u/galinda_with_a_guh

I think mine would be:

Better Than Revenge(Live)
ATW 10 Minute Version
The Prophecy
Nothing New ft Phoebe Bridgers
happiness
it's time to go
my tears ricochet
The Other Side Of The Door
The Black Dog
peace

I've been told a few times that I appear to be either a 9, 2, or 4 but especially so/sx 9 in the past few days and I can relate to all of these types and desires/fears somewhat (except for 2 pretty much lol) but I don't relate that much to the description of either 9s or 4s. I'm an incredibly bubbly, extroverted, and others focused person (to a fault and genuinely not out of a "i'm others focused for what they can do for me" way). But I wonder maybe I just can't relate to the descriptions on most types because Idk what a social version of these types look like in reality.

This is not a healthy instinct of mine in any way, shape, or form and I'm working on it and through it every time it pops up. Nonetheless, it is my impulse that whenever I feel like I'm being left out or excluded I just feel like "ok well if you don't want me here then I don't want to be here" and leave. Whether that's physically, leaving group chats, deleting the apps so i don't have to look at it, etc. I definitely do think this is an inherited trait from, but I have realized in my 20s the toxicity of it.

Hi!! So I received a small roll on of Skylar Milk and Chill when I was enrolled in a subscription with them and i just pulled it back out and love the scent! But it isss just a roll on and I would love a perfume or even body spray that I could spray on top to really enhance that smell or even one that would just go rlly well with it!
top notes: Oat Milk, Whipped Pear, Sheer Peach Middle notes: Jasmine Blossom, Vibrant Woods,
Warm Amber, Brown Sugar
Base notes: Cocooning Musks, Creamy / Warm Vanilla Cream, Cedarwood Virginia EO

How old are you?
I'm a 26F !
• ⁠What do you do as a job or as a career (if you have one)?:
I'm an manager of an ice cream and chocolate store
Do you like it? Why or why not?:
For the most part yes, but I hate when it's slow and I'm here by myself, I feel like I'm going insane lol
• ⁠Describe your childhood/upbringing. Did it have any kind of ideological or structured influence?
Oh! I genuinely had incredible parents, but I grew up in a legalistic cult that my family didn't leave it until I was 21/22 (women had to be submissive to every man, could not wear pants, tank tops, etc) so that was definitely hard on me specifically growing up cause I was the only girl with 2 older brothers.
• ⁠Do you have any mental or physical health issues that might affect how think or choose to live?
I have OCD (like the real kind and not the stereotypical "i like things spotless and organized" kind lol)
• ⁠If you had to spend an entire weekend by yourself, how would you feel? Would you feel lonely or refreshed?
That's actually a nightmare! I would enjoy it probably for a couple hours just to be able to be loud and watch movies without being interrupted, but after that was done I would immediately be on the phone with someone.
• ⁠How curious are you? Do you have more ideas then you can execute?
I like to know fun facts and facts about specific areas I'm into, but i'm not really a "I need to ask a million questions" person (to my downfall honestly)
• ⁠Would you enjoy taking on a leadership position? Do you think you would be good at it? What would your leadership style be?
I am in a leadership position! I do enjoy it and excel at it, but I would never want to be the sole leader and have every failure reflect back on me. I'm definitely a "leading by example" and servant leader by nature, but I adapt into what I need to be.
• ⁠Do you prefer hands on activities or working with your hands in some form? Describe your activities.
Yeah love! I love guitar, baking/cooking, basketball, soccer, board games, interactive games, etc!
• ⁠Are you artistic? If yes, describe your art? If you are not particular artistic but can appreciate art please likewise describe what forums of art you enjoy. Please explain your answer.
I mean I sing and love music/songwriting but only when something hits me and I have to write it down. The writing part doesn't really come naturally to me.
• ⁠What's your opinion about the past, present, and future? How do you deal with them?
Past is good so you can help become a better person but focusing on it and what "should have been" is a detriment. Present is the best way to live. Future is something I can't help but think about and planning is important and I dream about it, but I'm more so inclined to focus on the present.
• ⁠How do you act when others request your help to do something (anything)? If you would decide to help them, why would you do so?
Oh I'm immediately there! If someone genuinely needs my help who am I to deny my fellow man. Community can't exist with inconveniencing yourself in at least some way. I feel honored if someone reaches out to me for help at all.
• ⁠Do you need logical consistency in your life?
Yeah, that's why I didn't do well in that cult. I definitely always felt like a black sheep there because I was constantly questioning the inconsistencies of everything and that was frowned upon.
• ⁠How important is efficiency and productivity to you?
I want to be as efficient and productive as possible. Side tasks and details can sometimes piss me off lol cause you need to know the priority and focus on that.
• ⁠Do you control others, even if indirectly? How and why do you do that?
Uh I would say not at all. I can be persuasive ig, but not controlling.
• ⁠How good are you at strategizing? Do you easily break up projects into manageable tasks? Or do you have a tendency to wing projects and improvise as you go?
I think I'm very good at this. I can almost picture everything and the whole plan in my head and am able to see visually the priority and am able to break it up into different tasks for everyone based on their specific skills, but I'm also very good at improvising and on my feet. I think I excel most when I have to improvise.
• ⁠What's important to you and why?
God, my family, my friends, and just being an overall good person to my fellow man(that's so cheesy but like I genuinely mean it)
• ⁠How attached are you to reality? Do you daydream often, or do you pay attention to what's around you? If you do daydream, are you aware of your surroundings while you do so?
I daydream quite often and have ever since I was a kid, but i never daydream to the point where I'm detached from my actual life and what's going on around me.
• ⁠Imagine you are alone in a blank, empty room. There is nothing for you to do and no one to talk to. What do you think about?
Pray that I don't lose my mind. Not only would there being absolutely nothing to do make me freak out, but I'm also claustrophobic!
• ⁠How long do you take to make an important decision? And do you change your mind once you've made it?
Funny enough it takes me longer to make minute decisions (like what i'm eating for dinner) than actually important decisions. If it's a big decision I usually end up acting on impulse.
• ⁠How long do you take to process your emotions? How important are emotions in your life?
Immediately and move on. I'm not really a dweller ever since my frontal lobe developed. Emotions are obviously important but i usually end up finding something else more important than just how I feel.
• ⁠Do you ever catch yourself agreeing with others just to appease them and keep the conversation going? How often? Why?
Yeah I unfortunately I do this all the time, unless it's something that's really important to me/I feel really strongly about then no I will not do that.
• ⁠Do you break rules often? Do you think authority should be challenged, or that they know better? If you do break rules, why would you?
I will challenge rules first and have an open dialogue about them first, but I'm not just going to continue to follow a rule that I wholeheartedly disagree with.