alcohol. There is only ONE relative that did and they did the smoking and drinking so severely, they died in their early 60s in horrific condition, wheelchair-bound etc. We are both descended from this relative and that is my only explanation for why in the world this has happened. It must have created some bad genes that got passed on thru two generations. Otherwise, we will have to start betting on microplastics in the water or something similar as a cause. I don't believe anything just "happens" because of "luck". Something somewhere helped to create it.

Crohn's disease has been increasing rapidly in industrialized nations in recent years. SOMETHING is causing it. My money is still on most of it being diet-caused or smoking or drinking, aka poor lifestyle choices. But it seems to have the ability to appear in people simply related to those who made poor lifestyle choices, despite those said people doing 99% more than most of the planet to be healthy (unprocessed plant-based diet, exercise, keeping weight down etc).

I will say that something like 80% of cases usually appear before age 30, usually teens and twenties. This person made it past 30. So maybe that's a sign that the vegan diet held off the disease for longer than it would have normally appeared, since they were vegan for all of their twenties. We will never know if being vegan from birth would have made any difference or not, since many people don't start being vegan until they're adults and have been able to do their own research about diet.

This person had no symptoms of pain warning them it was coming. They did have a very large, hard distended stomach, but nothing was hurting them. If you are skinny everywhere, but your stomach is huge and hard to the touch and you never drink alcohol or eat unhealthy, go get a dexa scan for body composition or something similar. Figure out if its visceral fat or something else, like crohn's disease. Don't assume you're just "built that way" just because nothing is currently hurting and you eat healthy. They were totally pain free, until they were suddenly not. Suddenly on the ground vomiting and having bloody diarrhea simultaneously because the disease had finally caused enough of a stricture to blow a hole in their intestine. Emergency surgery was now required to stay alive.

Also, always go get a blood test every couple of years. This person felt they didn't need blood tests because they ate so healthy. Stuff like this can potentially show up on blood tests and you can catch it early before you require painful surgery to save your life.

I've always gotten blood tests every couple of years for this reason. I knew I was probably fine, but I liked the reassurance of the test. So far my numbers have always been excellent. But my risk level for crohn's just went up 30x overnight because now I DO have a family history of it. Having a first-degree relative with it increases your chances of getting it one day too.

I'm on the same vegan diet, I never smoke and I never drink, I'm an athlete, and there's nothing I can do if it decides to show up one day. I suppose I'm more likely to recognize it sooner and therefore MAYBE avoid surgery. But my relative had no pain. Their only small clue was that distended rock hard stomach.

We don't yet know what the future holds in regards to how hard or easy it will be to manage this disease. I've seen many posts online of people who really struggle to eat any veggies or fruits or anything healthy, but I've also seen many posts of people who go vegan and do go into remission. I've seen a few posts of people who were vegan for years and still ended up with the disease. Most of them do seem to have been able to continue their vegan lifestyle, with help from medication. Which is what I'm hoping for in this situation.

But yeah, super frustrating to read so many articles about how veganism lets it go into remission and they no longer have to take drugs for the disease. And I'm like "They already were vegan for years! NOW WHAT?"

I'm hoping we find a drug that works. I'm hoping they maybe don't have to take it forever and can go into remission. I'm hoping it will be a mild form of the disease and they can eat mostly whatever they want plant-food-wise.

u/crystalized17 — 2 months ago

Have you always instinctively been good at staying on a horse's back? (no matter the situation)

So I know people hate reading long posts. So my full long post is here, if you want to read all of it: https://pastebin.com/dCxyFWjf and my shorter post is below if you hate reading.

I seem to have always naturally had an understanding of how to stay on the horse's back?

I'm planning to start real lessons soon since I'm an adult and have money to do it properly this time, instead of having to beg constantly for opportunities as I did as a child. I'm most interested in jumping. So I'm looking at hunter/jumper barns.

I'm starting with the lesson horses, but I am open to the idea of eventually maybe a part-time lease or something since I'm likely to run into the same issue in my childhood of not being allowed to do much on a lesson horse vs a leased horse.

Am I just super lucky that I never fell off? I've been reading posts about how beginners should never gallop, that they'll fall off, etc. But I was constantly having stuff thrown at me (cantering for the first time without telling me how to sit it or when it would happen during the trail riding), letting me gallop with zero advice etc. I actually still have ZERO idea how a gallop should be sat. I'm still going off the knowledge of how I did that first and only gallop I've done as a kid. (You'll have to read the pastebin link if you want to know the details.)

Anyone else been instinctively superglued or very lucky about staying on the horse's back no matter what? Even with lack of training or poor form or whatever?

I hate that my childhood was back in the days of no smartphones. So I have no videos to see what my form actually looked like. I just know what it felt like.

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u/crystalized17 — 2 months ago

So how do we go from a culture that is trying to completely erase religion to a Sunday Law?

Currently, the culture is trying to completely erase religion. Most Christians, especially Catholics, are more liberal/leftist every year. Even stuff they used to biblically believe in is falling away and church is now just a weekly social gathering.

Adventists and some Sunday-keeping non-denominational evangelicals are the only ones holding the line and refusing to change to fit the modern culture.

How do we go from this current situation to a hyper religious Sunday law? Asking because Sunday law is a huge part of what Adventists think will happen.

I just don’t see it. My only ideas right now is either (1) religion is erased and Sunday becomes some kind of “global warming, save the planet” day that’s is marketed as “necessary” with rolling black-outs etc. Or (2) we go so far to the left that there is a rebound effect and we go careening far to the right and religious zealots are able to enforce a Sunday law, despite the fact Muslims, Jews, atheists etc would not be happy about. It’s not just Adventists who wouldn’t be happy about a Sunday law.

Does some kind of fake Christ arrive on earth and convert a ton of people and so option (2) becomes possible?

I’m grasping at straws here because what is going on with the culture right now doesn’t make a Sunday law likely, it just makes outlawing ALL religion likely and then ending up in some kind of secular communist dictatorship setup like China.

What are your thoughts or theories? How do we get from an atheist-dominated culture to a hyper religious Sunday law?

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u/crystalized17 — 3 months ago

how to increase flexibility for attitude derriere?

A proper attitude derriere keeps both shoulders and hip bones pointed forward and the leg is completely behind the hip bone, at hip level height, with the knee bent. It almost forms a box-like shape directly behind you. Upper part of the back must stay up, so most of the bend is in the lower back.
This is a what a proper attitude looks like: https://imgur.com/7F7MBvS and https://imgur.com/zSIWCq5

But what usually happens is if you try to get your leg high enough and in the proper box-like shape behind you, you end up letting the shoulder and hip bone open up. Example: https://imgur.com/XR6KNzb

Or if you keep your shoulder and hip bone pointed forwards, then you can't get the leg up to hip height. Example: https://imgur.com/BZ5j4FK

These are all from google images as examples.

What I really struggle with is that twist in the torso. Trying to keep the leg up and behind me without opening up the hip (and eventually the shoulder) to "cheat" the leg position.

Are there any stretches that might be good for this? Pigeon pose is sort of similar, but not quite right... I almost want to do some kind of sideways donut pose stretch. That side area of the torso and the hip are at war with each other when trying to get into attitude correctly without any "cheating" by opening up the hip.

u/crystalized17 — 3 months ago

So how do we feel about never really getting any more Lady D content?

Lady Dimitrescu was HUGE. Tons of people who never even played a resident evil game were obsessed with her. Not just guys, but tons and tons of girls. There's currently about 5,000 fanfics over at A03 involving Lady D and it's still growing. Most fanfics are written by women, not men.

Given the high interest in her, you'd think they'd at least commission someone to write a novel or comic book with some of her backstory...... or some kind of merchandise like that.

They did release the Shadows of Rose extension and the replay the entire game with Lady D as your combat character, but that's it. They never really did anything to extend her back story. There's no promise of any appearances in any TV shows or movies. Nothing.

It feels like such a missed opportunity. But maybe they don't care since they know they will continue to make money no matter what as they release more RE games in the future. But it's so weird to just ignore and throw away such a popular character.

She would literally print money for them if they would actually do something more with her.

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u/crystalized17 — 3 months ago