u/meekonesfade

We are in South Orange and just lost half our power to something that exploded in the backyards. Of course both our refrigerators and our ac and minisplit are on that line, so we're screwed. And to top it all off, our main AC broke a couple of days ago and was only fixed hours prior to this. Our infrastructure is like a third world country - it has become routine for our power to go out. Our biggest mistake was not getting a generator a few months (or years) ago. We have a dog and a cat - I dont even know what to do. Advice? Anyone else dealing with this?

I'm thinking of trying them out. Thoughts?

I feel like I am going crazy here. I am a short, middle aged woman and dont remember this ever happening before, yet in the past few months, two different people whom I would never suspect would do something nefarious, have felt my side boobs during hugs on multiple ocassions. The first time, I was like, okay, well, they get in the way, but it has now happened repeatedly with each of these people. Is it just an accident? Does this often happen to you? How can I move defensively?

52 here and no end in sight. At my last gyn visit, despite repeated corrections on my part, they still noted on my chart that I in menopause. Dear 50+ ladies who still do the dance of the red queen, tell me your stories.