u/cutelovedpanda

So the other day I (18 f) didn't have my laptop to do some work and my mom said try my stepdad's laptop (49 m). The password was on a sticky note and when I opened it, I see a folder open with a lot of porn videos and pics. For context, my mom and I are asian and stepdad is white. Basically all the porn in the collection were like older white men with Asian girls like my age (hundreds of them). Some even said stepdad and stepdaughter. I was so weirded out when I saw that. He has been an amazing stepdad and has never ever made me uncomfortable ever. We are kind of close, we hangout, and we hug and kiss (on cheeks) when leaving or seeing after a few days. Mom's had a series of bad relationships and then been very happy with stepdad for 8 years now. I don't want to bring it up and cause issues in their relationship and cause her unhappiness. I haven't told anyone about this but I have been kind of avoiding stepdad because I feel super weird now.

I feel like I can't tell anyone about this and so I wanted an out here. Is porn and reality completely disconnected for men? Is this normal? Do you have any advice? I feel weirded out but I don't feel threatened or anything. Appreciate any input!!

So the other day I (18 f) didn't have my laptop to do some work and my mom said try my stepdad's laptop (49m). The password was on a sticky note and when I opened it, I see a folder open with a lot of porn videos and pics. For context, my mom and I are asian and stepdad is white. Basically all the porn in the collection were like older white men with Asian girls like my age (hundreds of them). Some even said stepdad and stepdaughter. I was so weirded out when I saw that. He has been an amazing stepdad and has never ever made me uncomfortable ever. We are kind of close, we hangout, and we hug and kiss (on cheeks) when leaving or seeing after a few days. Mom's had a series of bad relationships and then been very happy with stepdad for 8 years now. I don't want to bring it up and cause issues in their relationship and cause her unhappiness. I haven't told anyone about this but I have been kind of avoiding stepdad because I feel super weird now.

I feel like I can't tell anyone about this and so I wanted an out here. What should I do? Is porn and reality completely disconnected for men? Is this normal? Do you have any advice? I feel weirded out but I don't feel threatened or anything. Appreciate any input

So the other day I (18 f) didn't have my laptop to do some work and my mom said try my stepdad's laptop (49m). The password was on a sticky note and when I opened it, I see a folder open with a lot of porn videos and pics. For context, my mom and I are asian and stepdad is white. Basically all the porn in the collection were like older white men with Asian girls like my age (hundreds of them). Some even said stepdad and stepdaughter. I was so weirded out when I saw that. He has been an amazing stepdad and has never ever made me uncomfortable ever. We are kind of close, we hangout, and we hug and kiss (on cheeks) when leaving or seeing after a few days. Mom's had a series of bad relationships and then been very happy with stepdad for 8 years now. I don't want to bring it up and cause issues in their relationship and cause her unhappiness. I haven't told anyone about this but I have been kind of avoiding stepdad because I feel super weird now.

I feel like I can't tell anyone about this and so I wanted an out here. Is porn and reality completely disconnected for men? Is this normal? Do you have any advice? I feel weirded out but I don't feel threatened or anything. Appreciate any input