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Hi everyone! I’d love to get an unbiased opinion from the general Nintendo community :)

I'm currently considering buying the Switch 2 and selling my Switch Lite. Since I already have a PS5 for major games, I'm looking for a solid secondary setup. However, I have some hesitation based on my past experience with the Lite, which I ended up disliking and kinda abandoning.

My main issue with the Lite was its tiny screen. I wear glasses, and playing detailed games or reading small text on that mini display caused me major eye strain and felt very claustrophobic. Right now I also play on an iPad, so I'm used to larger screens, and I'm wondering if the jump to an 8-inch display plus the option to play on the TV makes a night-and-day difference.

To be completely honest, I'm not a massive fan of the mainstream Mario or Zelda franchises. However, there are still specific titles I really want to play, like Ocarina of Time, Pokopia, Hades, and some Final Fantasy games that I would prefer playing on a handheld console. My biggest fear is that my negative experience with the Lite will ruin my enjoyment of the Switch 2.

For those who play across multiple platforms, do you think the larger screen and docking option completely transform the experience for someone who hated the small display, or am I risking another purchase I'll regret? Thanks in advance!

Watching BAD take over the internet recently has been truly amazing. The song’s energy and viral choreography have brought a massive wave of new listeners to Ateez and I couldn’t be happier. If you are one of the new fans who just joined the fandom, welcome!!! You have arrived at an incredible time.

Having been an Atiny for 5 years, watching this level of recognition feels especially meaningful. For long-time fans, seeing Ateez command global attention is not just exciting, it feels like a well-deserved milestone for a group whose defining trait has always been their relentless, non-stop hard work. When looking at Ateez performing in packed stadiums today, it is easy to assume they had a major, established agency supporting them from the beginning. However, the origin of the group traces back to Ateez’s leader or better captain Hongjoong, who was KQ Entertainment's very first idol trainee. He laid the foundation for what would eventually become Ateez, and when the other seven members joined him, they formed a team built on self-reliance, passion, and intense dedication.

What stands out most about Ateez’s journey is that they never stopped working hard. Coming from a smaller company, they did not have access to instant promotions or built-in media spotlight. Instead, they chose to earn everything through pure effort. Their only strength was their incredible stage presence. In the beginning, they built their fanbase step by step, city by city, by touring all over the world. They performed with 100% energy every single time, whether they were in front of 100 people or 50,000 people. Most importantly, as they grew bigger, their work ethic never changed. Year after year, comeback after comeback, their growth as vocalists, dancers, performers, and artists has been undeniable. Every single member has poured endless time into perfecting their craft, refining their skills, and improving with every release.

They never relied on quick shortcuts or rested on past achievements; every bit of growth you see today was built on sweat, discipline, and constant effort. What makes this comeback so satisfying is seeing that years-long dedication finally reflected on the music charts. Achieving #1 on the Billboard 200, alongside strong performances on domestic charts like Melon and global platforms is a massive achievement. Seeing a group from a small agency that literally started from nothing reach the top of international and domestic charts purely through non-stop hard work and performance art is rare and completely earned.

If BAD introduced you to Ateez, there is so much more to explore. Beyond the viral clips, they have created a deep narrative universe through their albums (from TREASURE to FEVER, THE WORLD, and GOLDEN HOUR) that focuses on themes of identity, courage, and freedom. While they display powerful intensity on stage, off stage all eight members are known for being exceptionally humble, grounded, and genuine. The trust and loyalty between them, built through years of overcoming challenges together, is evident in everything they do.

To all the new fans who recently discovered them: take your time enjoying their discography and content. The eight members on stage today have fought for every single step of their progress, and they have earned every bit of success they are currently receiving.

Here’s to Ateez, their incredible growth, their endless hard work, and the exciting journey ahead! 🏴‍☠️🧡✌🏻

With Ateez’s recent comeback and San quite literally setting the internet on fire, I’ve noticed a massive increase of new faces noticing him and rightfully obsessing over him. As a San bias, I am absolutely thrilled to see him get this attention. He deserves every single bit of the spotlight and no one can deny that his stage presence and visuals this era are out of this world. But while people are collectively losing their minds over his looks, I wanted to write a little appreciation post specifically for those who might still be getting to know him.

Despite how confident, intense, and sometimes intimidating he looks on stage, San is actually one of the softest, most gentle, and mindful human beings you will ever find. Underneath the fierce performer is an incredibly pure soul who is the absolute definition of soft in his everyday life. He is remarkably soft-spoken and sweet, harboring a beautiful innocence that makes him so endearing.

For instance, he absolutely loves plushies and still sleeps with them, he is a massive animal lover who deeply adores his cat Byeol, and despite looking like he could conquer the world on stage, he actually hates horror and gets easily scared. The contrast between his stage persona and his real-life cuteness is unmatched.

This beautiful personality is rooted in how he was raised. San grew up in a family bursting with love, and he remains incredibly close to his parents and grandparents. He carries the genuine values they taught him everywhere he goes, which shines through in his high emotional intelligence and deep humility. Even with Ateez’s massive global success, he never forgets where he came from and consistently supports his hometown by donating money back to his local community.

That warmth extends completely to the people around him, especially the members. San is the ultimate love language person! He is fiercely affectionate toward the group, constantly showering them with hugs, kisses, and endless reassurance, making him such a perfect example of healthy masculinity. He has this incredible habit of giving people his absolute, undivided attention whenever they speak to him. His devotion to Ateez runs so deep that even when the spotlight is entirely on him, he selflessly redirects it, constantly reminding everyone to support and love the group as a whole rather than just focusing on him alone. He wears his heart on his sleeve and isn't afraid to show how much he cares.

What makes San stand out even more is how remarkably considerate he is toward fans from an economic point of view. In an industry heavily driven by consumerism, San is fiercely protective of fans' wallets. He frequently asks fans to avoid spending their hard-earned money on expensive birthday ads or overpriced photocards. In fact, he even told fans to just print out his selfies themselves so they wouldn't have to spend too much money on official merch. It’s incredibly rare to see an idol care so practically and genuinely for the financial well-being of their fans.

What always touches me the most is how he uses his platform to comfort and support people. In a world that can feel so harsh, he constantly uses his words to reassure fans that we are enough exactly as we are, that whatever we do in life matters, that our existence holds deep value, and he hopes his love will help people feel less alone. After all, his father named him San, a Korean word that translates to mountain, because he wanted his son to be a warm, comforting hill for people to rest on. He is also the ultimate definition of hard work. The insane skill and stage presence we see today weren't just handed to him; he built himself into the performer he is through sheer, unrelenting grit and endless hours of practice.

It’s easy to get caught up in the viral clips and the intense choreography. He is hot, and he commands a stage like no other. But to me, his real superpower is his empathy and his giant heart. If you originally found San because of his insane visuals, I promise you that digging into his soft side will make you fall even harder. You’ll find a comforting, lovely human being who is just as beautiful on the inside as he is on the outside <3

With the recent comeback and San quite literally setting the internet on fire, I’ve noticed a massive increase of new faces joining the fandom and rightfully obsessing over him. As a San bias, I am absolutely thrilled to see our community grow. He deserves every single bit of the spotlight and no one can deny that his stage presence and visuals this era are out of this world. But while we are all collectively losing our minds over his looks, I wanted to write a little appreciation post specifically for the newer fans who might still be getting to know him. Despite how confident, intense, and sometimes intimidating he looks on stage, San is actually one of the softest, most gentle, and mindful human beings you will ever find.

Underneath the fierce performer is an incredibly pure soul who is the absolute definition of soft in his everyday life. He is remarkably soft-spoken and sweet, harboring a beautiful innocence that makes him so endearing. For instance, he absolutely loves plushies and still sleeps with them, he is a massive animal lover who deeply adores his cat Byeol, and despite looking like he could conquer the world on stage, he actually hates horror and gets easily scared. The contrast between his stage persona and his real-life cuteness is unmatched.

This beautiful personality is rooted in how he was raised. San grew up in a family bursting with love, and he remains incredibly close to his parents and grandparents. He carries the genuine values they taught him everywhere he goes, which shines through in his high emotional intelligence and deep humility. Even with Ateez’s massive global success, he never forgets where he came from and consistently supports his hometown by donating money back to his local community.

That warmth extends completely to the people around him, especially the members. San is the ultimate love language person! He is fiercely affectionate toward the group, constantly showering them with hugs, kisses, and endless reassurance, making him such a perfect example of healthy masculinity. He has this incredible habit of giving people his absolute, undivided attention whenever they speak to him. His devotion to Ateez runs so deep that even when the spotlight is entirely on him, he selflessly redirects it, constantly reminding everyone to support and love the group as a whole rather than just focusing on him alone. He wears his heart on his sleeve and isn't afraid to show how much he cares.

What makes San stand out even more is how remarkably considerate he is toward fans from an economic point of view. In an industry heavily driven by consumerism, San is fiercely protective of Atiny’s wallets. He frequently asks fans to avoid spending their hard-earned money on expensive birthday ads or overpriced photocards. In fact, he even told us to just print out his selfies ourselves so we wouldn't have to spend too much money on official merch. It’s incredibly rare to see an idol care so practically and genuinely for the financial well-being of their fans.

What always touches me the most is how he uses his platform to comfort us and support us. In a world that can feel so harsh, he constantly uses his words to reassure us that we are enough exactly as we are, that whatever we do in life matters, that our existence holds deep value and he hopes his love for us will help us feel less alone. After all, his father named him San, a Korean word that translates to mountain because he wanted his son to be a warm, comforting hill for people to rest on. He is also the ultimate definition of hard work. The insane skill and stage presence we see today weren't just handed to him; he built himself into the performer he is through sheer, unrelenting grit and endless hours of practice.

It’s easy to get caught up in the viral clips and the intense choreography. He is hot, and he commands a stage like no other. But to me, his real superpower is his empathy and his giant heart. If you originally found San because of his insane visuals, I promise you that digging into his soft side will make you fall even harder. You’ll find a comforting, lovely human being who is just as beautiful on the inside as he is on the outside.

To my fellow long-time Atinys, feel free to share with newer Atinys any “soft San” moments 🫂 to all the baby Atinys who just joined us, welcome!!

In his recent live stream, San shared some thoughts that really stuck with me. The way he talks about self-worth, handling difficult people, and protecting your peace is so wise and comforting, and I wanted to share his words here:

“I want everyone listening right now to know that you already matter. You're already enough. You're so precious just as you are, and I hope you don't let other people's words get to you. You're already worthy... You're here, you're alive, you're breathing, and we're sharing this moment together. To me, that's something incredibly precious. So even if you get hurt, or life knocks you around sometimes, it's okay, it'll pass. Everything passes. The good times pass, and the hard times pass too. The people who judge you or speak badly about you simply haven't learned how to love yet. Maybe all they need is someone to show them how… if you can, feel compassion for them. If you have it in you, show them kindness. And if you don't, that's okay too. Just let it go, ignore them, and keep moving forward. You're going to be okay.’’

San’s approach to life is particularly comforting to me for these reasons:

• You matter just by existing
San strips away all the conditions society places on worth—productivity, success, pleasing others—and roots value in the simple act of existing. To him, just breathing and sharing time together is inherently precious. It’s an immediate remedy to the constant burnout so many people feel.

• A gentle way to look at mean people
Instead of getting angry at people who tear others down, San reinterprets hostility as a lack of love. Saying that people who hurt other people “simply haven't learned how to love yet" is such a compassionate, elevated way to perceive hate. It reframes cruelty not as a reflection of your flaws, but as a reflection of their emotional poverty.

• It’s okay to just protect your peace
The best part of his whole message is what he says at the very end. People often say you should always respond with kindness, but trying to do that when you're hurt is draining. San tells us that if you don't have the energy for that, it's completely fine to just walk away and let it go. He reminds us that taking care of our own heart comes first, and we don't need to feel guilty for setting that boundary.

San is always so deeply compassionate and thoughtful toward everyone around him. He possesses a level of maturity and wisdom well beyond his age, combined with a rare kind of emotional intelligence that allows him to offer comfort without ever sounding superficial. Moments like this show how truly special he is—not just as an artist, but as a person. He serves as a gentle reminder that being a good human being starts with how we treat others, but ultimately ends with how kindly we treat ourselves. In a world that can often feel loud and critical, having someone like San remind us of that is a truly comforting gift ❤️‍🩹

In his recent live stream, Choi San from Ateez shared some thoughts that really stuck with me. The way he talks about self-worth, handling difficult people, and protecting your peace is so wise and comforting, and I wanted to share his words here:

"I want everyone listening right now to know that you already matter. You're already enough. You're so precious just as you are, and I hope you don't let other people's words get to you. You're already worthy... You're here, you're alive, you're breathing, and we're sharing this moment together. To me, that's something incredibly precious. So even if you get hurt, or life knocks you around sometimes, it's okay, it'll pass. Everything passes. The good times pass, and the hard times pass too. The people who judge you or speak badly about you simply haven't learned how to love yet. Maybe all they need is someone to show them how... if you can, feel compassion for them. If you have it in you, show them kindness. And if you don't, that's okay too. Just let it go, ignore them, and keep moving forward. You're going to be okay."

Why San’s approach to life is so comforting:

• You matter just by existing
San strips away all the conditions society places on worth—productivity, success, pleasing others—and roots value in the simple act of existing. To him, just breathing and sharing time together is inherently precious. It’s an immediate remedy to the constant burnout so many people feel.

• A gentle way to look at mean people
Instead of getting angry at people who tear others down, San reinterprets hostility as a lack of love. Saying that people who hurt other people "simply haven't learned how to love yet" is such a compassionate, elevated way to perceive hate. It reframes cruelty not as a reflection of your flaws, but as a reflection of their emotional poverty.

• It’s okay to just protect your peace
The best part of his whole message is what he says at the very end. People often say you should always respond with kindness, but trying to do that when you're hurt is draining. San tells us that if you don't have the energy for that, it's completely fine to just walk away and let it go. He reminds us that taking care of our own heart comes first, and we don't need to feel guilty for setting that boundary.

San is always so deeply compassionate and thoughtful toward everyone around him. He possesses a level of maturity and wisdom well beyond his age, combined with a rare kind of emotional intelligence that allows him to offer comfort without ever sounding superficial. Moments like this show how truly special he is—not just as an artist, but as a person. He serves as a gentle reminder that being a good human being starts with how we treat others, but ultimately ends with how kindly we treat ourselves. In a world that can often feel loud and critical, having someone like San remind us of that is a truly comforting gift ❤️‍🩹

Volevo fare una riflessione con voi su un comportamento che sto notando sempre più spesso, sia con semplici conoscenze che, purtroppo, con le persone più strette: la tendenza a ghostare, non rispondere ai messaggi e sparire nel nulla non appena c'è un minimo confronto.

Vi racconto l'ultimo episodio che mi è successo (ed è il motivo per cui sto scrivendo questo post). Lunedì è stato il mio compleanno. Da inizio maggio avevo organizzato una gita di un giorno con la mia amica più stretta (con lei ho un rapporto profondo: non solo ci sentiamo letteralmente ogni giorno, ma ci confidiamo su tutto). Mi ero assicurata più volte che fosse libera, le andasse bene il programma e mi ero persino offerta di pagarle tutto pur di stare insieme. Lei mi ha rassicurato fino all'ultimo che ci sarebbe stata perché era un'occasione importante.

Il giorno del mio compleanno mi scrive dicendo che sta male e non viene più. Il punto è che questo è una sua abitudine continua: spesso bidona all'ultimo minuto per uscite, cinema, cene, con la scusa del "sono malata" o "è successo un imprevisto". Stavolta, visto che era il mio compleanno, ci sono rimasta male e gliel'ho fatto notare, dicendole che lo fa sempre. Risultato? Sono 5 giorni che non mi risponde, mi ignora e non guarda nemmeno le mie storie Instagram. Praticamente fa l'offesa lei, quando quella che è ha subito il torto nel giorno del suo compleanno sono io. Tutte le altre volte che è capitata una cosa del genere, ho sempre chiuso un occhio perché potevamo riorganizzarci ma in questo caso ovviamente non era così.

Ma la cosa che mi spaventa è che non è l'unica. Noto che anche con altre conoscenze è diventato difficilissimo comunicare: persone che visualizzano e rispondono dopo giorni, o che spariscono nel nulla invece di essere oneste.
Ma perché le persone oggi fanno così? È diventato così difficile prendersi la responsabilità delle proprie azioni o dire semplicemente la verità? Capita anche a voi o sono io che sto attirando le persone sbagliate?

For my birthday, I planned a trip with my close friend. I confirmed it weeks ago, and she promised she’d be there. Then on Monday (my birthday), she canceled saying she's sick. The thing is, this is a constant pattern with her, she often bails last minute when we have plans. When she texted saying "it’s not my fault," I kindly called her out saying that she does this all the time. It was a very calm message though because I didn’t want to argue but at the same time I wanted to let her know that I’m not an idiot. I find it really hard to believe that she’s actually sick considering that it’s not the first time using excuses.

I was expecting her to text back but it’s been 4 days now and she’s completely ghosting me. She hasn't replied and is even avoiding my Insta stories, acting like *she’s* the one who’s mad. I’m the one who got hurt, but she’s playing the victim. We usually text every day, so it’s super awkward.

I don't think I did anything wrong by finally standing up for myself, but the complete silence is making me second-guess things. AITA?

I’m feeling really disheartened and could use some perspective.

For my birthday, I planned a one-day trip to a nearby city with a close friend. I gave her almost a month’s notice so she could organize her work schedule and I checked in frequently because this trip was very important to me. I even told her upfront that I would be paying for the entire trip, including the restaurant. All she had to do was show up. Every time we spoke, she reassured me she’d be there.

Fast forward to yesterday (my birthday), she messaged me saying she was "sick" and couldn't go. The thing is, this is a constant pattern and I don’t believe her anymore. Whether it's the cinema or a dinner, she cancels last minute (often just hours before) claiming she’s sick or something came up. I know it’s not social anxiety, she recently spent two weeks traveling solo on the other side of the world. She has no problem leaving the house… it just feels like things have to be on her terms or they don't happen at all.

What makes this so confusing is that I truly believe she cares about me and values our friendship in other ways, but her actions feel incredibly disrespectful. It’s hard to feel valued when someone treats your birthday plans as optional. I’ve pointed this pattern out to her before but she always denies it. This time I told her I was disappointed but she just doubled down on being sick.

I feel like I’ve been too kind in the past and should have stood up for myself sooner. Am I being too soft by staying in this friendship, or am I overreacting? I thought that she knew how much this trip meant to me and would actually show up. I didn’t think she would bail on me this time too. I know these things can happen but I’m finding it very hard to believe her to be honest. I feel like I can’t trust her. I really care about her, and I've proven it. Over the last year, I spent so much time and emotional energy helping her rebuild her life after a devastating breakup left her mentally wrecked. I truly thought our bond had strengthened through that. To go from giving her that level of deep support to being ghosted on my own birthday, especially when I offered to cover all the costs since she’s struggling financially, just hurts immensely. I feel completely taken advantage of.

I’m feeling really disheartened and could use some perspective.

For my birthday, I planned a one-day trip to a nearby city with a close friend. I gave her a month’s notice so she could organize her work schedule and I checked in frequently because this trip was very important to me. I even told her upfront that I would be paying for the entire trip, including the restaurant. All she had to do was show up. Every time we spoke, she reassured me she’d be there.

Fast forward to yesterday (my birthday), she messaged me saying she was "sick" and couldn't go. The thing is, this is a constant pattern and I don’t believe her anymore. Whether it's the cinema or a dinner, she cancels last minute (often just hours before) claiming she’s sick or something came up. I know it’s not social anxiety, she recently spent two weeks traveling solo on the other side of the world. She has no problem leaving the house… it just feels like things have to be on her terms or they don't happen at all.

What makes this so confusing is that I truly believe she cares about me and values our friendship in other ways, but her actions feel incredibly disrespectful. It’s hard to feel valued when someone treats your birthday plans as optional. I’ve pointed this pattern out to her before but she always denies it. This time I told her I was disappointed but she just doubled down on being sick.

I feel like I’ve been too kind in the past and should have stood up for myself sooner. Am I being too soft by staying in this friendship, or am I overreacting? I thought that she knew how much this trip meant to me and would actually show up. I didn’t think she would bail on me this time too. I know these things can happen but I’m finding it very hard to believe her to be honest. I feel like I can’t trust her.