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(Read the complete post otherwise don't)So this story is about my cousin(my tayas daughter),so she is our eldest cousin,we all cousins looked up to her since our childhood,she used to lead us in everything,she was like my elder sister,as soon as she completed her A levels she went to university of Toronto,she completed her studies came back to Pakistan and got married with a guy from her family friends, even i danced on her wedding,after marriage they both moved to Canada

Few years passed and we heard the news that she got divorced,idk the exact reason but we have heard it was related to finances,all of our family was shocked listening to that bcz it was the first divorce of our family ever and she was our eldest cousin

So my family is very toxic,like my chachus etc,we all started shaming her parents on this,we started making them feel embarrassed and started saying bad things to her parents,tbh even my dad, and tbh all of our family was really in shock, and my chachus used to say stuff like aur bhejo lerki ko bahir perhne akeli and etc,she was so embarrassed that she didn't even come to Pakistan for years out of shame

Years passed,and she worked super hard and got admission in harvard,she completed her postgrad degree from there, but still meri family, chachus ka shaming her parents band nahi hua,phir 2 years ago she got married again to a super rich American Pakistani businessman,and my same family(chachus etc)danced on her wedding who used to say bad stuff to her parents,phir jaker mun band hua sabka

So she proved that "once an elder always an elder"...and I'm so happy for her may Allah bless her with more and more,so this might be an inspirational story for some girls so i thought i should share

All i want to do is this

I want to smoke weed,go for a swim on my mercedes,and have fun with my friends while swimming, then i would want to come back home and cuddle with my beautiful wife and vent about my whole day❤️

Why's the Hollywood and western movies/tv series trying to teach us to be impatient,why are they trying to make the society impatient, with no tolerance and trying their best to make people the least respectful towards eachother,why are they trying their best to make the society unethical and immoral

Like whenever you watch a Hollywood movie,over a very small argument 2 close friends start fighting, other than that every random talk between 2 people turns into an argument,also people getting offended on small things,,once i was watching outerbanks,and in it a 18yo boy start beating his dad physically over a minor issue and that kid was being portrayed as a hero

Imo they are deliberately trying to show this by design,so they could normalise this behaviour in the society,and tbh being impatient and being less respectful, getting offended on small things, turning everything into an argument is literally a symptom of mental health illness

And they are not showing the ground realities, even in the US people are not like this,yea they are becoming like this but still,and this thing is less in EU side,even there people are becoming like this now,like genz from major cities who grew up watching Hollywood and belong to ethically/morally low families are becoming like this

Like go to rural areas or villages you would still see how real respect, patience, maturity and mental stability looks like

Tbh promoting nudity,incest, LGBTQ is understandable,ofc it's totally wrong, but it's still understandable that why are they doing this but trying to make society unethical is not understandable from anywhere

Tbh many people on Reddit are like this bcz many of them are introverts and corn addicts whose minds are filled with this western propaganda,so what's your view

So I was in bhawalpur today and a senior doctor told my dad that the salary of a proper mbbs doctor(without specialisation) is 35k pkr per month in bhawalpur,and I'm talking about the salary after the house job

My dad got shocked,my dad himself is in the medical field and owned a hospital but still got shocked bcz he used to pay 50-60k in lhr and that too 3 years ago but in bhawalpur it's fkn 35k and in lhr it's still 50-60k,like humaray driver ki bhi almost itni hi salary hai jitni bhawalpur mei 1 doctor ki

Like wtf wth wth,where is Pakistan going,it really looks like a shi\*hole

And just imagine people who became doctors by doing private mbbs and spending 1 crore plus for their mbbs!

It is what it is