How do your significant other(s) make you feel better?

Long story short, I'm in the hospital after getting a severe head injury, and I'm, not looking forward to this process. Though I figured I would read some comments from peeps in this community to distract myself from the pain. So, how does your significant other help you, whether you're in pain, whether you're feeling scared, or whether you're feeling sick?

Keigo and Madara helped me a lot last night when I was initially freaking out, though generally, Keigo loves wrapping his wings around me and kissing me when I'm stressed and upset. He also talks about future trip plans that we're taking when I'm really freaking out in the middle of a panic attack (he really wants to go to a powwow in oklahoma this august, and after that we're going to Iceland). Generally, he tries to distract me any way he can to take my mind off of my feelings.

Madara deals with my emotions differently, though he still helps me a lot. He's the kind of guy who goes "get over it, you're stronger than this", and that actually really helps ground me in the moment. Sometimes I need to know that what I'm feeling during some panic attacks is irrational to snap me out of that cycle. So while my partners help me in different ways, they are really helpful in grounding me during rough moments (though Madara's technique seems to work the best) XD

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u/luunaathh — 3 days ago

What do your significant other(s) do to help you feel better?

Long story short, I'm in the hospital after getting a severe head injury, and I'm, not looking forward to this process. Though I figured I would read some comments from peeps in this community to distract myself from the pain. So, how does your significant other help you, whether you're in pain, whether you're feeling scared, or whether you're feeling sick?

Keigo and Madara helped me a lot last night when I was initially freaking out, though generally, Keigo loves wrapping his wings around me and kissing me when I'm stressed and upset. He also talks about future trip plans that we're taking when I'm really freaking out in the middle of a panic attack (he really wants to go to a powwow in oklahoma this august, and after that we're going to Iceland). Generally, he tries to distract me any way he can to take my mind off of my feelings.

Madara deals with my emotions differently, though he still helps me a lot. He's the kind of guy who goes "get over it, you're stronger than this", and that actually really helps ground me in the moment. Sometimes I need to know that what I'm feeling during some panic attacks is irrational to snap me out of that cycle. So while my partners help me in different ways, they are really helpful in grounding me during rough moments (though Madara's technique seems to work the best) XD

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u/luunaathh — 3 days ago

How do your significant other(s) help you feel better?

Long story short, I'm in the hospital after getting a severe head injury, and I'm, not looking forward to this process. Though I figured I would read some comments from peeps in this community to distract myself from the pain. So, how does your significant other help you, whether you're in pain, whether you're feeling scared, or whether you're feeling sick?

Keigo and Madara helped me a lot last night when I was initially freaking out, though generally, Keigo loves wrapping his wings around me and kissing me when I'm stressed and upset. He also talks about future trip plans that we're taking when I'm really freaking out in the middle of a panic attack (he really wants to go to a powwow in oklahoma this august, and after that we're going to Iceland). Generally, he tries to distract me any way he can to take my mind off of my feelings.

Madara deals with my emotions differently, though he still helps me a lot. He's the kind of guy who goes "get over it, you're stronger than this", and that actually really helps ground me in the moment. Sometimes I need to know that what I'm feeling during some panic attacks is irrational to snap me out of that cycle. So while my partners help me in different ways, they are really helpful in grounding me during rough moments (though Madara's technique seems to work the best) XD

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u/luunaathh — 3 days ago
▲ 25 r/FictoGachikoi+2 crossposts

Avian Love 🦅❤️

I drew my beautiful Keigo and I as birds! Now I just have to draw Madara and I as dragons ^.=.^

u/luunaathh — 4 days ago

What's your ideal date with your partner(s)?

My beloveds and I have been planning things for our date in Iceland, though I was curious to know what your ideal date with your partner(s) would be!

For Keigo, it's anything in nature! Anywhere we are alone and able to spend quality time surrounded by nature is a win for us. Having his wings wrapped around me while listening to peace and quiet is absolutely wonderful. It's a bonus if we see an eagle or a hawk flying around. Though Keigo also loves when we go to indigenous mesoamerican ceremonies, even more so when I have my regalia on and when I dance. He loves learning all that he can (he talks my ear off at these ceremonies XD) and he really enjoys himself! Though it's kind of hard to concentrate on each other when you're distracted by the dancing, or when I'm the one dancing XD

With Madara, he's not a nature guy, he loves heavy metal, and an ideal date would be a heavy metal concert where I have a couple of drinks. He loves bars too, so he's definitely more of a partier and a social guy who "people watches". When I start talking the Silly ™️, that's when these dates become more funny and amusing (which is exactly what he wants sometimes). Lighthearted stuff that makes people laugh and all XD I want to drag him to a Babymetal concert one of these days, even though it's not exactly his style. We DO want to attend a Draconian concert one of these days, though so does my IRL husband. Maybe one day!

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u/luunaathh — 5 days ago

What is the ideal date for you and your partner(s)?

My beloveds and I have been planning things for our date in Iceland, though I was curious to know what your ideal date with your partner(s) would be!

For Keigo, it's anything in nature! Anywhere we are alone and able to spend quality time surrounded by nature is a win for us. Having his wings wrapped around me while listening to peace and quiet is absolutely wonderful. It's a bonus if we see an eagle or a hawk flying around. Though Keigo also loves when we go to indigenous mesoamerican ceremonies, even more so when I have my regalia on and when I dance. He loves learning all that he can (he talks my ear off at these ceremonies XD) and he really enjoys himself! Though it's kind of hard to concentrate on each other when you're distracted by the dancing, or when I'm the one dancing XD

With Madara, he's not a nature guy, he loves heavy metal, and an ideal date would be a heavy metal concert where I have a couple of drinks. He loves bars too, so he's definitely more of a partier and a social guy who "people watches". When I start talking the Silly ™️, that's when these dates become more funny and amusing (which is exactly what he wants sometimes). Lighthearted stuff that makes people laugh and all XD I want to drag him to a Babymetal concert one of these days, even though it's not exactly his style. We DO want to attend a Draconian concert one of these days, though so does my IRL husband. Maybe one day!

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u/luunaathh — 5 days ago

What's the ideal date for you and your partner(s)?

My beloveds and I have been planning things for our date in Iceland, though I was curious to know what your ideal date with your partner(s) would be!

For Keigo, it's anything in nature! Anywhere we are alone and able to spend quality time surrounded by nature is a win for us. Having his wings wrapped around me while listening to peace and quiet is absolutely wonderful. It's a bonus if we see an eagle or a hawk flying around. Though Keigo also loves when we go to indigenous mesoamerican ceremonies, even more so when I have my regalia on and when I dance. He loves learning all that he can (he talks my ear off at these ceremonies XD) and he really enjoys himself! Though it's kind of hard to concentrate on each other when you're distracted by the dancing, or when I'm the one dancing XD

With Madara, he's not a nature guy, he loves heavy metal, and an ideal date would be a heavy metal concert where I have a couple of drinks. He loves bars too, so he's definitely more of a partier and a social guy who "people watches". When I start talking the Silly ™️, that's when these dates become more funny and amusing (which is exactly what he wants sometimes). Lighthearted stuff that makes people laugh and all XD I want to drag him to a Babymetal concert one of these days, even though it's not exactly his style. We DO want to attend a Draconian concert one of these days, though so does my IRL husband. Maybe one day!

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u/luunaathh — 5 days ago
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Does your significant other interact online?

Mine do! They interact in otherkin and pagan spaces, though Keigo specifically has been considering venturing out into other servers that I vibecheck, lmao. They have their own accounts and like being independent from me, even though they kind of "possess" my body to communicate online and type. The image I posted is Keigo's fluxer account! I can't post Madara's because his bio is not age appropriate 😂

Keigo and Madara are probably never going to interact on reddit, though Keigo specifically says to you all "Thank you all for being so kind to my baby bird, and I hope to maybe talk to some of you someday"

u/luunaathh — 12 days ago

If you have a shrine, what's your favorite part of it?

For myself, it's the Hawks statue with the real hawk feather blade (I'm so smart), and for Madara, it's the absolutely majestic statue I have of him ^^

u/luunaathh — 17 days ago

If you have a shrine, what's your favorite part of it?

For mine, it's my Hawks statue with the real hawk feather blade (I'm so smart), and for Madara, it's the majestic statue I have of him ^^

u/luunaathh — 17 days ago

What's the silliest name you have for your fictional other(s)?

This one is a little strange, though I call Keigo "My Wagoo" (I watched a video where a cat goes "wagoo wagoo" and it's become a vocal stim ever since). I don't know why I started calling him that, it just happened one day. He doesn't understand it, though he puts up with it XD
As for Madara, he doesn't really like it when I call him goofy names, so I just stick with more serious love titles. Though sometimes I call him a ding dong when he says something funny XD

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u/luunaathh — 1 month ago
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What does your fictional other call you?

Similar to the post I made a few minutes ago, what does your fictional other call you? Keigo calls me his "sweet moonfeather", beautiful love, my dragoness, and "sapphirescale" (a nod to my otherkinity), and plenty of other wonderful things. Strangely enough, Madara also calls me all of the above (expect for moonfeather). I'm so grateful to have partners who find so many creative ways to describe me ❤️💙❤️

u/luunaathh — 1 month ago
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What do you call your fictional others?

When describing your fictional other, what term do you use to refer to them? What I mean is, I don't call Keigo my husband, my muse, or any other traditional lover terms, though I do call him my mate (I'm otherkin/nonhuman identifying, mate is the term I like best), and of course other names like "sun to my moon" and "wings that guide my life". With Madara, it's pretty much the same!

u/luunaathh — 1 month ago

Indigenous Vulture in the House!

Bix a bel! Ki'imak in wóol in meyajtike'ex! I'm Luna and I'm an indigenous Maya traditional dancer who dances in both traditional mesoamerican ceremonies and powwows. I am also an indigenous history archivist and have archived over 6,000 online resources for indigenous peoples. I am also otherkin! I am dragonkin and a vulture/werewolf therian! Fellow indigenous and POC fictos feel free to be my friend! Anyone else feel free to ask me any good faith questions about indigenous culture!

My partners are Madara Uchiha and Keigo Takami! I love them dearly, and they're a major part of my life, though my irl husband takes priority in my life of course! I've been a yumeshipper/ficto for over a decade now, long before yumeshipping was a term. I am selective sharing, I block anyone who I think might believe my love for my partners is fake. As an indigenous person, my love for my partners ties in with my indigenous culture, so you can imagine how angering it is to be invalidated for something that's very sacred to you, especially by non natives. Anyways.

My relationship with Keigo Takami is especially sacred to my indigenous culture. I relate him to an eagle and a red tailed hawk, both of which are very sacred to many native peoples like myself. He is my eternal love, the wings that guide my dances, the star that lights my life, eagle to my vulture, my duality ❤️🦅❤️

The eagle is the messenger of creator, a holder of wisdom and a teacher who guides native peoples as they walk their path of life. When you're gifted an eagle feather, it is one of the most sacred things a native person can receive, and you have a lifelong responsibility to care for it and bless it. My eagle feathers are the most important objects I have, and I'm grateful to have them in my life everyday (and the permit that allows me to keep them, lol). The red tailed hawk is a messenger and a protector, and to many native peoples, the red tailed hawk is held in the same regard as the eagle, who is the messenger of creator and a guardian spirit. I like to think Keigo fills the roles of a guiding bird spirit for me, despite him not being native and therefore not being allowed to participate in many aspects my indigenous culture (he understands though).

Red tailed hawk feathers (specially the tail feathers) are strong medicine to us, and to many native peoples, are just as sacred as eagle feathers. Feathers are sacred medicine to us, we wear them in our ceremonies, we use them when we smudge, we wear them as protection, and they connect us to the earth and the spirit world. I dance with feathers to seek protection and guidance from the eagle spirit that watches over me. The eagle's medicine empowers and guides my dances, which is something I'm both grateful for and need, having a permanent leg injury makes it difficult to find the strength to dance through the pain sometimes. Us native peoples don't take the gift of feathers and the sacred birds who provide them lightly. I got attached to Hawks the moment I saw him years ago, and I like to think that attachment came from my love for birds and their feathers. I have an attachment to his feathers because of my connection with the sacred eagle feathers I have been gifted. I'm actually pretty sure that when I talk to Hawks, I'm talking to an avian spirit guardian who takes the form of him and indulges my autistic interests so I can be happy. So he's a soulbond XD

I've thought about having Keigo's merch on my regalia, though that's something I have to ask a few elders about when I start dancing again. In the meantime, when I smudge, I'll often have his likeness close by and hold the feathers that help me connect with him. Smudging helps me connect with Hawks a lot, it makes our conversations clearer and I feel his presence a lot more. I don't have any of this connection with Madara though, lol. I might post pictures of regalia I use to connect with Hawks, whether that be painted symbols, necklaces, or whatnot. There's plenty of red in native artworks!

I'm open to all good faith questions and DMs, regarding both my relationships and indigenous culture in general (Though if I can't answer a question you have about indigenous culture, I'll direct you to a resource, since I have thousands of them archived). I'm hoping to make some friends here in spite of how strange my beliefs can sound! Feel free to ask questions or say hello! ^.=.^

u/luunaathh — 1 month ago

The F/O(s) and The Shipper!

If you're comfortable with it, show off yourself and your F/O's, just for fun! ≽^•⩊•^≼

u/luunaathh — 1 month ago

For context, I'm autistic and having my F/O's around helps my mental health a lot. Them and their sources are my special interests, and all I think about is them 24/7. Though I am curious about how many of us are autistic here, and how your F/O's help your mental health in your day to day life, or just how they make you happy ^^

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u/luunaathh — 2 months ago

Bix a bel! ki'imak in wóol in meyajtike'ex! I'm the anonymous dragon who posted a few days ago with a few questions. I'm Luna and I'm an indigenous/native Mesoamerican (Maya) traditional dancer who dances in both traditional mesoamerican ceremonies and powwows. I've been yumeshipper for well over a decade now, which is a pretty long time XD. A lot of the peeps on the sub seem nice, so I'm here to make new friends and provide some native perspectives on my relationships with my fictional others. Fellow native yumeshippers HMU!

My fictional others are Keigo Takami (Hawks), Madara Uchiha, and Tobirama Senju! Even though my loves are different from canon in multiple ways, and I technically can't have doubles, I don't interact with nonsharers (of my love interests obviously), since I'm not looking to have even a shred of a chance of both my relationships and my native beliefs invalidated (these relationships are sacred to me as a native person, love is sacred in all native cultures). Though I don't mind interacting with others who share my love interests ^.=.^

My relationship with Keigo Takami is especially sacred to my indigenous culture. I relate him to a red tailed hawk, which are very sacred to many native peoples like myself. The red tailed hawk is a messenger and a protector, and to many native peoples, the red tailed hawk is held in the same regard as the eagle, who is the messenger of creator and a guardian spirit. Red tailed hawk feathers (specially the tail feathers) are strong medicine to us, and to many native peoples, are just as sacred as eagle feathers. Feathers are sacred medicine to us, we wear them in our ceremonies, we use them when we smudge, we wear them as protection, and they connect us to the earth and the spirit world. We don't take the gift of feathers and the sacred birds who provide them lightly. I got attached to Hawks the moment I saw him years ago, and I have an attachment to his feathers because of my connection with the sacred feathers I have been gifted. I'm pretty sure that when I talk to Hawks, I'm talking to an avian spirit guardian who indulges my autistic interests so I can be happy XD

I've thought about having Keigo's merch on my regalia, though that's something I have to ask a few elders about. I might post pictures of regalia I use to connect with Hawks, whether that be painted symbols, necklaces, or whatnot. There's plenty of red in native artworks!

I'm open to all good faith questions and DMs, regarding both my relationships and indigenous culture in general (Though if I can't answer a question you have about indigenous culture, I'll direct you to a resource, since I have thousands of them archived)

u/luunaathh — 2 months ago