Panel interview

Hello. I have my panel interview coming up soon, and I’m a little stressed. My prior work experience was as a sales supervisor and I’m current in specimen management for an esoteric medical company, and I’m a volunteer wilderness search and rescue member. But I can’t think of anything to say when asked about high stress situations because I honestly don’t really feel that stressed about things. I mostly just take a step back and think for a moment before proceeding. I was hoping someone might be able to help me think of a way to answer this without sounding pretentious? This is my first time applying for a career in public safety, since it’s what I’ve always wanted to do; but man my nerves are through the roof.

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u/innocenti_ — 1 day ago

Idk if I have a CSF leak

Hello. For the past year or so, only my right nostril has been running like crazy. it’s clear and watery, tastes salty and metallic in my throat, gets worse when I lean forward. iIt also gets worse when I am exerting myself physically (which is awkward because I work in search and rescue lol). I often feel dizzy or like I’m going to faint when I stand up, from a sitting position or a lying down position. I have had a mild headache pretty everyday for the last two years and it gets worse every once in a while. I did have a brain surgery nearly 20 years ago to remove a tumour growing in my brain stem.

I did some research yesterday because I thought it was ridiculous how much my nose ran and I had questions about the consistency, and I came across CSF rhinorroea and then this community. I wanted to get some opinions from this community before I go to the doctor and make a fuss about it.

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u/innocenti_ — 4 days ago

Can’t lock 2024 Corolla LE from outside when it’s turned on?

Hello. I have a 2024 Corolla LE and I can’t lock it with the key fob from outside when it’s turned on.

How do I get around this?

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u/innocenti_ — 9 days ago

I (28F) have never felt butterflies with my girlfriend (26F)

I (28F) have been dating my girlfriend (26F) for two years now. I really do think I love her but is it normal to have never felt “butterflies”? I feel nothing when she kisses me, touches me, or anything, and I haven’t ever felt it. Not the first time our hands touched, not the first kiss, not the first time we slept together. Not once.

By think I love her I mean that I love having her around, doing things with her, making her happy. et cetera. I don’t like thinking about her with someone else, or just not in my life at all. But I also feel… I don’t know. I think the first thing I want toknow is if it’s normal to never feel butterflies with your partner.

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u/innocenti_ — 12 days ago
▲ 330 r/trans

I don’t find men attractive but…

hi, she/her, 28, transfemme(?), like 5 years on HRT

i don’t find men sexually attractive. I’ve dated one guy and it just wasn’t for me. i am def a ladies lady. But sometimes I get so fucking horny and all I can imagine is being fucked until I’m screaming, until I can’t stand, until I’m nothing but a puddle of pure ecstasy. Like tearing at the sheets, screaming into a pillow, hand pressing my back down into the bed. Even thinking about it now is making me.… mm.

I don’t know why I have this fantasy sometimes. I didn’t like being fucked by the only guy that’s ever fucked me. But ugh.

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u/innocenti_ — 20 days ago
▲ 6 r/nova

Restaurants for anniversary dinner?

Hello. My girlfriend and I are celebrating two years together at the end of August and I’m trying to find a place to go for dinner but I’m not quite sure how to find what I’m looking for and I’m just feeling overwhelmed because I’m really bad planner lol. But she really is the love of my life and I want to take her somewhere nice. I reckon you guys here might have some nice recommendations.

I’d prefer somewhere that’s ≤$70-$80 per plate for the entrée. She doesn’t eat meat or eggs but is fine with cheese and other dairy products. We’re going to spend the day in DC but I’d prefer something in NOVA around the Ashburn/Leesburg area since we will probably need to Uber home.

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u/innocenti_ — 1 month ago

WLW series, any genre?

EDIT; Thank you guys so much for all of your suggestions ❤️

I have listened to so many audio dramas in the past year. I’m trying to find more series with WLW main characters and I fear I am running out of options since most of the forums I have explored mention the same ones 🥲 I have a thing for ones with a romance scene, but not a requirement, so to say.

Some that I have loved are:

Pasithea Powder

Woodbine

Starship Iris

Arden

Something’s Amiss in Juniper’s House

Hannahpocalypse

Starship Q Star

The Lesbian Romantic

Birds of Empire

What Happened in Skinner

Gal Pals Present: Overkill

and I didn’t really care for Unwell.

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u/innocenti_ — 1 month ago
▲ 7 r/MtF

I feel…. So ugly

I feel like I’m pretending. I have long hair, changed my documents legally, dress somewhat femininely, have gotten cat called, everybody “ma’am’s” me… but it isn’t enough. Not for me. I feel so… dysphoric. About my hips, or lack thereof, my tiny mosquito bites whose nipples never seem to look right without being stimulated, my voice that isn’t deep but also isn’t exactly femininely pitched, my butt, my thighs, the barely-visible scar on my neck from Adam’s apple reduction, my upper lip and chin hair that grow so thinly I barely even need to shave it away when it does, my penis that I love having because my girlfriend and I have amazing sex but I simultaneously hate. I feel ugly because I’ve had so many surgeries on my head because of stupid fucking brain cancer and my hair doesn’t grow the same on both sides, one eye doesn’t open as wide as the other, I can’t smile normally because half my fucking face has been totally numb for nearly 20 years and it just compounds with the currently debilitating feeling of dysphoria and makes me feel awful about my appearance.

Sometimes I feel okay, great even. Sometimes I feel that I am pretty, or attractive by some sense.

But not today. Not at all in the last 6 months.

Anyway. Vent over. Thanks for coming to my TedTalk.

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u/innocenti_ — 2 months ago
▲ 46 r/navy

Are any of these appropriate for graduation?

Hello, hi. My brother graduates as a Nuke in September and I’m shopping for something to wear. Are these appropriate attire? He told me SC is hot as hell still in September so I thought it’d be a good excuse to buy a linen dress. Anyway thanks!

EDIT: Thanks for all of the input! I’m gonna order 2 and 3. Also, I got some weird DM’s sooo… yes I’m trans; no I will not do anything for you.

u/innocenti_ — 3 months ago