Grooms sister is divorcing the best man....
Need major advice as I'm sure none of you have come across this. About 5 years ago my fiancé's (groom) best friend, whom we will call Jake, eloped with his sister. It was one of those "your older sister is so hot" things come to life. Their marriage has always been rather rocky. We get married next July and my fiance asked Jake to be his best man back in March. Apparently they are getting divorced now and it is looking pretty ugly. How the hell do we proceed. Best man can't come to the wedding at all now because of family over friends. My fiancé doesn't know how to tell him that he cannot come to the wedding anymore for the sake of any dramatics (fiancés parents also do not like Jake). Fiance is wonder if he can even invite Jake to the bachelor party since he still wants his childhood best friend to be involved one way or another, especially since his sister won't be there. How do we ask the NEW best man to be the best man without it sounding like a second choice? All in all, any advice about anything is welcome.