"porn implies consent" to distance pornography from abuse

i have no problem with the use of the word "CSAM", there are actual situations where the word "CP" wouldn't apply. but "the word porn implies consent" is shit.

from the same creators of "its not sex work if its unconsensual", we now have "its not porn if its unconsensual". its an endless trying (and succeeding, unfortunately) of separating the "good, ethical, moral kind" of sexual exploitation from everything that inevitably happens near it.

men try to push all the rape, abuse, violence, and torture against kids away from pornography, because they dont want the thing they watch daily to be the same thing that harms children. they tell themselves watching adult women in a website that has had countless lawsuits for child trafficking isnt at all supporting what those kids went through.

every few weeks there's news of a woman who was forced to "perform" in pornographic videos against her will, but the people watching women in these videos daily refuse to acknowledge they are probably watching the same crime. they swear up and down they are the one true teller of consent, and that they would never ever watch a woman suffer.

less obviously, these men dont see adult women as capable of being abused. at least not fully. children absolutely cannot consent, but an adult woman can. she may be screaming for it to stop, trying to claw away from her abuser but as an adult, she could've consented. the whorish woman who accepts everything, the prostitute who does it for the love of the game, that will always be the first thought in their minds when hearing about abuse.

in a hypothetical created for discussions, porn stars always consent gleefully to every act and video, therefore you cant label the consistent abuse of women in the pornographic industry as rape. we always have to think of the ever privileged exception as not to "water down" the term rape. women's suffering just isnt enough to justify taking away men's entertainment or tainting it with the forbidden word.

seemingly progressive men who loudly oppose epstein, trump, and rape itself cant, for their image and ego, accept they like rape too

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u/jellycattis — 1 month ago

guy strangles girl to death and the news defend him... because its a "kink"

we all knew where rough sex defense would lead us, but it still fucking sucks. sexual choking? heartbreaking message? even if it wasnt on purpose, what kind of teenager is aroused by STRANGLING someone? he doesnt feel sorry either, his message is just "i love you sm- yada yada". in the second image, the red blocked person, was defending the guy and saying the girl probably asked for it. do i look like i care? if someone asks me to shoot them id say no, why are we treating men like they have no power to do that? shes dead regardless of what consensual or non consensual agreement they had, and he is gonna be free because we normalized harming women for sexual gratification

u/jellycattis — 1 month ago

nefer recolorp

no, its not a filter. i got accused of just using filters when i do my recolors but i dont. i used to use picsart but lately ive been using the color mix option in photoshop express. its still lazy asf but not a filter. anyway i like warm greens and yellow golds so this is a SLIGHT nefer recolor

u/jellycattis — 2 months ago

vesna recolorp

i have now embraced the glorp. i quite like vesna's color palette, so i only made a few small changes, especially to her hair/gold color and made her less blue. why is everything and everyone so blue and desaturated?! i enjoy the teal/pink so i brightened the pink as well! as always, be nice please

u/jellycattis — 2 months ago

vodyanitsa recolorp

this is my first recolor! it has plenty of small errors so i wouldnt zoom in lol, i did in a hurry on my phone. her og color palette felt pretty bland to me, and i miss characters having actual teal/green/purple, everybody recently feels so blue :(

u/jellycattis — 2 months ago
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kitten variety pack

kittens + mama i rescued. she split into her primary colors! last image is from the day we got them, kittens were still mewborns

u/MasterChef88 — 2 months ago

how would you guys feel about non stellar?

i am seeing contradicting leaks regarding his stellar-is/stellar-isn't, so id like to hear what people here think of it! im personally strongly hoping for non stellar sub dps/support, especially if its related to dendro reactions

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u/jellycattis — 2 months ago