44f, I have 2 little kids, and since dating, its been mostly younger men. I was asked out by a 30plus yr old man. Is there any chance he wants anything more than sex? And if I do sleep with him, how long do I have to wait to make sure he takes me seriously? I hate all this.
It's considered a vessel, i have to go along with all the same pennsylvania laws as if I were on a boat
But it's extremely cheap to own
I can't get around in a short amount of time, but I swim and fish
44F straight plays co ed in the area. Had 2 on bench and have to show off the steam
Question for good men!
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I highly doubt that i am the only one experiencing this. I get love bombed by men on dating sites. I, 44f, dabble in online dating. I have very little free time so it's just a doom scroll on a dating app when I cant sleep.
Typically the men I match with start with "youre amazing the woman of my dreams" etc.. just ridiculous, havent even met me.
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Is the best choice to just block him as soon as a man starts this?
A vessel is a vessel no matter how cheap!
AITA
I, 44F began talking to my ex, 37M, a few months ago. I am a typical middle class person, take great care of my children, ok house keeper, own my own home and my own vehicles, have a few careers.
My, as of today ex, is a self proclaimed gypsy who has fully recovered after a long term drug addiction. His mum is living with him in a rental trailer, hes in a custody battle, his eldest child is in mental health, his DL has been revoked awaiting a fine payment in another state, and he is a past gun charge felon so we cant travel out of the country.
Hes been clean about 5 yrs. We met in person for the first time yesterday and hes handsome but hes rough around the edges. Because of the "red flags" listed above, which i did know most of them before we met, i decided to end it today. He told me I was the a$$hole for not giving him time to prove himself and make the changes he planned on making, paying his fines, just in general giving up on him.
I am struggling because I had a lot of love for him. But at the same time I have 2 kids, a 6F and 4M, and having met him yesterday and finding out about the car and DL yesterday, i decided if we did want to continue a relationship, it was going to have to be short term. No intent on him meeting my kids. So we ended it. Im suffering because I did have deep feelings for him, ive been crying all day. Am I the asshole for ending the relationship today? Would you end it too?
My ex M/37 and I, F/44 met on FB dating 2 months. Since then weve only spoken and text but its been 2 months of exclusive talk and text.
I am a typical middle class person, take great care of my children, ok house keeper, own my own home and my own vehicles, have a few careers.
My, as of today ex, is a self proclaimed gypsy who has fully recovered after a long term drug addiction. His mum is living with him in a rental trailer, hes in a custody battle, his eldest child is in mental health, his DL has been revoked awaiting a fine payment in another state, and he is a past gun charge felon so we cant travel out of the country.
Hes been clean about 5 yrs. We met in person for the first time yesterday and hes handsome but hes rough around the edges. Because of the "red flags" listed above, which i did know most of them before we met, i decided to end it today. He told me I dont care for him cause I have not given him time to prove himself and make the changes he planned on making, paying his fines, just in general giving up on him.
I am struggling because I had a lot of love for him. But at the same time I have 2 kids, a '6 F' and '4 M', and having met him yesterday and finding out about the car and DL yesterday, i decided if we did want to continue a relationship, it was going to have to be short term. No intent on him meeting my kids. So we ended it. Im suffering because I did have deep feelings for him, ive been crying all day. Has anyone been in a situation like this? And I guess I just wanna note if I made a good choice.
I, a stright 44f, have struggled with being very horny since pre puberty. I'd say mb (masterbation) was a daily, multi times a day thing I did til I was 19 and moved to university where I was never alone. At 20 was my first boyfriend and sexual partner and I couldnt ever get enough. Literally. I can not get enough. About this age I also stopped mb for the most part.
I do not struggle with lustful thoughts, only thoughts like "I want to feel a big D in me right now" and I am consumed with the desire to be in the act with a man. Consumed, but not with images and there are no triggers.
for context: I am not sexually active, I only sleep with boyfriends or ex boyfriends, no hook up, I very much dislike mb because I don't enjoy it. And when I do have an orgasm, I just want more. Im not exagerating when I say I will have sex for a whole weekend with just water, showers and sleep breaks. I could actually just always have sex and never get bored of it. I have, several times, had 30 plus real orgasms in a 5 to 6 hour sexual session, at that point I will feel "finished" and stop getting wet, sleep a few hours and I am so ready to go again.
I feel so alone, I feel ashamed, I feel sad. I talked to my OBGYN about this and she didn't say anything. Just kinda asked if I want zoloft for depression. Is there something wrong with me? My best friend thinks I am a sex addict but I know that is incorrect. I guess I just want to get this off my chest and as if I am truly alone? Is there something wrong with my body, hormones, etc?
Thank you for listening.