My son is 4yo and since starting school in June we've been to the pedia thrice already. Should I just pull him out of school?

Background: Tatay niya ang gumagamit ng car for work so most days, naka-tricycle kami papuntang school and it's a 15-minute drive.

Two nights ago, he was struggling to breathe and vomited phlegm which was alarming.

I'm not sure if his constant infection is from the commute or he's exposed to different types of illnesses in his classroom.

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u/kaze_saku — 10 days ago

Whose house is this and what do they do for a living? 😆

Dream house since I was a teenager

u/kaze_saku — 13 days ago

Anyone knows "Lao" family in the 90s?

All of this is just for nostalgia- nothing too important.

I lived in Munting Pulo, Lipa City in the 90s, bata pa lang ako nun so di ko na masyadong tanda ang street name.

But we were living on a "farm" owned by someone named "Stephen" or "Steven" Lao. Last I heard, ginawa na raw subdivision.

I am just curious kung ano na ang pinagbago ng place. Pero di ko na kasi maalala ang street kaya di ko siya ma-search sa Google map.

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u/kaze_saku — 13 days ago

Sa mga kinder and elementary teachers here, naiinis ba kayo pag tanong nang tanong ang mga parents about their kids?

Questions like "Teacher nandyan po ba ang tumbler ni ___"

"Teacher, bakit po umiiyak umuwi kanina si ____"

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u/kaze_saku — 15 days ago

My child is so friendly I get hurt when others ignore him

Obviously, I know naman na they're not obligated to say "hi" back. And also sinasabi ko naman sa anak ko na "not everyone's friendly, maybe they're occupied... let's give them space."

Pero syempre, nandun pa rin yung kurot na parang gusto ko na lang sabihin na wag ka nang mag-hi.

Ayun lang, and again, I know this is on me and I'll get over it soon.

EDIT: forgot to add na nagha-hi din siya sa mga adults, tapos marami ang di siya pinapansin. What triggered this post was this morning, he said hi to his classmate's mother tapos di siya pinansin haha

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u/kaze_saku — 1 month ago

Introverted and socially anxious mother

I feel like my anxiety has skyrocketed since my child started going to school.

I feel like the other mothers have stopped trying to talk to me because I am very monotonous with my answers. I am also wary in making friends among them- I have trust issues.

They have a school program next Friday and parents are invited and I am already a ball of anxiety just thinking about it.

And you might say go to therapy, that's the plan. But not now, I can't afford it yet.

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u/kaze_saku — 2 months ago

Introvert and socially anxious nanay

I feel like my anxiety has skyrocketed since my child started going to school.

I feel like the other mothers have stopped trying to talk to me because I am very monotonous with my answers. I am also wary in making friends among them- I have trust issues.

Their nutrition program is next Friday and parents are invited and I am already a ball of anxiety just thinking about it.

And you might say go to therapy, that's the plan. But not now, marami pang bayarin.

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u/kaze_saku — 2 months ago

How do you deal with anxiety when your toddler is starting school for the first time?

I have social anxiety and I'm quite protective of my son, and it’s really starting to weigh on me. I keep worrying about school programs like Family Day- the chaos, the pressure to be there, and the need to interact with others. I’m spiraling with what if, What if someone is mean to him? What if he’s too energetic for the teachers, for the other kids? What if he gets rejected? I know these thoughts aren't healthy, but I’m struggling and school hasn't even started yet. Has anyone else felt this way? I’d love some advice

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u/kaze_saku — 3 months ago
▲ 1 r/Upwork

Can someone explain how this happened? Since I haven't received any recent client feedback, does the score drop simply for being inactive or not winning new gigs?

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u/kaze_saku — 4 months ago