u/fabreazebrother_1

Looking for walking/smoking friends on the Seneca trail..
▲ 207 r/Rochester

Looking for walking/smoking friends on the Seneca trail..

Im 35 and early into transitioning so be queer friendly and around my age please. I want to specifically be on the Seneca trail because it's the only one I can walk to without having to arrange an RTS access short bus trip a day in advance and have money ready for that. I live on disability for being visually impaired and can't drive and don't like to depend on my short bus to have a life so I mostly do things within walking distance. If you're active and also enjoy smoking, walking and talking we might get along. If you have a small friendly dog that my dog could be friends with that would be cool too.

u/fabreazebrother_1 — 1 day ago

What is a non-pathetic way to introduce myself to functional adults that I've lived on social security since I was 16 and now I'm 35 and my day to day life alone in housing as a single disabled person is preposterous compared to the freedom they have?

I look able bodied and have a visual impairment. I want to go to a nice bar on my embarrassing short bus to meet people and not be judged for everything I dont have when I introduce myself to them.. all I do is get through each day with my pets waiting for the 1st of the month.. I get high and watch endless YouTube or rewatch shows. I stay active with exercise and take walks on trails..

I collect video games that I don't play because I just like the nostalgia.. oh yeah I'm a few months into transitioning to a woman now too.. what can I do to own all this about myself and be likeable to cool people that aren't broken like I am?

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u/fabreazebrother_1 — 3 days ago

Just in time too because I was sober, being existential and thinking about everything I don't have. Now I have this and after I smoke it I won't be caring about anything.

u/fabreazebrother_1 — 16 days ago

Both of my pets were given to me unexpectedly when they were a pup and kitten and I just been adjusting to the responsibility of pet ownership to the extent that I'm capable of while living on fixed income and not having the ability to drive.. they're both neutered and have their original rabies shots that were required by the apartments I've lived in. My dog Buddy is 8 and my cat Lucas is 3. They're bonded and need to be together. It is not within my reality to have hundreds or thousands saved for vet bills or to pay monthly insurance for both of them just to still not be able to afford a reduced rate in an emergency. I live forever alone without any family or friends to depend on incase I have an emergency myself...if anything happens to me at any time they are just hours away from not having what they need and possibly being locked in the bathroom waiting for me if my emergency happens while I'm outside of my apartment. What foster home would take both of them at the same time on short notice and be able to afford to care for them when they inevitably start having health problems I'm not prepared for or also the possibility of just caring for them and then giving them back to me if I have an emergency of my own? They deserve a real adult that can solve a problem.

u/fabreazebrother_1 — 21 days ago

I spent the last year organizing and curating this playlist filled with the songs that mean the most to me across a dozen genres. I organized the songs by genre and made sure they all sound good next to each other.. when you use shuffle it puts you in the middle of a new genre and then you can turn it off.. it's meant to be low effort so I can yell at Alexa without having to do any song searching in the middle of chilling.

u/fabreazebrother_1 — 25 days ago