▲ 12 r/AITAH

AITAH for asking my (M23) gf (F23) for money that I let her have?

basically me and my girlfriend had stayed in a hotel a few days ago. She had gotten there before me so I sent her $300 for her to check in. It was 120 for the room and the rest of the money was for the deposit. So basically she checked in and paid with the money I gave her. later on she had told me how long would the deposit take to go back into her account. I told her that it would take at least two days she asked, if I wanted the money back. I thought about it for a little bit, and I told her that she could actually keep it if she likes. That’s just me being a good boyfriend I guess. She was pretty happy and excited that she could get to keep the money and that’s all that mattered in the moment. Fast-forward to today, I work pretty far so a lot of the times I have to fill up on gas. Thankfully, there’s cheap gas where I live. Anyways when I finished work, I was about to head home and realize that I had no gas. I get paid tomorrow, so my account actually has no money in it. I kinda freaked out and i don’t know why I thought that the deposit would come back to me, but then i realized that my gf got the deposit back . I texted her and asked her if she got it back and she told me yes. I explained to her that I was actually stuck at work with no gas and wanted to see if she could let me borrow just 10 bucks to get home. She immediately started telling me that I told her she can keep it and that I shouldn’t be asking her for money. I told her that I knew what I said, but I really just needed to 10 to get home and that I could pay her back tomorrow since I get paid. She told me knowing that if I kept asking her, she would block me. Which made me even more mad so I just stopped texting her. I guess this is my fault but in reality she wouldn’t even have that money if it wasn’t for me, and I know it’s only 10 bucks but that’s literally the only reason why I’m having this issue. Am I wrong for asking her for the 10 bucks back or does she have a valid point for keeping the money?

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u/greyangelforever — 6 hours ago
▲ 1 r/AmiInTheWrong+2 crossposts

Girlfriend threw a drink at me at the bar and now i don’t know how to feel

Me and my girlfriend have been together for three years. I’m not going to lie me and her have had our problems and we argue here and there, but for the most part, everything’s all good. Recently we’ve had more problems nothing too serious but she gets mad at me super easily. Now she’ll find something to get mad at or rub it in my face when I do something wrong. Anyways let me explain. Today, me and her hung out and we went out to different places. Towards the end of the night, I suggested that we would go to a bar. She was down for it, so we had went. As we got there we ordered our first two drinks, and we were chilling at a nice booth. The place is packed. Anyways, I pull out my phone and started checking Instagram, when she had noticed that I was following a girl. Keep in mind that this wasn’t a random girl, it was actually this female rapper that I follow. Who just so happens to dress “slutty” or whatever. She saw the girls account and started freaking out asking me who it was. She starts going into my face saying how do I know her and why was I following her. I tell her basically who she is and that there’s nothing to worry about, but she starts reaching for my phone in front of everyone. I end up unfollowing the girl to show her it’s not an issue. She’s telling me to show her my phone, practically almost yelling. Honestly, I’m pretty sure she was drunk and having a crash out moment, but at this point, she should know better at her grown age. Anyways, this is the part where she starts telling me that I’m worthless and that shes leaving. As she gets up, she slaps the drink off the table and it lands in my lap and falls into the floor and cracks everywhere. Yikes. There I sat with a drink on the chair and on my lap by myself. I couldn’t believe what had just happened and I was so mad. She walked out the bar and I just stayed there by myself to finish the one drink I had. I’m not gonna lie. I’m kinda happy that no one really saw because of how loud and packed it was, but it really hurt me. I don’t know why she did that, and I haven’t had a chance to tell her how I feel, but I want to tell her that it really hurt me. Yeah I could’ve shown her my phone, and she wouldn’t have blown up on me, but dude we’re in a bar. Why do I have to be showing you all my messages and followers like come on now? Now my next move is to text and tell her how she made me feel so disrespected. I even unfollowed the girl like it doesn’t matter to me. What’s the best thing I can tell her to where she understands she did wrong. I want an apology honestly

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u/greyangelforever — 1 month ago

Jus started season one and not going to lie, it’s definitely not the same speed as breaking bad, but nothing wrong with that! First season definitely slow but honestly, does it rlly get better? Is it really as the same level as breaking bad? I love it so far. I’m at the part where Chuck tells off Jimmy about him not being a real lawyer. That pissed me off! It feels like Kim is the only one on his side.

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u/greyangelforever — 2 months ago
▲ 0 r/tax

Did my taxes a few weeks ago and the tax lady had told me that it would be deposited into one of my older bank accounts. I didn’t think much of it, but after a few days I had realized that that account is actually closed. The card linked to it was also unable to be used. I have no access to it. I went today to open a new account at Chase, and my tax lady told me that the money, was already sent to the account and return to the IRS. Now I don’t know what will happen to my money. It’s an electric transfer so they can’t mail it to me. I updated my banking info on my IRS account so I’m hoping that it’ll just be sent to the new account. Does anyone know what will happen to my money?

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u/greyangelforever — 2 months ago