What is she and how can I make her less ugly?
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What is she and how can I make her less ugly?

I’m ashamed to say, but I hate everything about this plant. I’m new to the plant parent life and I can’t tell if I’m doing something wrong or just am not a fan of this particular type of plant.

She’s so leggy, leaves sticking out in different directions and just damn ugly. Also when I bought her the leaves were a lighter green and now have become darker. I’m not ready to give up on her, so please give advice/suggestions

Care:
North-east facing window supplemented with grow light
Chunky soil mix with perlite, coco coir and bark
Watering when the top few inches of soil are dry
Fertilising approximately once a month (it’s summer here)

u/freespiriting — 3 days ago

How has quitting/reducing social media usage affected your life and ADHD?

Give me some motivation to keep this no-instagram streak going 🥲

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u/freespiriting — 9 days ago

GP Practice Nurse interview help

Hi all,

Got an interview coming up for a Practice Nurse role in GP land.

I have never worked in primary care before, all experience has been acute.

Please suggest some things to read up about/ sample interview questions/what to expect

TIA!

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u/freespiriting — 29 days ago

Got this rooted monstera adansonii - what should I do?

New to the plant parent world.

Got this lil guy for £1 in the garden centre clearance.

Roots look pretty healthy, a couple that are brown and mushy which I will remove. Leaves aren’t looking so great, the newest leaf is yellowing and dry.

Should I a) leave in prop container with fresh water b) pot in potting mix and should I chop leaves off and start again? Or some other option that i haven’t thought of!

Putting in a north east window

u/freespiriting — 1 month ago

New plant parent win! My ficus has started branching 🥰

Rescued this ficus from the clearance section for £2 in the middle of June!

It only had 4 leaves, has already pushed out 2 with another on the way. What is exciting me more is that it has started spontaneously branching further down the stem!!

This was definitely a great first plant rescue option, so easy to look after and soooo rewarding. I’m so happy 🥹🥰

u/freespiriting — 1 month ago

Brown mark on petiole - fungus gnats?!

New to the plant parent game.

1st pic - petiole with imperfection
2nd pic - newest leaf

I saw a couple tiny little black bugs with wings flying around my monstera and noticed an imperfection on the newest petiole - is this fungus gnats, and if so, what do i do?! I haven’t had any issues with pests so far so i am a bit clueless.

I have now quarantined her but she was in a north-east facing window with a supplemental grow light.

soil is a chunky mix with potting soil, chunky bark, perlite, leca and worm castings.

watering when around 50% of soil is dry, however i am a bit of an underwaterer so she probably gets drier than that..

u/freespiriting — 1 month ago

NHS professionals clinical interview questions

Hiya

Got an interview for NHSP coming up

Any idea on things to brush up on? Have been out of the NHS for nearly a year, so please let me know if there is anything vital you think I need to read up on!

So far I’m thinking:
- NHS 6 c’s
- Martha’s rule
- Management of deteriorating patient
- Dealing with conflict

I have experience as Band 5 in Critical Care, Emergency Department and Acute medical wards

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u/freespiriting — 1 month ago

Anyone always feel tired if they are woken up by an alarm?

Wondering if this is an ADHD thing, becasue nobody else in my life experiences this

If I don't wake up naturally, despite possibly having 9+ hours of sleep, I feel exhausted ALL day

I slept so well last night and for around 10 hours, but because I woke up at 9am and my body likes to wake up at 11am, I feel absolutely shattered and like I could fall asleep at any moment

Im so tired of feeling tired all the time!

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u/freespiriting — 2 months ago

Which windows for which plants?!

New to the plant parent game and feeling confused as to where to put my plants! When I research on google, all the information is very conflicting.

My house is kinda light challenged so I currently have all my plants on a north-east facing window sill, supplemented with a grow light

On this window sill I have
- Monstera deliciosa
- Pilea
- Pink princess philodendron
- Ficus elastica
- Spider plant

The pilea, PPP and spider I saved from neglect so they aren’t looking pretty, but are putting out new growth and getting by. The monstera and ficus are relatively new to me, so I haven’t seen much of a change yet.

I think I’m just gonna keep as is and see what happens, but I want my plants to thrive not just survive!

In your experience, which plants do best in which windows?

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u/freespiriting — 2 months ago

How many candidates are being interviewed for Band 5 roles?

Got an interview for an acute inpatient Band 5 role. I will be new to the trust.

I have around 2 years experience in the speciality and a further 3 years in acute settings

A couple of years ago, I would’ve felt confident about getting the role but now, due to the current recruitment situation, I am not too sure….

What am I up against? I want to be realistic about the situation and not get my hopes up.

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u/freespiriting — 2 months ago

Got this philo for £3, what is she?

New to plant parenthood. I’m thinking she’s a PPP but there’s only the smallest amount of pink variegation on one of the leaves.

u/freespiriting — 2 months ago

Rescued monstera, is this rust fungus?

2 look like this, 2 newer leaves look fine

u/freespiriting — 2 months ago

I hate being an outsider

I hate always being an outsider

I hate always being on the fringe.

I’ve never managed to assimilate into any groups: not when I was at university, not at the work or with my husband’s friends.

I feel like I constantly self-monitor and I’m so hyper vigilant, constantly monitoring other people’s tone of voice and body language towards me.

I wish I was funny but I don’t really know how to be, I can’t let go enough and I never have anything to say.

I want so badly to find my tribe and find my place in the world, but I’m 29 and I don’t know if I’ll ever be able to.

It feels like this loneliness is everlasting. I just want to feel free and not shackled by my mind :(

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u/freespiriting — 2 months ago