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My Uber driver locked me in his car @ 1am and wouldn't let me out until I gave him enough money. I spoke to police but they said to go to Uber. Now Uber isn't helping. What do I do?

Hello, please excuse the long read! I included lots of detail because I genuinely don't know if I'm overreacting or not. Am I crazy?

I (female) got in a big fight with family which triggered a mental episode. I was supposed to be with my mom but she left me. I ended up walking downtown alone, getting drunk and feeling miserable (stupid decision, I know).

Eventually, sufficiently drunk but not enough to black out, I decide I want to go home or at least crash at my brother's place, so I order an Uber. I don't remember the exact pick-up or drop-off location but I gave support a close estimate.

Anyway, the uber driver (male), picks me up, and I don't remember if he said or did something first that made my instincts kick in, or if he just parked- nearby- right away, but I suddenly wanted OUT of that car.

Problem was, I couldn't get out. The doors were electronically locked and he wouldn't let me. I kept trying it. Over and over.

For some reason calling 911 slipped my mind, and I tried to be as casual and "chill" about it as possible, but I was terrified. We had this back and forth between us that went on for quite a while. I never raised my voice or went hysteric but I was FEELING it. I was wondering what the hell I had to do for this man to let me out of his car- and was terrified of the thought of him putting the car into drive and speeding off into god knows where- so I opened my wallet.

Thankfully, my dad gave me cash earlier. I start offering bills one at a time, keeping them just out of arm's reach so that he'd be forced to unlock my door first.

Eventually he let me out (he might've taken my keys in the process, but I got my locks changed), and soon after I stumbled into three police officers on patrol. In defense of my public intoxication, I explained to them I was trying to get home but this man had locked me in his car and demanded cash. At this point, I was shaking.

I asked the police if there's anything they can do, and perhaps because I wasn't assaulted, they told me to go to Uber support first.

Now it's been a few days. Uber hasn't done ANYTHING. The driver must've cancelled the ride or done something on his end because supposedly, Uber can't verify my pick-up or drop-off location. And now as of today, they said:

Our Community Guidelines say off-app pickups are prohibited. We’ll remind the driver that these guidelines require them to follow the law and to never accept fares outside of the Uber system.

If a ride is completed off-app, we won’t have access to your trip or payment information. Here are some steps you can take to help ensure you’re with the correct driver and your ride is on-app: [insert advice like "check the license plate!! here]

...And then they closed the case.

Absolutely nothing was done off-app (besides him ROBBING ME), as the trip and the fare paid is right there. I opened the case again explaining this to them, but I'm just lost.

What the fuck. Forget a solution, Uber didn't even understand the problem. And now he's still on the road, potentially doing this to others.

Am I crazy? Is nobody going to help me, or punish him? Should I just forget about it lol? What do I do? =(

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u/damagedratgirl — 1 day ago

When I see an ao3 user always kudo-ing the EXACT same fanfics as me:

Spotting them in the kudos list feels like meeting an old friend (we've never spoken to each other)

u/damagedratgirl — 1 month ago

Alcohol has taken everything from me, and all I can do is fantasize about drinking more so it can drag me down again

Well, maybe it hasn't taken everything. I still have a roof over my head, after all.

I've been an alcoholic for a long time, but in the last year or so I've given up on life and myself entirely. I drink, sleep and that's it. My body is weak and deformed, disgusting spider veins creeping over my skin.

The only reason I leave my house is to buy more alcohol, and even that is excruciatingly painful. Lately it feels like I'm summoning the willpower of my ancestors or some shit just to make it to the liquor store.

Tomorrow this will be my greatest task, too. It must be nice to have purpose and a meaning, rather than to relentlessly engage in your own destruction. Who knows.

Sorry guys for the depressing post; it feels nice to type it out as I chug the last of my vodka. Chairs =)

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u/damagedratgirl — 1 month ago

vodka with milk is just. bliss

vodka and milk pair so well in the same glass trust. plus if you don't eat like plenty of us do, the milk can help stabilize ur blood sugars :)) this shit was my LIFE when i was drunkorexic

ice, milk, vodka. added a few drops of sugarfree maple pecan and im in heaven rn. enjoying the high before it crashes lol

ADD MILK TO YOUR VODKA

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u/damagedratgirl — 3 months ago

two large burritos with guac, ready to be vaporized within 20 mins

peace namaste sunshine and rainbows etc etc

u/damagedratgirl — 3 months ago

I LOVE ABUSING MY MEDS I LOVE GETTING DRUNK OFF 3 SHOTS OF VODKA

LIFE HACK!!!! NUKE YOUR INTERNAL ORGANS WITH ONE SIMPLE TRICK

antipsychotics + gabapentin + vodka my beloved, only unmatched by the benzo x booze combo that might send you to the afterlife. shit ///

I hope you guys are having at least a slightly more exciting Saturday night than I am. Chairs

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u/damagedratgirl — 3 months ago

the insane binge eating cycle

-starve yourself

-drink on an empty stomach (food + alcohol is a waste)

-get shitfaced, order or eat a shitfuck of food to stave off alcohol withdrawals

-"omg i'm so fat!" starving cycle repeats

LOL WHEN DOES IT END. I miss the old days (1+ years ago) when I didn't need food at all and would take my head injuries like a champ. I only eat now to make mom happy because I don't want her to see me hospitalized again, but is this life really any better? really?

I have a follow-up at the hospital tomorrow; the stupid Canadian charade where you beg for decent drugs like a dog doing tricks lol. It's 6am now, chairs! pounding last night's leftovers to get started (vodka, sugarfree sweetener and black tea)

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u/damagedratgirl — 3 months ago

the psych ward is worse than worthless for CAs

not like it's my first time, but meh. withdrawing from alcohol atm but nobody cares, or it's not severe enough to warrant medicine, so i've been suffering since friday. I can't talk. I can hardly walk.

I keep saying I want to go home but nobody listens, nobody cares. But they can't keep me here forever.

Once I'm discharged, I'll be stoked to hit the bar, because alcohol has done more for me than this entire shit hospital could. It's the best medicine. Wait for me vodka, I'm coming for you. thought about making prison wine but i wont be here long enough for it to ferment lol. Chairs

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u/damagedratgirl — 3 months ago