AITAH for asking my (M23) gf (F23) for money that I let her have?
basically me and my girlfriend had stayed in a hotel a few days ago. She had gotten there before me so I sent her $300 for her to check in. It was 120 for the room and the rest of the money was for the deposit. So basically she checked in and paid with the money I gave her. later on she had told me how long would the deposit take to go back into her account. I told her that it would take at least two days she asked, if I wanted the money back. I thought about it for a little bit, and I told her that she could actually keep it if she likes. That’s just me being a good boyfriend I guess. She was pretty happy and excited that she could get to keep the money and that’s all that mattered in the moment. Fast-forward to today, I work pretty far so a lot of the times I have to fill up on gas. Thankfully, there’s cheap gas where I live. Anyways when I finished work, I was about to head home and realize that I had no gas. I get paid tomorrow, so my account actually has no money in it. I kinda freaked out and i don’t know why I thought that the deposit would come back to me, but then i realized that my gf got the deposit back . I texted her and asked her if she got it back and she told me yes. I explained to her that I was actually stuck at work with no gas and wanted to see if she could let me borrow just 10 bucks to get home. She immediately started telling me that I told her she can keep it and that I shouldn’t be asking her for money. I told her that I knew what I said, but I really just needed to 10 to get home and that I could pay her back tomorrow since I get paid. She told me knowing that if I kept asking her, she would block me. Which made me even more mad so I just stopped texting her. I guess this is my fault but in reality she wouldn’t even have that money if it wasn’t for me, and I know it’s only 10 bucks but that’s literally the only reason why I’m having this issue. Am I wrong for asking her for the 10 bucks back or does she have a valid point for keeping the money?