u/ilovesquids35

sorry if this isn’t the right subreddit but recently me and my partner have gotten into shibari and i’m usually the one tying him up. right now, im using youtube tutorials because i just have a really hard time trying to do stuff with no physical showcase on how to do it but i feel like im running out of video tutorials 😭 can anyone recommend any videos/channels? ive tried looking stuff up on youtube but my algorithm is just like really weird and doesnt show me what im looking for.

on the same note if anyone has any dirty talk/advice on how to be more physically dominant i would LOVE to hear it🥲 my boyfriend is really into face grabbing and being told what to do but i always kinda choke up on my words and feel awkward for repeating the same things.

so i’ve been visiting my boyfriend for summer and ive been here since june 2nd and obviously we’ve had sex everyday and he finishes in me frequently. i have a liletta iud and ive never had a scare until now and its mostly because my breasts have been so sore. i don’t get periods anymore because of the iud and i usually never get pms symptoms with the iud but its only been around 5 months since ive had it so maybe my cycles are starting to become regular? i also would like to add this bc it feels necessary but my boyfriend frequently bites/pulls on my nipples with his mouth which i do enjoy but maybe this is causing the soreness? i would just like some reassurance or just to tell someone i guess😭

i’ve been using a bonnet for like 5 months and i use the pineapple method with a silk scrunchie and it never looks good 🥲 one side is like always smooshed and has 0 curls left and the other side looks completely fine after i wake up. i tried using the t shirt method and still the same results. im still pretty new to taking care of my curls so i dont exactly know what products are good/what kind of curls i have so maybe all these methods aren’t good for my hair type?? it’s so confusing

i’ve been noticing this more recently but i get extremely upset over the smallest things and it specifically is if my mom is doing something. for example if she wants to come sleep in my room with me or if she keeps changing dates on something it really bothers me like nothing else like it full on makes me panicky and like the type of rage where your shaking and your heart is beating really fast but it’s only with her. if i’m doing really bad mentally i’ll feel really hopeless or sad over minor inconveniences and cry it out in bed and not leave it for a few days or if someone else were to do the thing she does it really wouldn’t infuriate me as much as it does when she does it. i feel really bad i love my mom even if we have a really rocky relationship atm i hate getting mad at her because i can tell she’s actually trying to understand me when i don’t even understand myself :(