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So I sent this exact dress in. Perfect condition never worn. They rejected it as unsellable and this just popped up in my feed. I’m pretty sure it’s mine because I replaced the button at the neck. Very suspicious. I hate that I ever sent them a bag. I should’ve just sold everything for five bucks on Depop. When you know better you do better.

u/itsjustme_0101 — 2 days ago

Can someone please help?

I got myself really confused this morning. I switched providers and my shipment is late in arriving. So I had to take less of a dose this morning.😫 so I’m trying to figure out how much I actually took. It was about 20 units which according to how I have been calculating is about 2.5mg

I’ve been on tirz since March. Using Fat Scientists to titrate up slightly. Can someone confirm I’m doing it right? I have been losing weight pretty fast so I thought it was a super responder but now I’m wondering if I actually started out with too big of a dose? Including some pics for reference.

Your help is really appreciated, friends. I’m not a math and numbers person so I’m all in a tizzy now.

u/itsjustme_0101 — 5 days ago

I think I’m giving up on home tanning

Please help me troubleshoot. I’ve been self tanning for decades with no real issue. Just buying off the shelf products. I used to really like a Neutrogena spray that was clear dark and I’ve also used a couple of other things.

The last couple of years I’ve done professional spray tan in the VersaPro and it’s been fine for me but I didn’t wanna pay any more plus the hours of my salon are PIA.

Two years ago I purchased a few Norvel solutions to use at home with a mit or a brush. Well I’ve tried it again on two different months and it just doesn’t last and I end up looking disgusting and blotchy with patches 2 to 3 days after application. That never happens with the VersaPro at the salon and it’s the same solution.

So I caved and bought another month subscription to go spray. But I really wanna figure this out so I can go back to home.

Help me figure this out please

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u/itsjustme_0101 — 6 days ago

Meet Jack

We are three days in to the process… Wish Jack luck. He was a very healthy boy when I adopted him. He chunked up a little bit more. Now it’s time to get him to a healthy weight so he has a long kitty life. He is just the sweetest squishy cat ever, but he needs a little less squish. He is 7 years old.

u/itsjustme_0101 — 14 days ago

Shamed in another group :(

So I’m pretty much at goal and when I posted pics in street clothes in another group I’m on I got shamed and accused of my pictures being AI and told that I am not who this medication was made for. I was told I had a disorder and it was unrealistic for a woman my age to weigh such a “young weight“. So I’m gonna come here to my people.

Food and weight have been an issue all my life. My highest weight 198lbs and I bounced between 145 and 170 for many many years.

I’ve been working out since I was 19, and cycling for 25 years. So are my highest mileage years I was the heaviest, like riding a 200 miles a week and weighing 175+pounds. Makes no sense. But then I got a little more serious and started training with the big boys. I actively raced masters from 2020 to 2024 at 145 pounds. I was strong AF and winning.

Anyhow, I struggled with binging behaviors and probably an unhealthy relationship with exercise and it was escalating and I got back up to 160 in 2026 – very unhappy, mentally and physically and abandoning all the stuff that made me happy like riding, yoga, social life etc. So I went on a small dose at the suggestion of my doctor.
Now 13 weeks pretty much at goal weight 128 5’8”, I will be 55 years old in August.

Sharing some pics because I’m still struggling a little to see how I really look different. But I am starting to see it. And most of all I feel different… Mentally.

Lost most of it on 2.5 mg, but the last three weeks I’m on 4.0mg. Honestly, the weight loss is just bonus. To be free of the binging and all the noise that was in my head is such a gift 🙏🏻🚴🏻‍♀️♥️

u/itsjustme_0101 — 21 days ago

Is it normal to stall?

54F,5’8”
HW 190, SW 158, CW 132, GW 125.

The entire month of May I’ve been fluctuating the same few pounds. I think that’s normal. Lost most of my weight on 2.5mg. I upped my dose to 4mg hoping it would get me over the hump to lose again. GW is 125. I track calories, I’m around 1000 everyday. I’m keeping it low to stay in a deficit to get to goal. I started back on creatine which I know can hold water weight in the muscles. I have exercised hard for decades, but do a lighter routine now.
What’s my missing piece? Should I go up in dose next week? Is this my body telling me I am at goal?
Advice appreciated

u/itsjustme_0101 — 24 days ago

Starter VC@ bracelet $35 shipped

RFS: Bought as a 3 piece set and I only wear the earrings
7.5 in
Gold tone
Mid/ starter tier IMO

Please ask questions and do your own QC
I will answer any questions you may have. I purchased this from a Reddit seller who I lost track of.

$35 shipped
Bracelet only- no vc@box
Once I ship, it is not my responsibility. I will send documentation to you that it is on the way.

Disclaimer: I am only an enthusiast and a shopper. I have rehomed one bag in the past and one pair of earrings. I am a reliable buyer though and been on this Sub for a while.

Zelle only please
US ship only.

u/itsjustme_0101 — 26 days ago

Coming to terms with a narc mother

TLDR- my narcissistic mother has destroyed our relationship and it’s really affected me.

Here we go…
I’m about to turn 55 and finally coming to terms with the toxic relationship of my narcissistic mother. Her verbal and physical abuse has degraded things for years. She’s in her 80s now and nastier and meaner than ever. Still making up scenarios, stories, and lies. I don’t even want to be around her or speak to her, but yet I call her often because she’s my mother. I feel obligated she’s in bad health. A lifetime of this has had very adverse effects on my psyche and TBH, I really just want to have nothing to do with her. Last summer, I went no contact for three months because she spread some personal business around that I share with her in confidence. Honestly, I felt a lot of peace.

I can’t believe it’s taken this long for me to realize the connection to her and the negative thread that has run through my thoughts and self-esteem. Thumb sucking until I was 17 to self soothe, over eating and gaining losing gaining losing almost 100 pounds, developing an eating disorder, overspending, losing myself in music, avoiding social opportunities, always feeling that I wasn’t good enough. Until very recently, I thought it was something wrong with me. I will own my actions and take responsibility, but I’m really finally realizing I was just trying to survive her covert and obvious abuse.

My brother and sister are not treated like this and are on a pedestal despite being thieves, liars and grifters. I’ve had a successful career for 32 years and just retired but I am berated and talked down to and discarded my whole life by her, no matter my success. I suspect it could be envy or jealousy? She got pregnant early with my sister and married at 18, had a string of bad relationships and four marriages, widowed twice, no financial security.. A hard life for her of working and disappointments I suspect. Whereas I graduated college, got into my career and built a nice life for myself.

I really hate that it’s like this. I have so much stuff built-up inside of me about this. I’m trying to get back into counseling to help me process and in the meantime, I’m just doing a lot of writing. Honestly, if I never talk to her again, I think I would feel OK with that. But in a sick way, it’s my mom and I would miss her. WTF is wrong with me?

If you read this far, thank you. I think I just need a sounding board. Of course I welcome any support 🙏🏻🤍

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u/itsjustme_0101 — 1 month ago

Why do you self Tan versus going to spray?

Pretty much the title. I have used sunless tanner at home for decades. Tried it all and got results I was happy with. Now I salon spray, while I love the result. It is very inconvenient to get there during the hours they’re open not to mention $80 a month and honestly sometimes as it wears off and just looks really funky and I really don’t recall that experience when I was home sunless tanning.
Convince me to tan at home again, please…🙏🏻

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u/itsjustme_0101 — 1 month ago

I thought I didn’t look any different…

The scale is going down and my clothes no longer fit. But I really thought I looked the same until I compared my face playing around taking selfies in a new dress that is wildly out of my comfort zone. Green dress (new dress) is today and the orange September 2025, bangs July 2025. My face really looks different now!!!

That’s about a 25 pound loss, no insane binges for 10 weeks and just better all over mental health. Thank you Tirz 🙏🏻🤍 Now I just need to get up the nerve to wear that strapless dress on my date this weekend.

And…. Marked NSFW so my big selfie face isn’t on everybody’s front page.😂 i’m on this journey solo and no one has remarked that I look any different.

I’ve been on 2.5mg for 10 weeks. Going up to 3.5mg on tomorrow’s dose.

u/itsjustme_0101 — 2 months ago

Anyone have an ablation for fibroids?

I don’t have all the pathology to share , but I do have several benign fibroids. 54 and have had a few issues here and there over the last several years with breakthrough bleeding, but other than that, my cycle has continued to be very regular. No idea why I’m not in menopause yet.

January 2026 I started with profuse bleeding and releasing giant clots . Did all of the tests ultrasound, etc. I’ve been taking slynd birth control and that controls it some of the time and just when I think I’m in the clear I get hit with profuse bleeding and clots again. I scheduled my surgery for Friday the 29th. I was told it’s pretty easy and I should be able to go back to work on Monday.

I have not seen many posting about an ablation so curious about experiences. My doc said a hysterectomy is not necessary.

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u/itsjustme_0101 — 2 months ago

Time to move up in dose?

I took my 10th shot this morning. I’ve been at 2.5 mg the whole time and I have not even used my entire first bottle. I’ve dropped 24lbs. I would like to go down a few more pounds. The peace of mind has been the biggest benefit. Well, I started noticing last week a little more food noise returning in my mind is not as calm. I was hoping to stay at 2.5mg. But I’m wondering if I should go up. Thoughts from those with more experience?

u/itsjustme_0101 — 2 months ago