Horror buds? 21F

I'm a sucker for horror and super excited for spooky season. Would be really cool to read some with someone!

Great books I've read over the past year: House of Leaves, We Used To Live Here, Bunny ...

I also read classics and I like westerns (McCarthy) with the occasional nonfiction/political work (Parenti).

Not a fan of fantasy/romance/sci-fi/YA but pretty much anything goes as long as it's good (for example I enjoyed reading Blood over Bright Haven this summer)

I'm 21F from Finland that otherwise is very into ice hockey and video games - finding friends through this would be awesome too!!

Thanks for checking out my post and have a good one :)

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u/gwentgobbler — 10 days ago
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21f would love to find some genuine people :)

I'm 21F looking for friends to chat with on here! Life is hectic lately and I'd like to spend my downtime socialising even if it's just over reddit messages - it would be awesome to find long term friends on here too :)

My interests include

- ice hockey (I'm a Florida Panthers fan and I also play myself)

- reading (classics, horror, dystopian novels, political nonfiction, anything that seems interesting - not a big fan of fantasy/sci-fi or romance though)

- gaming (Valorant, The Witcher 3, about to drown myself in Blood of Dawnwalker, been playing through RE games)

- I'm working on my high school diploma right now mostly for fun honestly, so I spend a lot of time with that (I work full time too though)

I'm also very introverted but I appreciate meeting new, funny people. All I ask is that you're SFW and put some sort of genuine effort into starting a conversation!

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u/gwentgobbler — 1 month ago
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21f from finland looking for some chats :p can't sleep!

interests include gaming (valorant, horror), literature (classics, horror, anything cool), ice hockey (playing and watching, florida panthers are my team) and just fun convos with genuine people!

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u/gwentgobbler — 2 months ago
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21f can't sleep let's chat

all i can think about is valorant </3

tomorrow is my last day at my current job which is cause for celebration but i cannot sleep for the life of me! i like ice hockey and reading books including but not limited to horror classic literature and socialist history/theory

i like playing games like valorant and outlast trials, been playing tlou1, still wakes the deep and LiS double exposure lately

i'm from finland

hmu!

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u/gwentgobbler — 3 months ago

21F looking for some evening chats :)

Looking for new friends to chat with online, maybe vc and play video games together :)

I like ice hockey, reading books, playing video games, listening to indie music. I'm pretty introverted but I still enjoy making new connections with people from all over the world. Feel free to shoot me a message if you think we might get along.

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u/gwentgobbler — 4 months ago
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21F - Anyone wanna chat about hockey? Or anything else?

Rainy day where I am! Had way too many cups of coffee by the open window reading books and I need a bit of a brain break.

I'm a (european) Florida Panthers fan but I'm down to talk about anything! All I ask is that you keep it SFW and say more than "hello" :)

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u/gwentgobbler — 4 months ago

A clueless fan seeking jersey opinions

So I'm a long term fan of worlds, being a Finn, Lundy brought me with him to the NHL in 2022. I've never bought memorabilia, but I just found out the national team has an official store that sells jerseys (Leijonat).

Since it was announced that Barky was gonna play in worlds this year I was really bummed to find out the IIHF doesn't sell player jerseys.

Since I don't know anything about memorabilia I kinda thought I'd ask for more seasoned fan opinions - would it be really lame to customise my own Barky jersey?

I'm just super stoked to see him in the Finnish jersey again and I really want one for myself. I just can't tell if it would be cool, or really lame since it's not an official worlds jersey. Would it be a cool item to have? Or kind of pointless considering the jersey itself doesn't have anything to do with Barky, nor with worlds?

Welcoming all thoughts an opinions!

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u/gwentgobbler — 5 months ago

I'm the avoidant ex people avoid and I don't blame them

I'm 21F and I don't know how to help it. The last 3 people I've been involved with I'VE left because I felt they got attached way too quickly and it made me immediately loose feelings for them. It seems like I'm only attracted to people who are unavailable, and the more I read about avoidant attachment styles, the more that makes sense. As soon as someone starts seeming interested, I shut off from them. I loose all my previously positive or intimate feelings for them.

I want a family for myself in the future. I want to be a good person, I want to be a good so. Every time I feel like I have that going for me, my feelings ruin it, and as a result I feel like a terrible person. I loose feelings overnight for people I thought myself in love with two days ago and it makes me feel like a trash human being but I can't help it. I'm so sorry to the people I've hurt, and I don't want it to happen again. At this point I just don't trust my own feelings for anyone and I should probably steer clear of anything romantic until I figure out how to move past this. I just don't know how.

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u/gwentgobbler — 5 months ago
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21F wide awake and bored looking to have some fun convos!

Work stress is eating me alive so here I am :P

Please be SFW if you decide to message me.

I like books, games, ice hockey, nature, indie music and I'm an introvert. Hmu!

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u/gwentgobbler — 5 months ago

21F looking for book buddy to either discuss books with or also book club them together

Genres of interest: Classics, horror, westerns.. anything to put my brain to work

I used to book club classics with my friend. We'd read a set amount of chapters a week and then discuss (over text - it was effortless) on sundays. That friend has kind of gone MIA and I really miss the vibes of knowing that someone else is also actively engaging with the same content. Made me motivated to find out more background information about authors and also take notes on my thoughts as I was reading. I miss sharing this with someone!

Age or gender doesn't matter. I'm European but I also don't mind a time zone difference.

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u/gwentgobbler — 5 months ago