u/greatertheblackhole

maintaining abs as a woman is one of the hardest parts. i see influencers and gym girlies have flat abs while i struggle. i recently learned all of us struggle to do it. i bloat before my period and i start feeling fat inside my head. it took me months to accept that it is okay. so girlies if you feel like abs gone and you feel bloated, it is okay. you need not stay flat and chic like those influencers all the time. you can be yourself. just wanted to put this down here.

nobody cares about your body more than you!

ps: ungaluku abs ey ila la soltu vara kudathu.

apart from all the torment i go through, i love being a woman. few clicks from last month!

1. i went to a museum for the first time. haven’t gone out in so long and i decided to do this. i loved everything there, it was so calm. there was this small room that had a glass painted ceiling and i was in literal awe. the picture did no justice but still it was one of most beautiful thing ever.

2. my flatmate’s boyfriend usually brings home cookies, cupcakes from his workplace. the day he brought home this, he texted me the previous night saying cupcakes waiting for you. i was so happy. it’s nothing big, they are usually there in the kitchen and anyone can have them but this felt awww.

3. so i love going to parks and i took this picture. i posted it on reddit and someone commented wallpaper material. nanu chumma wallpaper vechu pathen, it looked cool. i sent that person a screenshot of this too. that person sent me a few cool pictures they’ve clicked. that was cute too.

4. as i said, i love going to parks. that was the first day i had food at the park. i usually go alone and haven’t felt like i could eat there or smth like that but that day i had pasta at the park. it felt liberating for some reason. it felt like i have transcended to the next state of monk-ness and idgaf.

5. this is a very funny one. my flatmate broke his charger cable and for a week we’ve been sharing my cable. so i usually leave it under his door at night and he reruns it back by sliding it under my door in the morning. i felt it funny and nice at the same time. idk if it’s cool but IT IS COOL TO ME.

6. been skipping beer for so long and after a very long time i jolly ah had moonu beer. i did random stuff, i scribbled smth, listened to random songs, overall i had a good beer sesh after a longggg time.

7. this is my version of somberi chicken. oru beer potu i was cooking this chicken, i was laughing the whole time for nothing. drunk cooking is maja. the chicken tasted damn good btw!!

i grew up romanising the smallest things in life and that has kept me alive and going for the longest time. i love being a woman for this reason. i romanticise life ❤️

seven months of gym, clean diet and healthy lifestyle!!

i’m back after a week ban 😎

avaan avaan do girls find this attractive, women should cook, sugar baby venum, ponnu venum, ivanuga la onuila pava pata me got banned for a week payan venum ketathuku. paiyan spelling kuda terla enaku but stg i got 10 dms of long paragraphs of men flaunting their height, age, qualifications 🤷🏻‍♀️

so guys i’ve found this hobby of spending time at the park. poi paduthuruven avlodhann. it’s so peaceful. i’m touching grass finallyyy. gym is good, diet is good, i am good, i am happy.

ppl think im man hater for posting about sensitive topics no im not man hater, i love men 🤚🏻

thakkali sadham seiyalam ponan, found prawn in the freezer and called it prawn briyani. tasted good btw!

tell me something better, i’ll wait!

saw this bus near white chapel station. couldn’t get a better picture cause i took it from inside another bus. i wonder how it feels from the inside?

2 hours of porumaiyana samayal 😭

frozen parotta, na senja chicken salna and beef chukka. parotta vah pichi potu, salna vah tharalama oothi, mela mazhai saral marie chukka mela vachi, saptan paarungaa 😭

SETHUTAN SAARR!!!

been cooking for nine months now and this omg vera lvl la irunchu nanbargaleyyy 😭😭

PS: I DIDN’T FORGET THE OMELETTE 🤚🏻

got a little on and off with cooking and gym but kinda getting there. pasta has become my recent obsession (pasta w chicken, pasta w mushroom, pasta w shrimp). will list names below.

1. pasta w mushroom

2. mushroom pulao w eggs

3. ghee pulao w corn and eggs

4. beef, potato, beans (idk the name cause i didn’t make it)

5. pasta w mushroom and shrimp

6. panner mutter masala and chapati

7. instant lazy chicken (stole the recipe from pinterest)

8. beef briyani

9. shrimp gravy w rice

10. last time when i posted, this person asked me for the pasta recipe and i asked them to send pics when they cook. whoever it is, they remembered and sent me a picture 😭 i was so happy to see it.

it’s the little things man, always. saw this and thought of you, did you eat, take rest, are you tired, it was so lovely of that person to send pics. reddit is my favourite place to exist. i’ve friends from here who i’m so lucky to have. yay to one more day of not unaliving myself!!

to anyone silently watching, lurking, suffering, you got this, we got this. virtual hugs to all of you da pasangalaa 🫂

DRINK WATER NOWW!!

HIT THE GYM NOWW!!

EAT HEALTHY NOWW!!

im backkkkkk!

so long story short, dated a guy but he was toxic and it ended badly. i’m a very ‘all in’ person but after the breakup i couldn’t talk to people, have a conversation with guys and felt distant with my own self. finally after two years im healing, i feel peace.

i used to write a lot, lot of poems for him but i don’t know if he ever appreciated them but now ive met my nila! after two years, one random day at 5 pm i wrote this. i am happy, i am at peace, some day all of us will be, hang in there kids ❤️

chumma linkedin open panan bro, modha post ey idhan. tension airuchu. ena da sola vara, ithula practicing in high court ahm. yaara neengalam ..!

1. don’t say overnight at anyone’s house

teach your stupid sons that even if a girl or boy or anyone stays home, to take proper care of them and help them in need. teach your gaaj son to stock some snacks, sanitary napkins and basic needs for the person staying overnight.

2. don’t get into a vehicle with someone you don’t know

auto, cab la po kudathu apdi nu uncle solraru. makku uncle teach your dumb sons when a girl needs help or seems like she is in trouble, not to take advantage of the situation but to drop them home and make sure they are safe.

3. if you have finished your drink, don’t drink it again

incel uncle teach your gaaj sons not to cross boundaries with any woman/man/person when the person is under influence. any consent under the influence is a not considered. under the influence = no.

4. when eating out alone, add one more chopstick or cutlery, a little trick for protection

ipdiye pocket knife, pepper spray thukkiney suthuran. lusu uncle teach your sons to respect and behave appropriately towards women. pora edathula lah extra fork, extra chopstick thiruditu sutha mudiyathu.

5. don't accept gifts from men carelessly

teach your sons not to gift carelessly to women.

6. dont approach any unknown person for any favour

unkill finally teach your sons yarachu help ketu vantha mudincha help panu ilana mudiyathu nu soltu kelambu. oruthar oda vulnerability ah use panna kudathu soli kudunga mutta punnagai unkill.

konjo ragebait aitan friends. vera onuila 😤