u/dainty57

Same medicine for both parties.

Came across something and want an opinion on it. So basically the jist is that a woman says she got proposed to when her dressing sense was western (she mentioned shirt and pants) and now the husband wants her to do abaya.

My question is, okay the husband has his preferences, maybe hes too possessive etc but he might propose this arrangement to be at ease and for his satisfaction. Okay. Can the woman ask in exchange for him to earn more? Or to be more physically fit? Like propse something so they both are striving towards something and doing something challenging rather then just the wife.

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u/dainty57 — 24 hours ago

Looking for one more client for june

I found some amazing clients from here and currently im looking for one more to hit my full capacity for June. Im attaching my portfolio, so if you like ehat you see, hit me up.

Budget: I prefer a monthly retainer setup, but per project works as well for the right pay.

Heres the portfolio: https://boujee.framer.website/

($3000 monthly retainer)

u/dainty57 — 1 day ago
▲ 2 r/IslamabadSocial+1 crossposts

Hiring an onsite video editor near the airport, Islamabad

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Hiring a video editor near the airport, Islamabad

It is an onsite role and fuel allowance will be covered.

What we're providing:

-Fuel allowance

-training and pc setup for editing

-basic salary comp +bonus

-portfolio setup, you'll own your work

-possibility of position turning remote after 3 to 4 months of joining

What we're looking for

-someone who can edit like this

-https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jX4dLxiso6A

-https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wwIt5ZvROrs

-https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MBoxjX\_-hp8

-https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C2XAojrldYU

-someone that is available long term

-someone who is eager to learn, and picks things up quick.

There will be an initiation test, to check the capability of the candidate. If your interested, dm me and ill send in the links and guide.

u/dainty57 — 10 days ago

My mom loves misery and wants the same for me

I'm the youngest and honestly I be doing most of the work and serving my family like royalty. My mom health is bad, she also recently had a very bad fall, but teh only one she complains to is me. I tell her to take it easy but she doesn't listen and if I try forcing her or anything to take care of herself she fights me, then after she's hurt or in discomfort guess who has to help her through.

Yesterday I helped her haul 35kg to 40kg bags to the the topmost compartment of our wardrobe. I went for groceries and run errands (was gone for a good 1 and half hour) came back and cleaned the whole house I'm talking jharo, pocha and dusting lol. Even then I still made the evening tea, after that I was still expected to put away all the groceries and clean dry the vegetables and fruits. On top of that I was doing dishes on and off.

In all of this all my mom did was make a salan, that I prepped the ingredients for and even then she was complaining and whining abt that.

After doing that guess who made a second dinner for my brother bcz he never eats vegetables and my mom thought he'd miraculously eat vegetables after 27 years of her birthing him🤡 also no one bothered if I ate or not, and I had to make fries as my dinner.

I was on my feet from 3pm and sat down at 11 30 pm. And still all I'm hearing are complaints. I didn't get a good sleep last night, I have such a bad headache, but I'm still hearing abuse hurled at me from my mom, cuz she burned the salan lol, and never gave me instructions to look after it while she went to pray.

I'm a full time student with a part time remote job and a small business, I'm pretty sure I'm gonna fail my exam, but as long as my ocd mother is happy I guess.

Happy mothers day or whatever I guess

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u/dainty57 — 13 days ago

So i use azelaic acid and it's doing wonderful, no more active acne but my case is that as soon as an active Acne goes dormant, a new one activates. I use azelaic acid from skinoren and use it on top of my skincare as final step as previously I damaged my skin barrier.

I'm left with inflamed red acne spots and so far my best option is adapco gel according to my research. My question is should I start incorporating the adapco gel or stick to skinoren and give it more time. I have a trip coming up in september and I wanna be acne/acne-mark less. I also have dry/combination skin. Skinoren is being my clogged pores to the front btw.

I also have the option to get the cereve one, but I have to wait a month for that to arrive

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u/dainty57 — 15 days ago

Back in highschool I had this friend, she wasn't the prettiest or the most stunning, but she was in fact cute. Don't get me wrong very manipulative, but she had the charm and personality and knowing all of that, even I found her cute and endearing as a female myself. One thing was she never hid herself and we all knew her like that. Even the guys that crushed on her knew the fact that she was selfish and manipulative. Heck she had more admirers then the prettiest girl, since as I mentioned she was endearing....

Why am I typing this... Envy one must say. Got triggered while watching a drama where the guy falls for the cutesy endearing girl whereas the pretty accomplished, independent girl is left in the dust lol. I wasn't allowed to develop a personality of my own, in my own house cuz apparently I was too much so I learned to mute myself. Now I cringe at everything and anything. My parents also passed down their moody genes to me as well so that doesn't help the matter add in the fact I get cold feet wayyy to often.

Anyways rants over

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u/dainty57 — 17 days ago
▲ 2 r/ACCA

Basically I wanted to sit for my foundation exams. Financial acconting, I went onto my portal to book for one but it gave me the dates for September intake? Whereas I wanna sit by the end of May. I'm from Pakistan BTW a I missing something? Do I need to call centers and book myself?

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u/dainty57 — 17 days ago

What product did you use and for what reason? I have very stubborn hyperpigmentation that won't go away and Thai skincare has some of the best hyperpigmentation products but Im lost on which one to get

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u/dainty57 — 20 days ago

My sibling is applying for schengen visa and it's a business trip and honestly I'm sweating. I was supposed to start a degree a year ago(think of UoL degree) From Pakistan but I couldn't and hid this from my parents as I wanted to improve my alevel grade.

The visa office is asking for his siblings education and job history. I want to know if my statement of entry(CIE) suffices as proof. My parents and siblings know about me improving my grade so that's not an issue. The issue is I cannot provide the UoL enrollment or exam proof

Please help me out I'm having a panic and anxiety attack.

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u/dainty57 — 25 days ago
▲ 0 r/iran

Basically looking for someone to give me a rough estimate on a certain electronic item(details will be shared in dm). If the prices are good id like to buy them and pay a fee for your service. You'd have to browse Facebook marketplace, an Iranian equavilant of ebay, or even markets to know what the rates are. I'd get a rough idea the first few times so won't waste alot of your time.

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u/dainty57 — 26 days ago