u/eden_the_exotic

I have a partner who doesn't live with me yet. He has terrible lifestyle habits, he knows it and is constantly complaining about the consequences, like feeling dizzy all the time, frequent headaches, feeling really down, and so on. He knows this stems from his lifestyle choices and knows what he needs to do to change, yet he doesn't. Today he opened up to me about it, saying he doesn't care what happens to him, he doesn't care enough to make a change. I know he suffers from depression, he’s been seeing a psychologist for about two months now, but I just don't know how to help. I feel like nothing I do is enough, and I get frustrated that I can't help him or change his situation. Sometimes I even wonder if I want to break up with him because of his negativity, but I know it would be selfish of me to leave him for that reason. What can I do to try to help him? Is there actually anything I can do?

Não é como se as pessoas com útero escolhessem menstruar, transar é opção, já menstruar só acontece. Não digo que é pra tirar os preservativos pra substituir por absorventes, mas de qualquer forma é uma coisa necessária, pensando em pessoas em situações vulneráveis que muitas vezes usam o que dá, passando por situações humilhantes e desumanas por conta disso