I am born in the US my husband is being deported to Guatemala. He has no family over there and nowhere to go. My parents are from El Salvador and they have family that want to help my husband. How can he go about getting to el Salvador safely and will this deportation (5 year bar) make him ineligible for residency in El Salvador? Please help me I’m a mess.
He broke up with me 7 years ago. I was devastated and for a long time, maybe 2 years I didn’t even know how to function anymore. I grieved him. My love never went away, neither did the pain. Eventually I had to get a job. At this point it had been over two years since losing him but it still felt the same as the day it happened. The years continued to pass. I would send him messages that I never thought he would open because 1, it had been years and years of me sending messages that I assumed he blocked the account, or 2 I assumed he would just delete the message requests. For years I would message him how much I miss and love him still. I felt crazy doing it but on especially bad days, it was all I could do to try to get through the pain. I also wrote hand written letters. I never sent those thankfully. Well, now after 7 years he messaged me back saying that he never used the account until just now and saw all of my messages. He asked if I wanted to see him and I immediately felt butterflies just like I would back when we were dating. I’m not a complete idiot, I know that he is not wanting to meet for any romantic reasons. In one of my messages I wrote how I missed being with him in every way so I’m sure that’s why. Most likely is just curious to see if I would have sex with him after all this time. The answer is of course I would do anything he wanted. But it hurts so much to even see his little picture in the notification that I cannot fathom how much it will hurt me to see him in person. I’ve fantasized about him for the majority of my 20s. I dreamt and prayed for this. Now that he has messaged me I can’t help but feel scared and confused. Is it a trap to humiliate me? Is it just that he’s bored and wants to know if he can still have access to me for his own ego? I am not deluded enough to think that it’s love, I know he hasn’t loved me or thought of me. According to him all those years ago he never loved me at all. I know nothing about him now except that my heart has never stopped loving him. I know he is the one person I could never stop loving. I adored him then, and now I feel that live mixed with fear. Fear for allowing myself to fantasize when there is no chance of ever being with him. Maybe he feels bad and might consider a friendship, but I already know I could never be his friend with all of my feelings. I have been grieving him for 7 years while he lived his best most happiest life without me. It hurts so much everyday I just wanted to vent.
I went in for a flat iron today for my birthday. I washed my hair at home because I knew the was not included. The lady started intoning my hair and I asked about heat protectant and she said that she could not use any heat protectant on my hair because she would then have to blow dry it so that the protectant didn’t leave my hair “wet” because she would then have to charge me. I have never heard this before it seems bad practice to use heat tools with no sort of protectant whatsoever?
My sister graduated, and we went out to celebrate at a restaurant that one of her friends picked. None of us had been there before, and nobody expected the bill to be anywhere near as high as it was. My sister ended up inviting a total of 6 guests apart from our cousin. These are just her friends from work. The friend who chose the place immediately took charge of the table and ordered for everyone, 2 family platters and 6 appetizers. She assured us it would be great because she eaten there countless times. Well, the total ended up being around $650. My dad had planned on paying for dinner, but he definitely wasn’t expecting a bill that large (or that many extra guests for that matter) I could see the worry in his eyes so I gave my card to the waiter and asked if we could do multiple cards. I ended up covering half of it myself and my dad paid the other half.
Here’s where I’m upset. My cousin was at the dinner. My family always picks her up, drops her off, covers things for her, and generally doesn’t hound her to pay us back because “shes family”. On the other hand, she never offers to treat anyone to anything EVER and when we owe her money for anything, she makes sure to collect every penny…well today after the dinner, my sister was telling our cousin that she should send me some money since I had paid such a large portion of the bill. Before I could even say anything, my mom jumped in and told my cousin not to send me anything. I feel so irritated because my mom didn’t pay the bill. She doesn’t work, didn’t know how much the bill actually was, and wasn’t the one paying $350
I understand my mom may have been trying to be polite, but I feel like it wasn’t her place to decline money on my behalf when I was the one who paid.
My sister is also mad because I mentioned that her friend who chose the very expensive place didn’t pitch in at all. She said that was her guest and shouldn’t pay anything. Am I wrong for being upset at this because it wasn’t just one guest but 6 that my sister brought and expected her family to pay for?
AITA for being angry about this?
I cry every time😭💔
Like my title says, I am being audited by the irs and I unfortunately lost some stuff when I moved in 2025. They are requesting tax info on a $225 bonus I got from chase. I called chase they said they only have statements but not tax document for the bonus on their end. On my end it says I don’t have access to view any documents. Please help this is my first time being audited I’m very nervous and Don’t want to mess things up want to do everything correct :(
Has salon ever had a salon based bday reward or extra points? My bday is next month and I have been feeling very depressed the last 2 years partly because of being diagnosed with Telogen Effluvium. It has slowly gotten better and I want to maybe do so something nice for my hair maybe a blow out or straightening. I might even go today just because I need a pick me up but am wondering if there is any perk to waiting a few days for my actual bday month?