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What beaches to visit, main stay in Bangkok

Hello community,
I am planning a trip with my partner to visit Asia, we will start in Japan (Tokyo- Kyoto), stop by Vietnam (Hanoi- Tam Coc) and end in Thailand (main stay is in Bangkok). We are from Mexico so visiting again is very unlikely. We would like to make the most of this trip and part of the goal is to visit some beautiful beaches while in Thailand.

We are staying 10 nights, end of november to early december.

We thought about going to Krabi but considering we are already doing a lot of flights, we would prefer to visit close enought to Bangkok that you can take ground transportation. Also, hotel stays and day excursions seem expensive in Krabi compared to other places.

The main island we have been seeing is Koh Samet. It looks nice, small but easy to explore and with good beaches. However we have heard many different opinions, mainly people saying it is overcrowded on weekends and very polluted with trash along the roads etc. Would it be worth it to stay there 3-4 nights?

We would also love to visit mountain areas, nature reserves, waterfalls, rivers or ancient sites, maybe day trips that leave from Bangkok and come back same day.

Any advice is welcome, as is comments on Koh Samet or other beaches accesible from Bangkok.

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u/driukk — 3 days ago

Thoughts on the new straight guys book 16?

Hello everyone, I know a lot of people read Hazard books asap. I just finished book 16 of the Straight Guys series (Just a bit crushed) and would love to discuss.

I read it in less than 24 hours 😅 so I’m not gonna say its bad… but its starting to feel like the decline of a great series?
I mean, getting 16 books in with a specific trope is already hard, I really applaud her for her creativity and she can 10000% write bomb sex scenes. Once I got into the groove of the book I enjoyed it but it wasn’t there for me like in other previous books.

Specifically I always loved Xavier and Sage, Rutledge and Shawn, Zach and Tristan, Roman and Luke, Dominic and Sam and Nick and Tyler (this last couple has a lot of people on the fence which I understand).
A couple of books in the series before book 9 never really clicked for me (Ryan and James for one and Vlad and Sebastian took a couple of rereads for me to get it more).

Book 10 for me was a complete DNF , ive tried several times and just can’t, it feels “fake” in a way I can’t describe but just ludicrous and I can’t suspend belief enought to finish it. (I know I sound contradictory because several other books are just as ludicrous lol, they just worked for me I guess.)

Unfortunately from book 10 onwards I feel there hasn’t been as STRONG of a couple for me, and it feels more repetitive and like the characters themselves have less depth to them. I also feel they were set in more “normal everyday” scenarios and jobs (once Gabe showed up a bit less due to the fact he was a huge soccer player) but now every single books is like “the super rich sheik” or “the mafia boss” or in this case “F1 champion and billionaire” and it kinda makes me want a simpler storyline that I can relate a bit more to.

This post has no real intention other than expressing my opinions and asking about everyone elses. Would love to talk about this more and if others see the same things I do or not. Friendly discussion! Really hope I dont come off as overly critical or yucking peoples yums, just wanted to share my take as a long time AH fan. This is probably my most re-read series for comfort reads!

Also !> >!the part where Cam who is!< >!super internalized homophobic!< >!as per the authors previous descriptions is blasé about the woman he was flirting with being outed as trans “Why are you so sure I’d have run away screaming if I saw her dick when I undressed her? I’m not that bigoted. She is a woman. A beautiful one.” Feels really weird and out of character. The whole exchange felt super forced. Like why have that whole interaction? Scott came off like a douche for outing the woman and attempting to embarrass her and I felt it was to try to show how progressive or whatever Cam could be but come off just weird and gave me an ick feeling.!<
>!I would absolutely love a trans character who was fully fleshed out and became an integral part of the story (as a bff maybe or sister , etc) but this just felt like a sloppy attempt.!< &gt;!

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u/driukk — 16 days ago

Im practically a ghost by now!

I’ve always done my best to be 100% accommodating to everyone around me. My own wants and desires?? NOPE!! I’ve moved way past that. I no longer have a mind of my own!!

Boyfriend hates my cooking? I change it!
Boss man is super mean to me? Must be something wrong with me!
Mom is always on my back about something? Well, mommy knows best! Never mind the fact that I have my own kids now. I’m still mommy’s favorite little helper.

I’ve done so well in becoming the automaton that society expects of me: buying the picture-perfect decorations for all of our holidays, stifling our little girls’ struggles for autonomy in order to better serve their brothers, and having zero opinions on ethics, racism, or politics!!

Best yet is everyone always comments on how happy and SMILING I always am! Feels awesome to get that sort of glowing feedback; really fills up my empty head!! What’s the trick, they say? Just don’t give a shit about anything but making daddy, mommy, and hubby as happy as can be!

Food pictured is a glass of water, because all the food I slaved over for 3,846 hours is now in the trash after husband got upset because his team lost the game. But it’s all right—ghosts don’t have an appetite at all!! I just need to hydrate a bit before getting to the cleaning!

u/driukk — 2 months ago

Looking for a golden retriever MC, after a heartstopper binge

Hi hello to all!

As the title states, I just did a Heartstopper binge angain and I loooove how Kit Connor embodies the character of Nick Nelson. But for obvious reasons it gives me the ICK to think of those characters involved in the kind of smutty scenes I enjoy from adult novels.

I would love any recs to help get this itch out of my system. Mainly my focus is on how the character is : super wholesome and a golder retriever attitude, is very protective of MC2 (hates to see him bullied etc etc), has an uncontrollable attraction to MC2 (hearts in his eyes, cant help but hug and want to kiss when he is near).

Id rather avoid too syrupy sweet characters, I enjoy that Nick is loveable but is also just enjoying hanging out with Charlie, its not insta love nor is it uber sweet and over the top with compliments etc. They rib each other, are competitive and such.

Hard nos: omegaverse, fantasy.

Would prefer contemporary but historical is ok.

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u/driukk — 2 months ago

Advice needed, how to let out these pants?

Hi there! New to the group, I am asking for advice on how to let these pants out a bit. I bought them wuthout trying them on, knowing they probably wouldnt fit but didnt want to accept it lol!
I would love to let them out a bit more, they are a silky type of cloth, not sure if I should look for a similar cloth in a color close enough to blend, or try to alter the pattern a bit and go for a different look.
Any suggestions welcome :)
Thanks

u/driukk — 3 months ago

HELP, MACBOOK AIR 2018 RUNNING SONOMA CORRUPTED MY EXCEL FILE AND CANNOT RECOVER IT!

I WILL PREFACE THIS TO SAY I AM FREAKING THE FUCK OUT. PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN!

I have a very sensitive excel doc that I work on exclusively on my usb configured to FAT 32 to switch between mac and pc use. (I know that is not the best use for it, just bear with me please for the solutions).

I worked on the file a bit on my Mac, saved the file, ejected it correctly using finder. A couple of hours later, I connected it to my Pc (running on windows 11 which I know I need to update). It opened up to the last version of my file (the previous one to my last update). I wondered what happened, ejected it and went to the Mac again. Now the computer doesnt even recognize the files in the usb, just shows up blank in Finder. Wondering what the hell. A quick search suggested that I use First aid in disk utility, did that, recovered access to all of my files EXCEPT FOR THE ONE I WAS WORKING ON.

Now when I try to open the file it says "cannot open due to file extension" or something like that and I cannot get it to open, even with a previous copy etc. I ejected, went to the PC again, same thing, cannot for the life of me open the file.

I already tried to use a file repair program Tenorhsare 4DDiG, tried opening it using Libre Office, which 1) didnt work and 2) opens a completely empty file.

I am seriously crashing right now. Its at least 5 months of solid data on there that I cannot at all redo, it would literally be impossible.

Please help!! My trusty computer repair person will come tomorrow to check on it, not sure if I should stop fucking around with it or try anything else. She has already let me know that it will likely be hard to recover because Macs have that issue when working directly from a usb and not a file saved to the computer

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u/driukk — 3 months ago
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ASKING FOR SOLUTIONS: MAC CORRUPTED AND EXCEL FILE ON USB, CANNOT REPAIR OR RECOVER

Update: My amazing partner managed to track down, recover and repair a temp file! Saved the day ✨ thank you for the help!!

I WILL PREFACE THIS TO SAY I AM FREAKING THE FUCK OUT. PLEASE HELP IF YOU CAN!

I have a very sensitive excel doc that I work on exclusively on my usb configured to FAT 32 to switch between mac and pc use. (I know that is not the best use for it, just bear with me please for the solutions).

I worked on the file a bit on my Mac, saved the file, ejected it correctly using finder. A couple of hours later, I connected it to my Pc (running on windows 11 which I know I need to update). It opened up to the last version of my file (the previous one to my last update). I wondered what happened, ejected it and went to the Mac again. Now the computer doesnt even recognize the files in the usb, just shows up blank in Finder. Wondering what the hell. A quick search suggested that I use First aid in disk utility, did that, recovered access to all of my files EXCEPT FOR THE ONE I WAS WORKING ON.

Now when I try to open the file it says "cannot open due to file extension" or something like that and I cannot get it to open, even with a previous copy etc. I ejected, went to the PC again, same thing, cannot for the life of me open the file.

I already tried to use a file repair program Tenorhsare 4DDiG, tried opening it using Libre Office, which 1) didnt work and 2) opens a completely empty file.

I am seriously crashing right now. Its at least 5 months of solid data on there that I cannot at all redo, it would literally be impossible.

Please help!! My trusty computer repair person will come tomorrow to check on it, not sure if I should stop fucking around with it or try anything else. She has already let me know that it will likely be hard to recover because Macs have that issue when working directly from a usb and not a file saved to the computer.

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u/driukk — 3 months ago
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Yesterday was the 26th March for the Liberation of Cannabis in Mexico City, 2026. Its one of my favorite events here in the city. Its a super chill day with tens of thousands of people gathering to walk (extremely slowly lol) to a major roundabout on one of the main avenues. The roundabout (El Angel de la Independencia) gets closed down for several hours and there is a bunch of music (some live bands), people painting, people dressed up, everyone smoking!

Love to feel that freedom of being who we are out in the open and showing up as a community.
My husband is travelling so I was super stoked to run into a big group of our friends, sat down to dab and share joints with them a while.

Its an international affair so super curious if anyone went to their cities march?

Pics are of the peak of the march getting to the roundabout, you can still see people getting in from like three blocks downs. Then back in time to before they arrived, for comparison. Its a big avenue with 4 lanes per side. Cant share my videos at the same time, dont know how :/

u/driukk — 4 months ago