u/geogrokat

My husband and I are planning a gathering for friends and family in early June. We're looking at a few places (Bayview, Sanders Beach) but in case those are booked, what are some cheap/free places that we could have a gathering of ~50 people?

I want to avoid parks if possible bc they need to be wheelchair accessible. The beach is also ruled out for this reason, unless the gazebos don't need to be rented.

Unpopular opinion but just rinsing your vulva with water is not doing anything to help with the odor. I've seen a lot of discourse about what kind of feminine wash to use, if any, and erred on the side of caution and listened to the "water only" crowd.

Welp, I thought I was doing everything right but the cooch smell wouldn't go away. I gave in and used my face wash, just to see what would happen...

...and like magic, the odor is gone and I feel way cleaner. I feel so gross that I wasn't doing this all along bc the idea of putting ANY kind of soap anywhere near my nether regions terrified me.

All of this to say, your down-belows aren't going to shrivel up and die because you wanted to use soap. Unless you've been medically instructed not to, it's your body! Whatever works for you, works for you.

And to stave off all of the "but don't put it IN your vagina!!" comments, I know!

I always see people asking for the best places to do xyz in town.

I wanna know where to avoid like the plague

Restaurants, bars, stores, anything!