u/helloimbackmorons

Hola chiquillas, conversando por ahí alguien me dijo algo como que es "estilo de vida humilde" comprarse ropa cada dos años, quedé peiná pa atrás jaja 🤔

O sea, para mí lo normal es comprarme una que otra ropa de vez en cuando, cuando realmente me gusta mucho, en un momento de mi vida no me cabía la cantidad de ropa en el clóset y como que colapsé mentalmente y pensé chao, se va todo lo que no me ENCANTE. Arrasé como con la mitad de mi ropa. O más.

Desde ese entonces he optado por el minimalismo y no comprar por impulso, me tomo mi tiempo para decidir si algo realmente merece la pena de ocupar espacio en mi ropero. Eso fue hace como 5 años, y desde ese entonces diría yo que no me he comprado más que unas 5 poleras y 2 pantalones máximo, y después de haber pensado mucho rato si realmente las quería o era antojo del momento.

Zapatos y botas he comprado con más frecuencia, porque vivo en una zona donde hay harto cerro y naturaleza y se echan a perder rápido.

En general no me considero gastadora.

¿Para ustedes cada cuánto es lo normal salir a comprarse ropa? ¿Es tan raro comprarse ropa en una frecuencia mayor a 2 años?

También está el tema de los desiertos repletos de ropa desechada producto del fast fashion y la contaminación.

Las leo!

Hola chiquillas, quisiera que me orientaran respecto a los valores actuales que una se encuentra al ir a una peluquería, como para no caer en usuras ni quedar de ultra tacaña jaja.

Mi consulta va enfocada principalmente en teñirse el pelo, nada fancy, digamos que me quiero teñir de un color que agarra fácil como castaño, sin necesidad de decolorar, sin nada complicado, el típico procedimiento clásico de cuando una acompañaba a su mami a teñirse las raíces a peluquería de barrio.

He preguntado por ig y me dicen como 60 lucas bella 💁🏼‍♀️ y no sé si está caro o yo estoy tacañina.

(No es makeup pero no sabía que flair elegir)

Le responden pesado, con su propia medicina y entra en furia total, gasta enormes cantidades de tiempo en leer el perfil de otras personas para luego escribirles dm con insultos... Es tan difícil madurar?

Si andas molestando, trágate ser molestado 👊🏻

Chisme completo.... https://www.reddit.com/u/helloimbackmorons/s/RJCZNAolfA

This is my sister, for context (If it's too long to read, she's probably a sociopath)

She visited us a couple of times before she fully revealed what a mean person she really is. I mean, I always knew she wasn't a great person, and I guess I still had blinders on when it came to her, but she was never this awful to us, her own family, until a few months ago, when she openly admitted that she doesn't even care about her own nephew and doesn't love him.

I don't want her around him anymore. The problem is that my little boy remembers her, and every now and then he asks about her...

What should I tell him? I'm not going to break his heart by telling him the truth, but at the same time, I don't want to lie to him. I even thought about telling him that she just isn't part of our lives anymore, but even that feels hurtful...

I honestly don't know what explanation I could give him that he'd be able to understand without being too shocked. He's only 5 years old.

If you were in my shoes, what explanation would you give him?

Ustedes han conocido a una maraca maraca en sus vidas? Yo si, llegué a conocer a compañeras de trabajo o gente x que se pintaba las patas aquí pero wn encontré una que se a acostado con mitad de valdivia, que weaa hermano... si uno es libre de hacer lo que quiera pero esta mina busca BUSCA a gente con pareja o casados, le encanta es como un fetiche 🤣

First of all, to give a bit of context, we're two sisters. We both grew up in a comfortable middle-class family, with the same parents, the same values, and no favoritism between us. We never went without anything. Our father, may he rest in peace, paid for both of our educations in full. Neither of us has debt, we both own our homes, and she earns well above the average salary in a job she got thanks to cozying up to someone.

She's the kind of person who thinks it's completely normal to approach and interact with people based on what she can get out of them. I remember her telling me once that before interacting with someone, she'd think about how they could benefit her. She was genuinely surprised when I told her I didn't do that, that I interacted with people simply because I liked them. It seemed like she thought using people for convenience was the default setting for everyone on earth.

She also tries to avoid returning things or paying debts whenever she can. For example, years ago she had surgery and paid the anesthesiologist with a check. He didn't cash it within the required time frame. When they contacted her about it, she started "hiding", not answering calls or emails. She told me, "Too bad for him, I'm not paying now. That's what he gets for taking so long." Let me stress again that she's not struggling financially, quite the opposite.

There are plenty of examples like this. At another job she had (remote work), after she got fired, she wanted to keep the company's laptop.

When she was younger, in her twenties, she also enjoyed shoplifting. She never actually needed to steal anything. She did it for fun, for the "adrenaline rush" of maybe getting caught.

As for dating, she used dates to get free food and drinks. Again, she didn't need to.

She got whatever she could out of her official boyfriends: trips abroad, connections, favors, whatever was available. Then, once the relationship started going downhill, she'd humiliate them and emotionally abuse them. She even physically hit one of them several times and later bragged about it while mocking him behind his back.

She's always made fun of her boyfriends. To her, love and emotional attachment are basically a joke, something to ridicule.

Her friends usually fare a little better. She doesn't humiliate or mistreat them the same way, but the moment they become inconvenient or go through emotional difficulties, she drops them without a second thought. Even friendships that lasted for years.

And the cherry on top? I found out she was trying to convince our elderly mother (70+) to sell the family home and spend all the money buying my sister a brand-new apartment (which would've been her second property), of course putting it entirely in my sister's name. The whole point was to make sure I wouldn't inherit anything when my mother is gone.

And if that wasn't enough, when I confronted her, among many other things she said, she openly admitted that money is what matters most to her. She also admitted that she doesn't feel any bond or love toward my son, her only nephew, and that she genuinely doesn't care about his future. It's not that she has to love him, obviously feelings can't be forced, but still... I cried when I found out she'd had an abortion. I never said anything to her because obviously it was entirely her decision, but I genuinely grieved, even for a child who never had the chance to exist.

I wish I'd had a normal sister. Someone I could trust, someone I could talk to about my life. Sometimes I still can't believe the kind of person she really is. I feel lonely, like I'm actually an only child.

When I was little (she's older than me), I absolutely adored her. She was my favorite person in the world.

The disappointment of gradually discovering who she really is has been enormous... I'm heartbroken.