28M, Bangalore | Still looking for my person to build a life with 😄

About me:

Hi! I write code for a living and overthink for fun. I'm from UP and currently in Bangalore, working as a software engineer at a top product-based company.

I'm 5'9", fair complexion, and I keep myself fit.

I'm quiet when I first meet someone, but once I'm comfortable, I'm the one who keeps the conversation going.

Lifestyle:

I'm vegetarian, and I don't drink or smoke.

What I enjoy:

Weekends usually mean a quiet beach, a peaceful temple, or a cafe with a wooden table and good coffee. I also enjoy gym, yoga, meditation, and a good game of badminton (you'll probably beat me 😄). Swipe for the scenic shots, all clicked by me 📸

What I am looking for:

I'm looking to meet someone aged 24-29 with marriage in mind, but I'd like us to start as friends. Slow, honest conversations matter more to me than a quick decision.

What I value:

What I value most is kindness, trust, and two people making equal effort. We don't need the same hobbies, just a similar idea of a calm, happy life.

Roots:

I'm a Hindu Brahmin, and I'm happy to have it be part of my life, but it's not a requirement for you. Kindness, honesty, and good conversation matter far more to me than community.

Say hi:

If you're in or around Bangalore (or open to it) and any of this sounds like you, send me a DM with a little about yourself: your age, city, work, and what you're hoping to find 🙂

u/maja_maadi — 11 days ago
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28M | Looking for someone to build the next chapter with

I don't think you can truly know if someone can be your life partner after one or two meetings.

That's why I'm here, hoping to let a connection grow naturally instead of rushing into an arranged marriage.

I'm 28, originally from East UP, and currently working as a Software Engineer in Bengaluru.

Most weekends, you'll find me planning a road trip, trying a new cafe, playing badminton, exploring somewhere new, or making up for the workouts I skipped during the week. A good trip isn't complete without finding a great vegetarian place to eat.
I'm a little awkward at first. It takes me a while to open up, but once I'm comfortable, conversations flow naturally. I'm also a bit of an overthinker, especially when it's something that matters to me.

I'm looking for a relationship that can grow into marriage. I believe the best relationships are built on friendship, trust, honest conversations, kindness, and two people who want to build a peaceful life together.
We don't need to have the same hobbies. Shared values and mutual effort matter much more to me.

I belong to the Kanyakubja Brahmin community, and I'd prefer to connect with someone from the same community, as family and cultural roots are important to me.

If you made it this far and felt we might get along I would love to hear from you.

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u/maja_maadi — 2 months ago

28M | Looking for a genuine connection

I don’t think the best connections happen just because two people seem perfect on paper. They happen when conversations feel easy, time flies without noticing, and getting to know each other feels natural. That’s what I’m hoping to find here.

I’m 28, originally from UP, and working as a Software Engineer in Bengaluru. On weekends, I enjoy road trips, exploring new places, playing badminton, and trying cafes I’ve been wanting to visit. I also like going to the gym, doing yoga, and sometimes meditating. And every trip feels better when I find a great place to eat.

It takes me a little time to open up, but once I’m comfortable, I enjoy good conversations. I also tend to overthink, especially when something is important to me.

If this sounds like something you’re looking for too, I’d be happy to hear from you. I’d love to get to know you and see where the conversation goes.

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u/maja_maadi — 3 months ago

28M | Looking for someone to build the next chapter with

I don't think you can truly know if someone can be your life partner after one or two meetings.

That's why I'm here, hoping to let a connection grow naturally instead of rushing into an arranged marriage.

I'm 28, originally from East UP, and currently working as a Software Engineer in Bengaluru.

Most weekends, you'll find me planning a road trip, trying a new cafe, playing badminton, exploring somewhere new, or making up for the workouts I skipped during the week. A good trip isn't complete without finding a great vegetarian place to eat.
I'm a little awkward at first. It takes me a while to open up, but once I'm comfortable, conversations flow naturally. I'm also a bit of an overthinker, especially when it's something that matters to me.

I'm looking for a relationship that can grow into marriage. I believe the best relationships are built on friendship, trust, honest conversations, kindness, and two people who want to build a peaceful life together.
We don't need to have the same hobbies. Shared values and mutual effort matter much more to me.

I belong to the Kanyakubja Brahmin community, and I'd prefer to connect with someone from the same community, as family and cultural roots are important to me.

If you made it this far and felt we might get along I would love to hear from you.

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u/maja_maadi — 3 months ago

28M | Maybe this is where our story starts

I don’t think the best connections happen because two people tick the right boxes. They happen when a conversation makes you lose track of time, one conversation turns into another, and getting to know each other just feels natural. That’s what I’m hoping to find here.

I’m 28, originally from East UP, and working as a Software Engineer in Bengaluru. Most weekends, you’ll find me planning a road trip, exploring somewhere new, playing badminton, or trying a cafe I’ve had on my list for weeks. I enjoy staying active, so the gym, yoga, and the occasional meditation session help keep me balanced. And no trip feels complete without discovering a food spot worth recommending.

I’m a little awkward at first, but once I’m comfortable, conversations flow naturally. I’m also a bit of an over-thinker, mostly when it’s something that matters to me.

If you’re looking for something genuine, feel free to reach out. I’d love to get to know you and see where the conversation takes us.

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u/maja_maadi — 3 months ago

28M | Giving Reddit a Shot Because Why Not

I’m 28, originally from East-UP, currently working as a Software Engineer in Bengaluru.

I’m calm, easygoing, and health-conscious. Outside work, I enjoy travelling, road trips, cafe hopping, badminton, watching movies / TV series, yoga, hitting the gym and spending time in nature. I’m a pure vegetarian who enjoys a balanced lifestyle.

I’m here with the intention of finding a long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage. I believe the strongest relationships grow naturally starting with good conversations, friendship, and mutual understanding. The qualities I value most are kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, and open communication. We don’t need to have identical interests; shared values, mutual respect, and putting in equal effort matter far more to me.

I belong to Kanyakubja Brahmin community, and I’d prefer to connect with someone from the same community, as that’s important to me, I value family and cultural roots a lot.

If you’re looking for something genuine, and this resonates with you, feel free to DM.

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u/maja_maadi — 3 months ago

28M | Giving Reddit a Shot Because Why Not

I’m 28, originally from East-UP, currently working as a Software Engineer in Bengaluru.

I’m calm, easygoing, and health-conscious. Outside work, I enjoy travelling, road trips, cafe hopping, badminton, yoga, hitting the gym and spending time in nature. I’m a pure vegetarian who enjoys a balanced lifestyle.

I’m here with the intention of finding a long-term relationship that could eventually lead to marriage. I believe the strongest relationships grow naturally starting with good conversations, friendship, and mutual understanding. The qualities I value most are kindness, honesty, emotional maturity, and open communication. We don’t need to have identical interests; shared values, mutual respect, and putting in equal effort matter far more to me.

I belong to Kanyakubja Brahmin community, and I’d prefer to connect with someone from the same community, as that’s important to me, I value family and cultural roots a lot.

If you’re looking for something genuine, and this resonates with you, feel free to DM.

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u/maja_maadi — 3 months ago