Not feeling safe in my supported accomodation place

I currently live in supported accomodation and I have my own room but everyday im constantly harrased by the other residents in my building. They always ask me for stuff like ciggerates, drink, food, money, etc and they knock on my flat door at the middle of the night asking for it whilst im trying to sleep. Im starting to feel triggered. I have spoken to the workers at my place but they dont seem to care and told me they will speak to these people to stop but they havent. Whenever I say no to these people they still wont stop begging and asking and wont leave me alone. I dont even feel comfortable leaving my flat to go outside for example because they are always there and I really want to be moved somewhere else or have my own flat. If i bring things like food from outside there will always be there to ask me to give it to them and beg.

My social worker is the one here who placed me here and I did explain to her this problem and that I would like to be moved but she told me she won't be able to do that for some reason. Im going to have to deal with this crap every single day of my life and its going to destroy my mental health.

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u/lattofan7 — 1 day ago
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Do you have any suggestions on how I can keep busy throughout the day?

Im pretty much neet and have been for a whole year now and i spend most my time in my room doing nothing. I got no friends or family I can go out with and im pretty bored of just staying home all day. When I do go out all I can think off is going for a walk but that doesnt help my mind keep busy. I need something that will pretty much keep me busy and out all day.

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u/lattofan7 — 7 days ago

im too horny and its driving me to suicide

i hate feeling constantly horny all the time no matter what i do, ill have to masturbate to get rid of the feelings because I find it too distracting and sometimes I feel like crap when I masturbate because I wish i could just do the real thing

ive always struggled with dating due to my looks and never managed to have a girlfriend in my life. I cant always afford to pay for sex

I feel like such a pervert and creep but I know this isnt fully my fault, I know every man out there feels like this somewhat and its not shameful to admit it

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u/lattofan7 — 11 days ago
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Did you stop caring about getting a job?

It literally seems impossible to find a job these days and its too frustrating so I just gave up and stopped caring. I've accepted im going to be a NEET for the rest of my life.

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u/lattofan7 — 12 days ago
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Those without jobs how are you surviving?

Im currently unemployed and not studying so I just claimed Universal Credit and have been living off that. Its quite miserable living off this but I have no other option, if I didnt claim it I would be dead. I live alone and have no one else to rely on for survival. Please dont judge me for claiming universal credit, im not someone thats lazy I look for work and cant find anything and I have worked before.

I know people in the comments are angry at me because I am claiming universal credit but I have genuine health problems that affect me whilst working but I still really want to work again when I am better, im not lazy I literally said I have worked before whilst I was 18 even after going through my personal life problems but my mental health was getting too me to much and I have diagnosed learning difficulties. Im not struggling to survive I have it good but the way im living is still depressing. If i had a job my mind would be occupied and I would have something to live for.

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u/lattofan7 — 12 days ago
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I feel like giving up on my job hunt

For the past year i've been applying to loads of jobs, tailoring my cv, etc (pretty much everything you are told to do to get a job) almost everyday and 9/10 out of times im constantly rejected and whenever I do get interviews (hardly happens) I get told they are looking for full time workers even though it shows on their job post they have part time available? Im just frustrated and given up at this point. It feels so depressing being NEET and having nothing to do majority of my time and its destroying my mental health.

Im currently not studying either but I do think off going back to college soon even though it doesnt feel worth it, it's better than what im currently doing right now but im just hoping my Universal Credit isnt going to get cut off (im getting LWRCA) im not receiving PIP either since I got rejected for my claim but i've reapplied. I currently live alone in a supported accomodation which is a bad enviroment for me to be in and may stop me from being able to study properly but I cant leave otherwise ill be homeless

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u/lattofan7 — 12 days ago

Anyone else think UK mental health support is bad?

I have been suffering with poor mental health for years and recently its been building up even more due to me being isolated most of the time and not getting the right amount of support. I have gone A&E due to having extreme violent thoughts on the people who have hurt me badly in my life and not being able to control myself with these thoughts without self harming or even actually wanting to act on these thoughts (i dont want to actually! its my mind playing games with me!) I have been sent to a mental health ward but found it completely useless and they discharged me.

I went into a&e again today, just for them to discharge me once again and tell me to just keep in touch with the CMHT and that they will prescribe me with medication and fingers cross it actually helps me get rid of these thoughts that I have no control over.

Its crazy how these services dont actually want to help its people for some reason yet they want to put these public services up which us taxpayers have to pay for with our hard earned money. Im so glad im not working anymore because paying tax towards these things is just a complete waste of money. No, im not someone who's lazy and likes to blame mental health on everything because I use to work but my mental health took over me.

Im suprised how some services, like the police force actually function. If someone is murdered the police force will hold out an investigation and make arrests majority of the time. But if someone is deeply suffering with their mental health they usually get zero support.

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u/lattofan7 — 13 days ago
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How can I keep myself sane whilst being neet?

I have been neet for a year now and i've been spending all day doing nothing other than scroll on social media or watching youtube videos. Im incredibly bored of doing all of this. I try to find things to do but everyone suggests me to "Go for a walk" "Volunteer" "Look for work" etc, all the same thing. It doesnt work here in the UK. I even get rejected for volunteering roles and finding a job? Impossible.

I have no friends or family, I have barely any money, I live in a shithole place all on my own. It feels miserable just wasting my days and potentially my whole life away. I feel like here in the UK theres no opportunities to have a good life.

Im going insane just doing nothing all day. I dont even want to play video games because I cant enjoy it no more, watching youtube videos, scrolling on tiktok is just brainrotting me and making me feel more depressed.

I wish I had a job, something to keep me busy and kill time, I wish i had money so I can do activities id actually enjoy doing that would make life worth living for me. How long will I just be stuck in this rathole? Im tired of just having to look for an job to start my life since that seems to be my only option to make some process.

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u/lattofan7 — 21 days ago