u/mbahbo

19M, 2 years post graduation. Still a virgin. I can count on one hand the times I’ve ever kissed a girl. Only ever had one pathetic 3 month relationship in my entire life, ended horribly, got completely walked out on and treated like shit. Mid looking at best, mildly unattractive on a typical day, but have the same standards as every other normal person out there. I can’t help who I’m attracted to… The longer I wait, the smaller the pool shrinks. Hell it’s not even all about sex or virginity at this point. I just want love and a relationship. Fuck this shit. I’m so miserable. I just want somebody to love me. No one has ever said I love you to me ever. I’ll die alone

19M, 2 years post graduation. Still a virgin. I can count on one hand the times I’ve ever kissed a girl. Only ever had one pathetic 3 month relationship in my entire life, ended horribly, got completely walked out on and treated like shit. Mid looking at best, mildly unattractive on a typical day, but have the same standards as every other normal person out there. I can’t help who I’m attracted to… The longer I wait, the smaller the pool shrinks. Hell it’s not even all about sex or virginity at this point. I just want love and a relationship. Fuck this shit. I’m so miserable. I just want somebody to love me. No one has ever said I love you to me ever. I’ll die alone

19 y/o male here. Due to moral and religious convictions, I would prefer my partner to have as little experience as myself. I would actually like to wait for marriage or at least very late in the relationship. I don’t like hookup culture. Intimacy should be reserved for that person you will spend the rest of your life with. It’s a commitment thing for me. Sleeping with a girl will be reserved for someone I’m 100% committed to. If I’m not 100% committed to them I won’t date them. The problem is, the older you get, the longer you wait the more experience people around you are getting. Especially if they are attractive. 10% of females age 18-30 are virgins as of a 2023 study I think.

I’m still a virgin and not very attractive. The more time goes by, the more dudes girls are screwing around with. So even if I do find someone attracted to me, they’d have way more experience than me. The bar has already been set for them. Something I can’t give nor live up to their expectations. Finding a good looking girl who shares my convictions about waiting a long while for sex and doesnt have a lot of bodies is realistically impossible as I get older. Am I genuinely cooked?

19 y/o male here. Due to moral and religious convictions, I would prefer my partner to have as little experience as myself. I would actually like to wait for marriage or at least very late in the relationship. I don’t like hookup culture. Intimacy should be reserved for that person you will spend the rest of your life with. It’s a commitment thing for me. Sleeping with a girl will be reserved for someone I’m 100% committed to. If I’m not 100% committed to them I won’t date them. The problem is, the older you get, the longer you wait the more experience people around you are getting. Especially if they are attractive. 10% of females age 18-30 are virgins as of a 2023 study I think.

I’m still a virgin and not very attractive. The more time goes by, the more dudes girls are screwing around with. So even if I do find someone attracted to me, they’d have way more experience than me. The bar has already been set for them. Something I can’t give nor live up to their expectations. Finding a good looking girl who shares my convictions about waiting a long while for sex and doesnt have a lot of bodies is realistically impossible as I get older. Am I genuinely cooked?

19 y/o male here. Due to moral and religious convictions, I would prefer my partner to have as little experience as myself. I would actually like to wait for marriage or at least very late in the relationship. I don’t like hookup culture. Intimacy should be reserved for that person you will spend the rest of your life with. It’s a commitment thing for me. Sleeping with a girl will be reserved for someone I’m 100% committed to. If I’m not 100% committed to them I won’t date them. The problem is, the older you get, the longer you wait the more experience people around you are getting. Especially if they are attractive. 10% of females age 18-30 are virgins as of a 2023 study I think.

I’m still a virgin and not very attractive. The more time goes by, the more dudes girls are screwing around with. So even if I do find someone attracted to me, they’d have way more experience than me. The bar has already been set for them. Something I can’t give nor live up to their expectations. Finding a good looking girl who shares my convictions about waiting a long while for sex and doesnt have a lot of bodies is realistically impossible as I get older. Am I genuinely cooked?

“The thing is that when people say it’s a numbers game they don’t take into account how MANY people actually exist. Finding someone who matches you is like finding a needle in a haystack and you don’t have a way to set it on fire. Maybe an inevitable feeling when you age is this acceptance that love and relationships are a nice thought but not guaranteed. The false hope you once held as a young kid crumbles to dust as you spend more and more time alone. The intimacy and connection you crave ceases to become obtainable and you’re left hollow. Boredom of oneself sets in and everything you’re doing feels meaningless. You know that such a thing shouldn’t hold such a tight grip on your feelings and state of mind but you still just can’t shake that ever impinging feeling of loneliness“ And the longer you wait, the older you get, the lower your chances get. When you start to reach the “people are settling down“ years 18-25 Every day, every month, every year the pool shrinks… Im 19 almost 20 so im not old. but I can’t help but see where everyone else around me is in their life and i can’t help feeling behind. I know I’m missing out. the longer I wait the worse the chances are. I’m exhausted and depressed. I can’t stand being lonely and a loser anymore. I honestly hate myself. all I want is to be loved but I’ve never gotten love. I’m “cooked” as they say. my chance was gone when I graduated school, as tiny as that chance was. I’m done. im giving up. I don’t even know why I’m ranting here sorry guys. all I can give is this incoherent rant nobody will understand.