How do you tell the difference between feeling attracted to a woman vs wanting to look like her?

I’ve admired the femboy aesthetic for a while, but I have a hard time differentiating the feelings of attraction and appearance envy. Do I want to date her, or do I want to look like her? For me, the answer is either: both, or just the desire to date.

Is this normal? Or do you have distinct boxes for both?

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u/hsg1998 — 1 day ago

Maybe I’m Just Pessimistic, but Men’s Fashion Looks So Repetitive. What Are Some Outfits That Are Better Than the Basic?

I have gotten so bored with typical male fashion. I want to wear outfits that both look cool and aren't the same style over-and-over again. What outfits do you recommend to someone who wants to wear more than just a t-shirt/polo/buttoned shirt with a jacket and shorts/long pants?

Yes, I know I'm probably oversimplifying a bit, but it feels like most outfits are just the same stencil with different fabrics or patterns. Jackets could look cool, but I'm in an area where jackets can only be used for like 3 months before they get too hot.

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u/hsg1998 — 1 month ago

Height Changes After 2 Years

I haven’t found a poll that focuses on height changes, so I wanted to make one. This way, we’ll hopefully have a better understanding of the average change HRT causes. Based on the general answers I found online, I think these choices will be sufficient, but if not, then I’ll redo it with a wider spread. Please let me know if you have any questions!
Thank you in advance!

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u/hsg1998 — 2 months ago

What Are the Best Websites To Play Each of the Games?

I remember my favorite game was #4 because it introduced the portal mechanic, but all of the websites I've tried have been extremely laggy and slow. A lot of them also give ads after every death.

What websites have you found that play at normal speed? Preferably with less ads that prevent gameplay.

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u/hsg1998 — 2 months ago
▲ 5 r/Makeup

How Many Uses Can a Typical Basic Makeup Kit Supply Before Needing to Restock?

I’ve never bought a makeup kit before, so I want to plan things out ahead of time. Like, if I choose to use a single makeup kit for as long as reasonably possible, how many uses would it provide?

(Sorry if this is a dumb question, or if my concept of makeup is too vague)

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u/hsg1998 — 2 months ago

Looking for the trope of "At least it isn't [highly specific description]" and it's a perfect description of the person/situation.

It is similar to "Oblivious to His Own Description" but about someone else or about a situation that Character B was not a part of.

Further Explanation:

Character A is trying to explain that a villain is really bad news. Character B is like, "At least they don't own a totalitarian galactic empire which genocides all civilizations it comes across in its interstellar nightmare crusade." Character A then reveals that the villain did precisely that.

Character A just escaped from a crazy car chase. Character B meets them at their house. Character B asks where A has been and then speculates that they did a car chase and includes way too much detail. They then laugh and downgrade to claiming that A just got a soda.

(Example 1 is based on a story I'm reading. Example 2 is made up. If these two tropes happen to be separated, then I'm mainly looking for #1.)

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u/hsg1998 — 3 months ago

[WP] You have abysmal luck. Your friend Veronica has absolutely incredible luck. However, whenever you two compete against each other, the most ridiculous, over-the-top shenanigans conspire to ensure that you beat her.

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u/hsg1998 — 3 months ago
▲ 7 r/dice

Where could I get some dice that can go higher than a d100? Preferably higher than a d120

My friend recently got some dice with an abnormal number of sides, including a d120. I want to get dice with even more sides and become the dice king (lol)!

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u/hsg1998 — 3 months ago