u/letsbecomebesties

What is the best way to commute from Mannheim to Heidelberg Bismarktplatz after a night out?

Me and my friend group are planning to go to Das Zimmer in Mannheim (probably a Friday night), but we are not sure about how we would come back Heidelberg around 2-3 am. Any suggestions that are not taxis?

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u/letsbecomebesties — 9 days ago

What are the general "rules" around showing some skin in public?

I recently moved to Germany, specifically Heidelberg. I'd like to know how revealing is "too revealing" here. It is gettig warmer here and whenever I wear tank tops, they tend to look quite low cut because of my proportions.

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u/letsbecomebesties — 14 days ago

I am an adult woman (24F) who grew up in a household with purity culture and abuse. I have somehow found a way in life to gain my freedom. Now I have moved to another country and started to build the life that I wan't.

However, I do not know what kind of a person I am. How to handle romance, intimacy. Do I like going out or staying in? So everything is really new for me and while experiencing them, I do not want to harm myself.

I am still trying to figure out if I am doing things because I want to or just because I can now. For example, I do wan't to experience physical closeness, however would that be the right move to do it with a random hook up for my first time? Since I grew up with purity culture, I do not know if I am just putting extra meaning to things - maybe it is actually okay to do it with one night stand.

If anybody would be willing to be my big sister for today and share some insight, it'd mean a lot <3

PS: Currently I can not afford a therapist.

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u/letsbecomebesties — 20 days ago