Same medicine for both parties.
Came across something and want an opinion on it. So basically the jist is that a woman says she got proposed to when her dressing sense was western (she mentioned shirt and pants) and now the husband wants her to do abaya.
My question is, okay the husband has his preferences, maybe hes too possessive etc but he might propose this arrangement to be at ease and for his satisfaction. Okay. Can the woman ask in exchange for him to earn more? Or to be more physically fit? Like propse something so they both are striving towards something and doing something challenging rather then just the wife.