Official Merch or Custom Jewelry?

Official Merch or Custom Jewelry?

If you had to choose, which do you lean toward as a reminder of your beloved: official merch or customized jewelry?

I've noticed that a lot of fictos and yumes wear rings, necklaces, or other custom pieces that are full of personal symbolism representing their bond with their f/o, and I always find that really endearing! On the other hand, official merch can also feel really special because it's directly connected to the character. (๑• ω •๑)

So if you had to pick one, which would you choose, and why? Is it the sentimental meaning behind something custom, or the appeal of owning official merchandise? I'd love to hear what everyone values more. 🤍

✨Also, for those of you who own official jewelry merch, how has the quality been? Do you feel it's worth the price, and has it held up well over time, or does it tend to tarnish or show wear after a while? ✨

(Note: Pic isn’t mine! But I’m currently deciding whether I want to get that exact necklace.)

u/gildrot — 2 days ago

*gently touches the tip of his tongue with my fingertip*

can’t sleep even though my brain is getting really hazy with exhaustion so i’m staying up and staring at this badge of shigaraki while mitski’s “my love mine all mine” plays in my room. mood, i guess? /lh

this is a really nothing-burger post. i’m just thinking about how much i love him while i convince myself to at least nap the thoughts off. i have so many of them. like, i love him so much i’d give him the moon. tonight’s tired, emotional and strange.

u/gildrot — 3 days ago
▲ 1 r/Buyee

Can I request to buy a specific item from a bundle listing?

Hello! Asking for those who might know or have done this before. I vaguely recall that this was possible if I contacted buyee to ask the seller on my behalf, but I wanted to check with others first in case I’m misremembering.

Say, I want a single badge from a listing that shows a bunch of other merchandise. Should I ask the buyee staff to help me communicate that?

Also, how would I know how much I’ll be charged for that specific item (or does the seller just… post it without discussion)? If a new listing is created for me, and it’s too expensive, am I obligated to buy said item?

Thank you!!

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u/gildrot — 7 days ago

Caught the No. 2 Hero! ✨

Hiiii everyone!! Long time no post! I took a break from reddit because I badly needed an internet detox, but I’m back now. c:

And I’m breaking my silence with one of the CUTEST pieces of Hawks merch I have ever seen in my life! (˵ •̀ ᴗ •́ ˵ ) ✧

Look at him. He’s so tiny. Just a little guy. 🤏🏻 10/10, would waste all my spare change trying to win him from a real life claw machine.

(Seriously though, look at how detailed this standee is!! I fell in love when I saw the rest of the Hawks plushies peeking out at the bottom. I neeeed to squeeze all of them. :3c)

u/gildrot — 7 days ago

Help me choose! ❤️

These aren’t my photos (random listing shots), but I’ve been wanting to get one of these Aizawa merch pieces for the past few weeks! I just can't decide between the can badge or the keychain!! 🥲

Which one do you guys think looks better?

My thoughts so far:

I usually gravitate toward can badges since I can put them in my ita bag without worrying too much about scratches. Plus, you can display way more can badges than keychains in an ita bag window. But the keychain is SO cute too?! I love the shade of grey/green they used—it looks pretty with the gold—and the little "World Best Hero" text is just 🥺🥺🥺.

Lmk your opinions in the comments on which I should grab! Thank youuu! 💛🤍

u/gildrot — 7 days ago

Help me choose! ♡

These aren’t my photos (random listing shots), but I’ve been wanting to get one of these Aizawa merch pieces for the past few weeks! I just can't decide between the can badge or the keychain!! 🥲

Which one do you guys think looks better?

My thoughts so far:

I usually gravitate toward can badges since I can put them in my ita bag without worrying too much about scratches. Plus, you can display way more can badges than keychains in an ita bag window. But the keychain is SO cute too?! I love the shade of grey/green they used—it looks pretty with the gold—and the little "World Best Hero" text is just 🥺🥺🥺.

Lmk your opinions in the comments on which I should grab! Thank youuu! 💛🤍

u/gildrot — 8 days ago
▲ 15 r/BG3

Question about Jaheira!! Please give me your opinions! <3

Hello everyone! 💛 Hope this is alright to ask here. Like the title says, I have a question regarding Jaheira that I didn’t wanna google because I’m trying to avoid as many spoilers as possible! :’)

So I’m currently doing Act 2 in a co-op session with my friend and we’re at the part where we’ve gathered all the harpers and have started to attack Moonrise Tower.

The issue is, we’ve accidentally let Jaheira die during one of the fights. Normally I would just let it be what it is, but this is the only multiplayer session me and my friend are planning to do, so I wanted to ask: are we missing out on a lot of good content if we let her stay dead? 💀

Or is it worth reloading and saving her so we don’t get locked out of anything?

No spoilers please! Just give me your opinions (and keep them vague) if you’ve already completed the game. Thank you so much! 🤍🤍🤍

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u/gildrot — 11 days ago

Question about Jaheira!

Hello everyone! 💛 Like the title says, I have a question regarding Jaheira that I didn’t wanna google because I’m trying to avoid as many spoilers as possible! :’)

So I’m currently doing Act 2 in a co-op session with my friend and we’re at the part where we’ve gathered all the harpers and have started to attack Moonrise Tower.

The issue is, we’ve accidentally let Jaheira die during one of the fights. Normally I would just let it be what it is, but this is the only multiplayer session me and my friend are planning to do, so I wanted to ask: are we missing out on a lot of good content if we let her stay dead? 💀

Or is it worth reloading and saving her so we don’t get locked out of anything?

No spoilers please! Just give me your opinions (and keep them vague) if you’ve already completed the game. Thank you so much! 🤍🤍🤍

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u/gildrot — 11 days ago

don’t turn me into a marketable plushie, nooo 😑

New plushie!

Aizawa looks so unimpressed LOL. For context, this is a jaded thirty-one-year old man who works as both a highschool teacher and an underground hero. He hates the spotlight. And now he’s T-posing for dominance. 💕🗿

Are you the type to collect plushies of your f/o? Do you only have one or many of them? This is an invitation to show me your favs, if you want! (´꒳`)♡

u/gildrot — 2 months ago

don’t turn me into a marketable plushie, nooo 😑

New plushie!

Aizawa looks so unimpressed LOL. For context, this is a jaded thirty-one-year old man who works as both a highschool teacher and an underground hero. He hates the spotlight. And now he’s T-posing for dominance. 💕🗿

Are you the type to collect plushies of your f/o? Do you only have one or many of them? This is an invitation to show me your favs, if you want! (´꒳`)♡

u/gildrot — 2 months ago

don’t turn me into a marketable plushie, nooo 😑

Hiya guys, how’s everyone doing in this sub? c: Are we feeling okay? Did you do anything new last weekend? Mine was a bit of a rollercoaster until I got this new Eraserhead Nui Pal in the mail. 🤭🥰

Aizawa looks so unimpressed LOL. He’s T-posing for dominance. 💕

Do any of y’all have a plush of your f/o from this line? If not, what’s your favorite plush of your partner, official or fanmade? I’m ordering the Shigaraki Nui Pal too because whatever fabric they used for these is sooo soft. I can’t resist. ( ⸝⸝´꒳`⸝⸝)

u/gildrot — 2 months ago

First post here! Come say hi + look at this new figure I got of my bby? 💛🤍 c:

Hi everyone! 🤍
I’m new here, and a little bit shy, but I’d like to get to know everyone and their partners. ;u; If you want to, please feel free to leave a comment telling me about yourself and your beloved. ᕙ( •̀ ᗜ •́ )ᕗ I’m always happy to yap about anything, even if my social battery isn’t the best.

Also, I didn’t know what to write for my first post without sounding awkward, so here’s the newest piece of merch I got of my f/o! -`♡´-

[ Incoming gush ]
𝐍𝐨𝐰 𝐥𝐨𝐚𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠. . .

Look!! Look at him! I was so excited when they announced the SH Figuarts Shigaraki and now he’s here!! ♡(੭´͈ ᐜ `͈)੭ .ᐟ.ᐟ

My phone’s camera doesn’t even come close to doing him justice, I snapped these pics in the middle of the night immediately after unboxing him so the image quality is rough BUT HE’S SO AGSJSKDKDL!!! And the box itself is gorgeous?! I was tempted to keep him sealed, but I decided to order him a stand instead. It’s gonna be shipped soon so I can display him properly. <3

My dusty babyyy. My beautiful crusty boy. 🥹🥰🥰🥰✨

u/gildrot — 2 months ago

Look!! Look at him! I was so excited when they announced the SH Figuarts Shigaraki and now he’s here!! ♡(੭´͈ ᐜ `͈)੭ .ᐟ.ᐟ

My phone’s camera doesn’t even come close to doing him justice, I snapped these pics in the middle of the night immediately after unboxing him so the image quality is rough BUT HE’S SO AGSJSKDKDL!!! And the box itself is gorgeous?! He’s supposed to be SO posable but part of me’s tempted to keep him safe and sealed. 👀 What do we say, chat? Do I keep him trapped or set him free?

My dusty babyyy. My beautiful crusty boy. 🥹🥰🥰🥰

u/gildrot — 2 months ago

I am having a day™ today, so I guess I’ll talk about a fun memory. (´。•ᵕ•。`)

Have you guys ever tried any of those wafer or biscuit snacks that were part of a MHA collab? The ones where you get a mini mystery prize like a sticker or a card?

Me and my irl partner went shopping a few months ago and bought a couple at the local anime shop because we love the thrill of blind boxes. :p The prizes in this particular collab were plastic standees and you could pull literally any main character from the show!! There were so many! We scored a couple of Class A students, except on the last pack, I was like— “haha, wouldn’t it be funny if Aizawa was in here?” before, I kid you not, actually pulling out his standee. 😭😭😭

asdfggjkll i was soooo hyped, i lost my mind. he’s in the photo above. ( • ̀ω•́ )੭ ✧´- the shigaraki one wasn’t as lucky—it was a freebie someone gave me when i bought a keychain.

ps. the snacks tasted like cardboard and cheap chocolate so i fed them all to my partner lmaoooo. you should get them. 10/10 experience, would buy again.

u/gildrot — 2 months ago

That’s it. That’s the entire post. I have nothing more of substance to add.

I’m so down bad. 🙃😔🫠

SHOTA AIZAWAAAA THE MAN THAT YOU ARE. 💞💞💞🙇🏻‍♂️ asgsghsjdkl

They call the spin-off “My Hero Academia: Vigilantes (Illegals)” because it's illegal how good-looking he is. 🤭

u/gildrot — 2 months ago

LOOOOOL this is frying me so bad. ꉂꉂ(≧ᗜ≦ )

i saw this picrew floating around and decided to turn Solis into a worm (or a wyrm i guess??). couldn’t stop laughing to myself the whole time because my sense of humour is awful ahsjkdl :p ;;;;

u/gildrot — 2 months ago

✦ Character Summary: Solis (Shou Faye / 翔) ✦

>age: 22
height: 174 cm
quirk type: mutant/emitter hybrid
status: pro hero (18th)

overview.

i. childhood & core identity

Born as ‘Shou’, Solis was a child never meant to exist: the illegitimate daughter of a wealthy man and a mistress who abandoned her soon after birth. Following her father’s mysterious death, she was taken in by her cold and powerful grandmother, who raised her not out of love, but obligation. Hidden away on the Faye estate, Solis grew up in confined opulence: luxurious halls that echoed with coldness, staff who rarely acknowledged her, and a family who treated her as an invisible blemish on the family’s pristine name. Her identity was redacted before it was even written. She became painfully quiet and anxious, shrinking herself to avoid burdening others, speaking only when spoken to, tiptoeing through hallways like an intruder. Desperate for affection, she clung to the idea that if she were obedient, polished, and useful enough—if she could simply be seen—maybe she could earn a sliver of love.

The only warmth in her isolated world came from her older half-brother, Sasha Faye. Groomed as the family's heir, Sasha defied expectations by cherishing Shou as his sister, never blaming her for their father's folly. His kindness became her lifeline.

Yet beneath all that fragility, there was a quiet resilience. A gentle stubbornness.

・❤︎ At fifteen, Shou slipped away from the Faye estate, timid yet determined, knowing that leaving would mean being disowned. She left not to rebel but to chase hope. She eventually joins Shiketsu as a hero-in-training.

・❤︎ Becoming ‘Solis’ was her attempt at becoming undeniable. Through her climb, she never stops seeking the pride and acceptance of a family that had spurned her, dreaming that one day she might return; not invisible, but recognized and worthy.

ii. quirk: dragon hybrid

Dragon Hybrid is a powerful heteromorphic mutation quirk that grants the user partial draconic physiology and limited flame emission capabilities. Manifestations include:

  • Golden, heat-resistant scales that provide exceptional durability (she cannot be burned)
  • Large, leathery wings capable of sustained flight
  • Retractable claws and a muscular tail used for balance and close-quarters combat
  • Prominent horns
  • The ability to generate gold flames from the mouth, chest, or limbs

The user exhibits enhanced strength, agility, and environmental resistance consistent with high-end mutation quirks. The flames produced are uniquely high in temperature, capable of melting reinforced steel. However, the flames behave chaotically and are difficult to shape or direct with precision, limiting their use in delicate operations.

[ LIMITATIONS ]

  • Flame emission is tied to emotional state and physical stamina; overuse can cause exhaustion or temporary loss of control
  • Flame output cannot be manipulated post-ignition (basically no pyrokinesis); Solis must rely on trajectory and positioning
  • Extended flight with flame usage increases caloric demand and fatigue
  • Cold temperatures and subzero environments present a significant weakness. As a cold-blooded mutant/heteromorph, Solis is highly susceptible to frostbite, and exposure to extreme cold can severely impair her physical abilities. Her draconic physiology thrives in warmer temperatures, but extreme cold can cause rapid fatigue and potentially hinder her ability to generate or control flames. Protective gear is required for missions in low-temperature environments, or she might not survive otherwise.

・❤︎ Notable History / Usage:

Solis has served on multiple high-risk urban search-and-rescue and villain suppression teams. Her resilience in volatile environments and ability to act as a mobile flame tank make her highly effective in team-based operations. She is best known for her specialization in wildfire containment and disaster relief missions, where her fire immunity and high-heat tolerance allow her to operate deep within hazardous zones that would be inaccessible to standard responders. Her contributions have led to the successful evacuation of thousands in forest fire regions and chemical plant catastrophes.

In recent missions, Solis has been deployed more frequently in anti-villain apprehension, particularly against rogue heteromorph groups and flame-based offenders. Her immunity to heat-based quirks makes her a frontline asset in high-temperature conflict zones, while her physical resilience allows her to subdue suspects with minimal collateral damage.

Her reputation for composure under pressure also sees her frequently assigned to welfare check and intervention duties, especially in cases involving emotionally unstable civilians, trauma survivors, or quirk misuse.

  • Solis is currently ranked 18th in the Pro Hero Rankings, a position that reflects both her physical prowess and her contributions to major operations.

・❤︎ Swordsmanship:

In addition to her flame-based abilities, Solis is also a highly skilled swordswoman. As part of her Support Equipment, she wields a sword that not only serves as a weapon in combat but also acts as a tool to direct and control her flames. By channeling her flames through the blade, she can produce controlled bursts of flame, precise fire slashes, or enhance her attacks with fiery energy, making her an even more formidable opponent.

Solis’s golden knight armor, developed by Shiketsu’s Department of Support, enhances both protection and flame control. Advanced thermal regulators channel her fire output, while built-in rapid-cooling tech ensures the metal surface stays safe to touch, allowing her to assist civilians or handle delicate tasks without risk.

iii. hero career + trajectory

・❤︎ Solis's goal: to reach the top ten.

[ CURRENT OUTLINE ]

Age 18: Debut
Age 19: Climbs to #36 after major wildfire incident
Age 20–21: Solidifies dominance in disaster relief, reaches #24
Age 22: Begins villain apprehension work → shoots up to #18

[ ELABORATION ]

  • Graduation & Pro Debut (Age 18):

Graduates from Shiketsu.

Immediately scouted by Salvus, a respected agency focused on disaster relief, infrastructure protection, and fire management—despite her initial plans to enter villain apprehension. They approached her after realizing how valuable the flameproof aspect of her quirk could be for rescue work.

Adopts the Pro Hero name ‘Solis’, Latin for “sun,” symbolizing heat, light, and hope.

・❤︎ Hero Costume: Gold-scaled armor with heat-resistant shielding. Media quickly embraces her “gold dragon knight” aesthetic.

  • Rise in the Disaster Relief World (Age 19):

Gains public admiration for large-scale wildfire suppression efforts in southern Japan and volcanic emergency zones near Kyushu and Sakurajima.

Known for calm leadership, especially in extreme heat zones where other heroes struggle to operate.

Ranked #36 in the Hero Billboard Chart at age 19.

➔ Media Title(s):

Occasionally, “The Unburning Paladin”.
More commonly, “Gilded Hero”.

excerpt:

・❤︎ The public has more love for heroes who fight villains every day. They have more impact. They’re stereotyped as being the “stronger” ones. People gather and cheer, seeing their saviors dominate in a fight for their sake.

But Solis?

This young, quiet underdog equipped in golden armor and a sword—a dragon lurking in wildfires and floods and crumbling buildings, like a guardian of some kind—

Was something different altogether.
She didn’t have to shout motivational phrases for them to notice. She didn’t have to posture.

She got people talking. Played the long game by making smart moves—dominating a field that had no king. Because now she’s unique. Now she stands out. A hero who looked like she was built for a battlefield choosing to walk into the fire, instead.

To more experienced heroes, Solis looked like a slow-burning testament in calculated branding. Not the usual influencer-styled flash, but a slow, deliberate maneuver into a vacuum of prestige.

Disaster relief was underserved.
Valuable. Necessary.
But unglamorous, and most pros treated it as a sideline or a retirement track.

“No one owns that field,” a retired veteran muttered.
“Until now.”

They thought: she’s not just lucky, she’s dangerous.

It was like watching the dawn break.

・❤︎ To the PR-Savvy Pros:

“She’s killing us in visibility.”

Heroes built on media presence. those with sponsorships, fan bases, and Hero Billboard popularity; felt an unspoken threat.

Solis wasn’t even trying to be marketable. But she was dominating the airwaves with raw, unscripted footage. You couldn't speak ill of someone who fought natural disasters.

She was eclipsing them without stepping into their ring.

For a while, they scrambled to rebrand; pivoting into charity work, disaster collaborations, anything to avoid seeming performative next to her quiet nobility.

Other new heroes in her generation realized quickly: they couldn’t follow her path without looking calculated.

Solis had claimed an empty throne and mythologized herself into it. Anyone else diving into disaster relief now would seem like a trend-chaser.

She wasn’t just good.
She was untouchable.

Because she’d moved first and moved with sincerity. And in a field dominated by image management and hero politics, sincerity gleamed the brightest.

  • Age 22 (Current Year): Career Shift Begins

➔ After years focused on rescue, Solis announces she’s expanding into villain apprehension, especially arsonists and eco-terror groups.

Her tactical abilities and raw resistance to high temperatures make her uniquely suited for flame-wielding or explosion-based villains.

Participates in several joint operations with urban-focused heroes, using her fire to neutralize volatile environments.

Public interest spikes as she rebrands slightly—shifting from gentle knight to a dragon protecting scorched zones.

➔ Begins collaborating more with U.A., mentoring students in disaster relief as a specialist and occasional guest hero; quietly reinforcing her presence in shaping the next generation.

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  • ˗ˏˋ Projected Future ´ˎ˗

If her villain-focused pivot succeeds, Solis is expected to become a Top 10 contender within 2–3 years.

(Hopefully.)

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Notes / more yapping into the void:

if you took the time to read ALL of that, thank you ajsfjslgjl. my eyes HURT from trying to format everything in a way that was digestible + interesting.

anyway, here's my oc. my muse. my burntout superstar. my sacrificial lamb who never had a single bad thing happen to her ever. /lh :)

i don’t have artwork of Shou in her hero costume yet. the one in this post is a commission I got eleven years ago when I first created her, from a local artist who I think has since deactivated their handle…? she’s dressed in a modified hanfu. just imagine that she's a gold-plated knight with a sword. <3

i'll make an extended part 2 for her timeline with Shigaraki later.

if your persona's a hero (or even a villain), feel free to let me know how they/you'd react to her in the comments!! (*ᵕᴗᵕ)⁾⁾

u/gildrot — 3 months ago

hiii everyone! i’m Elle: a newcomer to the yumeshipping scene! i stumbled upon the community online by accident one day and thought it seemed fun! however, i’m also a very introverted person who gets overwhelmed easily, which is why i’m glad there’s a smaller mha subreddit here for me to explore. saves me from having to brave the larger main ones until i feel more confident. :p

𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐦𝐞:

i’m ↑25 years of age, so i’m an adult! my pronouns are she/her. i discovered the term yumeshipping only a few months ago, though i’ve been into general anime culture for years and years. i am the biggest oc x canon truther!! i love ocs, and instead of a s/i, i’ll be using my favourite oc as a sort of rep. <3 i don’t see her as myself—more of an amalgamation of all things i adore in fiction!

i’ve also been a part of the roleplay community on tumblr for a long time. (not mha though, another fandom) ♪⁽⁽٩( ᐖ )۶⁾⁾

𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐬:

not too familiar with yumeshipping terms; so i’ll tentatively call myself selective-sharing / mirror-sharing for now. let’s all just be nice to one another and vibe respectfully together lol. 👍🏻 (but dupes can block me if they’re strictly non-sharing, ofc.)

𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐲𝐮𝐦𝐞𝐬:

i have three, and all of them are shipped with the same oc but NOT in a poly relationship. every ship has their own unique timeline and universe in my head!

i. ❥ Shigaraki Tomura — 「 my current hyperfixation 」

ii. ❥ Shota Aizawa — 「 the reason why I got into mha in the first place 」

iii. ❥ Hawks — 「 my irl partner’s fav, so he’s special to me! :3c 」

okay, i’m done yapping for a bit! i’ll make a separate post introducing my oc later, when i'm less lazy. come say hello in the comments if you want, i wanna get to know all of you! <333

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u/gildrot — 3 months ago