u/helloimbackmorons

Ustedes han conocido a una maraca maraca en sus vidas? Yo si, llegué a conocer a compañeras de trabajo o gente x que se pintaba las patas aquí pero wn encontré una que se a acostado con mitad de valdivia, que weaa hermano... si uno es libre de hacer lo que quiera pero esta mina busca BUSCA a gente con pareja o casados, le encanta es como un fetiche 🤣

First of all, to give a bit of context, we're two sisters. We both grew up in a comfortable middle-class family, with the same parents, the same values, and no favoritism between us. We never went without anything. Our father, may he rest in peace, paid for both of our educations in full. Neither of us has debt, we both own our homes, and she earns well above the average salary in a job she got thanks to cozying up to someone.

She's the kind of person who thinks it's completely normal to approach and interact with people based on what she can get out of them. I remember her telling me once that before interacting with someone, she'd think about how they could benefit her. She was genuinely surprised when I told her I didn't do that, that I interacted with people simply because I liked them. It seemed like she thought using people for convenience was the default setting for everyone on earth.

She also tries to avoid returning things or paying debts whenever she can. For example, years ago she had surgery and paid the anesthesiologist with a check. He didn't cash it within the required time frame. When they contacted her about it, she started "hiding", not answering calls or emails. She told me, "Too bad for him, I'm not paying now. That's what he gets for taking so long." Let me stress again that she's not struggling financially, quite the opposite.

There are plenty of examples like this. At another job she had (remote work), after she got fired, she wanted to keep the company's laptop.

When she was younger, in her twenties, she also enjoyed shoplifting. She never actually needed to steal anything. She did it for fun, for the "adrenaline rush" of maybe getting caught.

As for dating, she used dates to get free food and drinks. Again, she didn't need to.

She got whatever she could out of her official boyfriends: trips abroad, connections, favors, whatever was available. Then, once the relationship started going downhill, she'd humiliate them and emotionally abuse them. She even physically hit one of them several times and later bragged about it while mocking him behind his back.

She's always made fun of her boyfriends. To her, love and emotional attachment are basically a joke, something to ridicule.

Her friends usually fare a little better. She doesn't humiliate or mistreat them the same way, but the moment they become inconvenient or go through emotional difficulties, she drops them without a second thought. Even friendships that lasted for years.

And the cherry on top? I found out she was trying to convince our elderly mother (70+) to sell the family home and spend all the money buying my sister a brand-new apartment (which would've been her second property), of course putting it entirely in my sister's name. The whole point was to make sure I wouldn't inherit anything when my mother is gone.

And if that wasn't enough, when I confronted her, among many other things she said, she openly admitted that money is what matters most to her. She also admitted that she doesn't feel any bond or love toward my son, her only nephew, and that she genuinely doesn't care about his future. It's not that she has to love him, obviously feelings can't be forced, but still... I cried when I found out she'd had an abortion. I never said anything to her because obviously it was entirely her decision, but I genuinely grieved, even for a child who never had the chance to exist.

I wish I'd had a normal sister. Someone I could trust, someone I could talk to about my life. Sometimes I still can't believe the kind of person she really is. I feel lonely, like I'm actually an only child.

When I was little (she's older than me), I absolutely adored her. She was my favorite person in the world.

The disappointment of gradually discovering who she really is has been enormous... I'm heartbroken.