What to do when a friend is always disagreeing or dismissing your feelings when venting?
Some background info: I have this friend and we’re in a group chat with our other two friends. I vent in the group chat, very rarely tho and I’ll say “I’m just complaining” followed by what I’m complaining about. I’m not asking for my friends thoughts or opinions but I just want them to listen. But this one friend always replies back with a disagreeing opinion. To which we end up arguing and lose the main focus of what I was really complaining about in the first place. It makes me feel stupid about myself for even complaining about something or how I feel. It makes me think that in the future when I want to vent or complain to a friend I shouldn’t do it with them around so that I wouldn’t feel dismissed or stupid about myself. There are times where I think about how I don’t want to be friends with this person anymore. So how should I deal with a friend who makes me feel this way when I wanna talk about my feelings or complaints about certain topics?