u/gnarly_medusa

https://www.reddit.com/r/reddithelp/s/ZGhME3pOtw

App version 2025.11.0

I'm experiencing difficulty sending modmails. I've made several attempts yet I get an error. I get a prompt which says the user doesn't accept messages. Added the link for reference. Please advice.

I’m exploring a possible move for work and long term quality of life and I’d love honest inputs from expats and locals currently living there. I work in Customer Success/Client Relationship and Marketing adjacent roles. I’m looking for a calmer lifestyle with good work-life balance, safety and long term stability.

A few things I’m specifically curious about:

~ Current job market for English speaking international professionals

~ Salary vs actual cost of living

~ Housing situation and challenges of renting

~ Workplace culture and work-life balance

~ Safety and quality of life

~ Healthcare system experiences

~ Ease of social integration and making friends

~ Best cities for a semi social lifestyle while still having career opportunities

~ Whether these countries still welcome new immigrants in 2026

~ Any hostility towards Indian community

Would you recommend moving there today? Realistically what do you wish you knew before relocation? Genuine feedback needed to make an informed decision.

I'm finding it excruciatingly difficult to post anything on Reddit. I follow the rules but my posts get removed or deleted. I don't find the reasons for deletion valid or relevant to my post. When I try to reach out to the moderators, I don't get any response. And the rules, format and guidelines are getting unrealistically challenging and restrictive. How does one post a simple question or a thought without contesting the system? I'm losing interest in voicing my opinion or sharing anything on this platform. I lost my mind trying to find the right sub to post an informational question and when I thought I did, it was removed after 10 minutes. It's appalling!

I would love to read half a book written from his POV tbh. Eris is the supposed bad boy with good guy traits. I need more of Eris. I want more of him and the Vanserra brothers along with the LoA. The proverbial truth about Mor(shady alliance with Eris and their debacle) and her inevitable state of ruin.

Let's conclude this once and for all.

I stumbled upon an account who cherrypicks ACOTAR characters to criticize their specific flaws. I browsed their profile and I mainly found a couple of posts about Tamlin's red flags and his abusive nature. Each post had at least 6-7 carousels defining how he showed early signs of an abusive person in ACOTAR.

Now I'd understand if she'd tried to dissect all the characters fairly but my irritation began when I saw that it was a targeted critique.

My question is: Is it unfair to bring Rhysand into the conversation as a rebuttal for apparent discrimination in judgement? Also, again, the fandom staunchly defended Rhysand when the argument was about his abusive, abhorrent behaviour and abominations. Some even went as far as deny the truth when presented with it in front of them.

Is Tamlin better than Rhysand? And do you think Tamlin is truly abusive or do you think his outbursts and reactions were plausible to the point even justifiable?

And who is worse amongst the two? Tamlin or Rhysand.

EDIT: PEOPLE WHO SUPPORT RHYSAND AND DON'T AGREE HE'S AN ABUSER, PLEASE STATE YOUR REASONS WHY YOU BELIEVE HE'S NOT AN ABUSER. ABUSE ISN'T ALWAYS LOUD, LET'S REMEMBER THAT.

I'm a huge Neris shipper and since Acotar 6 is releasing this year, I want to dive into the world of Nesta and Eris. So dear readers please recommend all the raunchy, romantic, slow burn fanfic you know of. I can't get enough of them. Fics can be contemporary romance, canon divergence or close to canon.

I'm a huge Neris shipper and since Acotar 6 is releasing this year, I want to dive into the world of Nesta and Eris. So dear readers please recommend all the raunchy, romantic, slow burn fanfic you know of. I can't get enough of them. Fics can be contemporary romance, canon divergence or close to canon.