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Punong-puno ng galit at poot yung puso ko. Bakit ba ganito maging isang babae?

Hi. I’m a victim of violation against Republic Act No. 11313, or also known as the Safe Spaces Act. And the perpetrator is a person working at Bacolod Chicken House Express a.k.a C.H.E.

Nasa procedure na ng resolution ang case na isinampa ko sakanya. Pero ang nakakagalit? Yung ginawa niya saking pambabastos ay First Offense lang which has a fine of ₱ 1,000 only and community service of 12 hours.

I’m not his first victim. Ako lang ang unang nag reklamo. At mga tao sa paligid ko? They keep on enabling him kasi “galante” at “mapag-bigay”. And one personnel in our barangay even said na “Nakita ko siya, namamalengke ah, mukhang mabait na tao, malumanay yung boses”, “Wag kang magagalit ha, tinanong ko siya, sabi ko, oo maganda ka, maputi, pero wala daw siyang interes sayo.” Like, wow. Then magtataka sila bakit ako umabot ng ilang buwan bago mag reklamo eh alam kong ganito yung kahihinatnatan nito?

And for pete’s sake, senior citizen na siya, pero wala parin pinagkatandaan. At habol ko lang naman talaga na magkaron siya ng kaso under his name eh para mahirapan siya kung sakali mag hanap ng trabaho, pero pano? Eh yung owner nga mismo ng C.H.E ang nag hire ng attorney niya. So, please, help me by spreading the word and help me by not enabling a store that enables a perpetrator.

Marami pang inasalan dyan na masarap. Please. Help me. I don’t know what I’m going to do anymore for him to get what he deserves.

Punong-puno ng galit at poot yung puso ko. Hindi ko na alam gagawin ko.

Hi. I’m a v-tim of violation against Republic Act No. 11313, or also known as the Safe Spaces Act. And the perpetrator is a person working at Bacolod Chicken House Express a.k.a C.H.E.

Nasa procedure na ng resolution ang case na isinampa ko sakanya. Pero ang nakakagalit? Yung ginawa niya saking pambabastos ay First Offense lang which has a fine of ₱ 1,000 only and community service of 12 hours.

I’m not his first v-tim. Ako lang ang unang nag reklamo. At mga tao sa paligid ko, they keep on enabling him kasi “galante” at “mapag-bigay”. And one personnel in our barangay even said na “Nakita ko siya, namamalengke ah, mukhang mabait na tao, malumanay yung boses”, “Wag kang magagalit ha, tinanong ko siya, sabi ko, oo maganda ka, maputi, pero wala daw siyang interes sayo.” Like, wow. Then magtataka sila bakit ako umabot ng ilang buwan bago mag reklamo eh alam kong ganito yung kahihinatnatan nito.

And for pete’s sake, senior citizen na siya, pero wala parin pinagkatandaan. At habol ko lang naman talaga na magkaron siya ng kaso under his name eh para mahirapan siya kung sakali mag hanap ng trabaho, pero pano. Eh yung owner nga mismo ng C.H.E ang nag hire ng attorney niya. So, spread the word and help me by not enabling a store that enables a perpetrator.

Marami pang inasalan dyan na masarap. Please. Help me. I don’t know what I’m going to do anymore for him to get what he deserves.

Punong-puno ng galit at poot yung puso ko. Bakit ba ganito maging isang babae.

Hi. I’m a victim of violation against Republic Act No. 11313, or also known as the Safe Spaces Act. And the perpetrator is a person working at Bacolod Chicken House Express a.k.a C.H.E.

Nasa procedure na ng resolution ang case na isinampa ko sakanya. Pero ang nakakagalit? Yung ginawa niya saking pambabastos ay First Offense lang which has a fine of ₱ 1,000 only and community service of 12 hours.

I’m not his first victim. Ako lang ang unang nag reklamo. At mga tao sa paligid ko? They keep on enabling him kasi “galante” at “mapag-bigay”. And one personnel in our barangay even said na “Nakita ko siya, namamalengke ah, mukhang mabait na tao, malumanay yung boses”, “Wag kang magagalit ha, tinanong ko siya, sabi ko, oo maganda ka, maputi, pero wala daw siyang interes sayo.” Like, wow. Then magtataka sila bakit ako umabot ng ilang buwan bago mag reklamo eh alam kong ganito yung kahihinatnatan nito?

And for fuck’s sake, senior citizen na siya, pero wala parin pinagkatandaan. At habol ko lang naman talaga na magkaron siya ng kaso under his name eh para mahirapan siya kung sakali mag hanap ng trabaho, pero pano? Eh yung owner nga mismo ng C.H.E ang nag hire ng attorney niya. So, please, help me by spreading the word and help me by not enabling a store that enables a perpetrator.

Marami pang inasalan dyan na masarap. Please. Help me. I don’t know what I’m going to do anymore for him to get what he deserves.

Punong-puno ng galit at poot yung puso ko. Bakit ba ganito maging isang babae?

Hi. I’m a victim of violation against Republic Act No. 11313, or also known as the Safe Spaces Act. And the perpetrator is a person working at Bacolod Chicken House Express a.k.a C.H.E.

Nasa procedure na ng resolution ang case na isinampa ko sakanya. Pero ang nakakagalit? Yung ginawa niya saking pambabastos ay First Offense lang which has a fine of ₱ 1,000 only and community service of 12 hours.

I’m not his first victim. Ako lang ang unang nag reklamo. At mga tao sa paligid ko? They keep on enabling him kasi “galante” at “mapag-bigay”. And one personnel in our barangay even said na “Nakita ko siya, namamalengke ah, mukhang mabait na tao, malumanay yung boses”, “Wag kang magagalit ha, tinanong ko siya, sabi ko, oo maganda ka, maputi, pero wala daw siyang interes sayo.” Like, wow. Then magtataka sila bakit ako umabot ng ilang buwan bago mag reklamo eh alam kong ganito yung kahihinatnatan nito?

And for pete’s sake, senior citizen na siya, pero wala parin pinagkatandaan. At habol ko lang naman talaga na magkaron siya ng kaso under his name eh para mahirapan siya kung sakali mag hanap ng trabaho, pero pano? Eh yung owner nga mismo ng C.H.E ang nag hire ng attorney niya. So, please, help me by spreading the word and help me by not enabling a store that enables a perpetrator.

Marami pang inasalan dyan na masarap. Please. Help me. I don’t know what I’m going to do anymore for him to get what he deserves.

Punong-puno ng galit at poot yung puso ko. Bakit ba ganito maging isang babae?

Hi. I’m a victim of violation against Republic Act No. 11313, or also known as the Safe Spaces Act. And the perpetrator is a person working at C.H.E.

Nasa procedure na ng resolution ang case na isinampa ko sakanya. Pero ang nakakagalit? Yung ginawa niya saking pambabastos ay First Offense lang which has a fine of ₱ 1,000 only and community service of 12 hours.

I’m not his first victim. Ako lang ang unang nag reklamo. At mga tao sa paligid ko? They keep on enabling him kasi “galante” at “mapag-bigay”. And one personnel in our barangay even said na “Nakita ko siya, namamalengke ah, mukhang mabait na tao, malumanay yung boses”, “Wag kang magagalit ha, tinanong ko siya, sabi ko, oo maganda ka, maputi, pero wala daw siyang interes sayo.” Like, wow. Then magtataka sila bakit ako umabot ng ilang buwan bago mag reklamo eh alam kong ganito yung kahihinatnatan nito?

And for pete’s sake, senior citizen na siya, pero wala parin pinagkatandaan. At habol ko lang naman talaga na magkaron siya ng kaso under his name eh para mahirapan siya kung sakali mag hanap ng trabaho, pero pano? Eh yung owner nga mismo ng C.H.E ang nag hire ng attorney niya. So, please, help me by spreading the word and help me by not enabling a store that enables a perpetrator.

Marami pang inasalan dyan na masarap. Please. Help me. I don’t know what I’m going to do anymore for him to get what he deserves.

Problem/Goal: Me (Femme Lesbian) at yung pinagseselosan ko na lalaking kaibigan ng gf (Pansexual Masc) ko ay nagkita na.

Context: Pumunta muna sakin gf ko bago sila pumunta ng lamay nung lalaki dahil namatay yung mutual friend nila. And sasabay siya sa lalaki na yon para pumunta sa lamay. Kaya sinundo siya nung lalaki sa streets namin. So, ayun na nga, andun na yung lalaki and dala-dala ko pa helmet ng gf ko para ako mag suot sakanya and kilig na kilig naman siya. And nung magkaharap na kami nung lalaki, sabi ng gf ko “(Name nung lalaki), si (name ko) gf ko”, “(Name ko), si (name nung lalaki) na may malaking t*t*.” Which is kinagulat ko and nanlaki talafa mata ko but I didn’t let it affect me that much kasi sobrang laki ng ngiti ng gf ko na nagkita na kami ng pinagseselosan ko. We kissed and I just said ingat while still being in shock with what she said. And ngayon, sobrang off ko na sa gf ko knowing na alam niya na ayoko talaga sa lalaking yon and pumayag parin ako na sumabay siya don thinking na baka ang oa ko lang talaga tapos ganon pa sinabi niya.

Previous Attempts: May time na muntik na kami mag break dahil gusto niya mag pasama dun sa guy sa driving school niya which is wtf kasi andito ako hello pero hindi niya ko nakitang option para samahan siya.

And now, I don’t know what to do. Why is my gf acting like that? And why would she even say those things? Sobrang na off ako na gusto ko na makipag hiwalay sakanya. Nakakatangina.

Problem/Goal: To know if it’s normal for her to still have a type in guys even we’re together?

Context: Me (Fem Lesbian) and my gf (Masc Pansexual) talked about our types in guys, again. She was teasing me about my types in guys that we talked about even before we started dating. And sinabi ko sakanya na obviously wala na kong type sa guys or anything of that sort kasi siya lang ang type ko at attractive in my eyes and wala na akong pakielam sa guys.

I brought up that convo again, asking her about sa type niya sa guys cuz I really want to know if she’ll respond how I responded. But, of course, she didn’t, and that broke my heart. She said na type niya nga daw sa guys is singkit and maputi na parang ako daw pero lalaki nga lang. So, I jokingly said na “Ah, ako pero may *t*ts lang?”, sabay sabi niyang “Sa mukha naman ako tumitingin eh”.

Dagdagan pa natin na madalas siya mag biro na sguro daw kung may *t*ts lang ako, sinubo niya na. Hindi ko alam kung pang dedegrade ba sa guys yung ganong biro niya sakin o ewan kaya lagi ko nalang sinasabayan kasi I don’t want to reek of insecurities and maybe biro nga lang talaga and ayoko naman maging kill joy or seryoso sa lahat ng bagay. And alam ko naman na ako lang mahal niya and nadadama ko naman yon.

But, I just can’t help but think twice about our relationship kasi feel ko hindi na ko secure eh, like pakiramdam ko anytime ipagpapalit niya ko sa may *t*ts kahit na sinasabi niya na never niya daw na imagine yung sarili niyang sumubo.

Goal/Question: What should I do about this? I don’t know how I’ll communicate this to her lalo na sobrang off ko na sakanya about it that I tend to iwas to her kisses and stopped saying i love you back.