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Hey everyone, since past few months I am planning to start a mental wellness community in Delhi NCR where we can meet physically for listening circles, art based and journaling workshops or anything else which can actually help to give peace and sense of belonging.

I have read somewhere that the biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is the disease of people feeling unloved and unheard. I feel that doing this together will help those who genuinely are in need of such spaces. Let’s get together and navigate our lives and challenges. My DM is always open. Feel free to connect:)

Hey everyone, since past few months I am planning to start a mental wellness community in Delhi NCR where we can meet physically for listening circles, art based and journaling workshops or anything else which can actually help to give peace and sense of belonging.

I have read somewhere that the biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is the disease of people feeling unloved and unheard. I feel that doing this together will help those who genuinely are in need of such spaces. Let’s get together and navigate our lives and challenges. My DM is always open. Feel free to connect:)

Hey everyone, since past few months I am planning to start a mental wellness community in Delhi NCR where we can meet physically for listening circles, art based and journaling workshops or anything else which can actually help to give peace and sense of belonging.

I have read somewhere that the biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is the disease of people feeling unloved and unheard. I feel that doing this together will help those who genuinely are in need of such spaces. Let’s get together and navigate our lives and challenges. My DM is always open. Feel free to connect:)

Hi Everyone, I don’t know why life feels so tough at this moment. I never thought that reaching mid-20s would be this difficult. Since the starting of my college, I had a very small group of friends and apart from friends I had a lot of acquaintances and I used to be surrounded by them. I was active in co curricular activities and I was leading NSS at my university due to which I got to meet a lot of people. I almost visited every university in Delhi and met people from there. It used to be a great learning experience.

When I joined my masters, I used to be with people but masters is something where you barely get time and I used to be in my studies. In second year, I got diagnosed with mixed anxiety and depression disorder and I was on medications. I disoriented myself with everyone and then the realisation hit me that the people who were my friends never tried to reach out to me and to ask what is going on with me.

My so called best friend with whom I am friends since class 6th also never prioritised me even I have disclosed upfront that I am dealing with a rough patch in life and I need him. Still, he used to ignore my calls and never called me back. He has this repeated pattern that the moment he gets into a relationship, he makes his entire world and life around that person only. He did the same when he got into a relationship.

I never thought that I’ll see the transition from being a yapper to somebody who is just silent and confused. Life feels tough at this moment when you don’t have people. Sometimes when you tell people about what you are going through then all you expect is to be heard. Idk it takes a lot of efforts to tell people about our problems. I wish there is a way out.

Hi Everyone, I don’t know why life feels so tough at this moment. I never thought that reaching mid-20s would be this difficult. Since the starting of my college, I had a very small group of friends and apart from friends I had a lot of acquaintances and I used to be surrounded by them. I was active in co curricular activities and I was leading NSS at my university due to which I got to meet a lot of people. I almost visited every university in Delhi and met people from there. It used to be a great learning experience.

When I joined my masters, I used to be with people but masters is something where you barely get time and I used to be in my studies. In second year, I got diagnosed with mixed anxiety and depression disorder and I was on medications. I disoriented myself with everyone and then the realisation hit me that the people who were my friends never tried to reach out to me and to ask what is going on with me.

My so called best friend with whom I am friends since class 6th also never prioritised me even I have disclosed upfront that I am dealing with a rough patch in life and I need him. Still, he used to ignore my calls and never called me back. He has this repeated pattern that the moment he gets into a relationship, he makes his entire world and life around that person only. He did the same when he got into a relationship.

I never thought that I’ll see the transition from being a yapper to somebody who is just silent and confused. Life feels tough at this moment when you don’t have people. Sometimes when you tell people about what you are going through then all you expect is to be heard. Idk it takes a lot of efforts to tell people about our problems. I wish there is a way out.

Life feels tough and I am unable to figure out what is happening with me. I’ll be visiting a psychiatrist on Friday and I am so much confused in my head.

Hi, I am 24 right now and currently studying. I wish to start a SIP and I can contribute 3-4k monthly and can increase with time. I’ll be grateful if I can get suggestions for investment.

Hey Everyone, since past few months I have been planning to start a safe listening circle for people. A listening circle is a place where people meet in a group and share their thoughts, traumas, grief and feelings and experiences. All participants practice deep listening and take turns speaking without fear of judgement, interruption, or unsolicited advice.

I have read somewhere that the biggest disease the world suffers from in this day and age is the disease of people feeling unloved and unheard. I feel that doing this together will help those who genuinely are in need of such spaces. Let’s get together and navigate our lives and challenges. My DM is always open. Feel free to connect:)

Hi, I am living in New Delhi. I generally don’t rant but it’s going above my head now. I am dealing with depression since quite a long time. Due to this, I lost my confidence in almost every thing. The major reason of my condition is my father. Since my childhood, I have faced a lot of emotional/mental abuse in my family. Before I was born, my father had a joint family business which faced a huge loss and my grandfather decided to dissolve the business. We had a full manufacturing factory of footwear in Delhi. This happened when my mother conceived me. My grandfather divided the shares among my father and uncle and we got a flat in Rohini. I have some blurry memories of that flat but soon after one year my father manipulated my mother to sell that flat by saying that the Rohini is not much developed and he will purchase a flat in West Delhi as soon as they sell this present flat. My grandfather knew that my father could do that that’s why it was a joint property on my mother’s name as well and my father manipulated her to get that flat sold. We shifted to West Delhi on rent and my father never purchased a flat and what he did was that he lent that money to someone so that he can get a monthly interest payout and he doesn’t have to do a job or work somewhere. Soon after dissolving the business, my father took my mother’s jewellery and sell it so that he can start another business but it was also a flop thing.

My mother had gone through years of trauma and been on medications for depression because of my paternal side. I have seen my father’s arrogance throughout my childhood. He used us emotionally, mentally, physically always. I have seen my mother sacrificing for my brother’s and my studies. She got us admitted to a school with the guidance of her friend and my maternal uncle (mama) used to pay our fees till I completed my schooling. Eventually, he also passed away when I entered my class 12 in 2020.

My father used to mentally abuse my mother, he used to say that he will donate entire property in some temple and we will die on roads, he even used to say that I am not his son and my mother brought me from somewhere else. (I feel ashamed while writing this and calling that person my father)

I remember when I was in class 5, my mom and dad had an argument and my father left us and he lived somewhere else for 3 months. Still we forgot everything because we were dependent upon him.
I always say that I never had a childhood, I have seen what depression is, I have experienced all this since my childhood and this affected a lot in my individual growth and decisions.

I feel that my father is of no use. He never treated us like his own because he is so egoistic. At present, he is getting old. He has hypertension, he is losing that energy and now he is getting dependent upon us especially me. Three months back, he had multiple strokes in brain due to hypertension and I was the one who was taking his to the doctors and I was triggered all the time because he was the same person who once said that my mother brought me from outside. He is a manipulator even till today and I always find myself in the moral dilemma that what should I feel about him or what’s not. I have seen my mother doing everything for us and whatever I am today is because of my mother. I am a post graduate and now planning for a PhD and my father doesn’t even know that what I studied till now. He has no remorse for what he has done with us in the past.

Now, this time is crucial for my career and often my father’s presence affects me. He is becoming a liability on us and I am not in a mental state to take his responsibility for the rest of his life. I don’t give a shit what society says. I have seen my mother crying because of him and now I cannot forgive him for his deeds. At least, not in this birth !

So today I adopted a 3-month-old indie kitten from a Reddit user and brought him home. He was so scared because of the traffic, as he hadn’t seen the outside world before. He was literally crying and panicking. I was scared too because I had zero knowledge about having a pet.

He hid under the bed quietly for 3–4 hours and was very scared, but then he came out. I fed him food and gave him water. After that, he roamed around the entire house, played with me a little, and slept on my bed. I felt so happy when he had his food.

I can sleep peacefully too now, hahaha. 🐱❤️

Hey people, I’ve recently shifted to Dwarka mor. Is anyone interested in doing studies together? People can come to my place as well.

Hey people, I’m 25M and I’ve recently shifted to Dwarka mor. Is anyone interested in doing studies together? People can come to my place as well.

Hey everyone. 25 M here. I’ve recently shifted to Dwarka mor area just to have a separate space though I’m from Paschim Vihar West Delhi. I’m looking forward to meeting decent people for meet-ups, running or any sports etc?

Is anyone up for a nightout? I’m 25M.

I recently shifted to a rented flat in Dwarka and spent the whole day there alone setting things up. The house is still empty with blank walls and barely any stuff, and by evening I started feeling really anxious and lonely for no reason.
It almost felt scary sitting alone in complete silence in a new place.
Did anyone else experience this after moving out? How did you deal with it and how long did it take before the place started feeling like home?