Locuming in London for radiographers?

Hi, I've been a radiographer with the nhs for 4 years. But it's been a bit tight with cost of living. I was thinking about moving to London and do locuming full time. I was curious on your thoughts. Will there be job security doing that? If not will it be easy to find another job? Whether it's worth it.

Thanks,

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u/meelatalha — 4 days ago

Worried about immigration

I'm British. My cousin (malaysian) is coming with me as she is on holiday. She is staying for 4 months and then going to France. She'll be staying in the uk with me and my family. We got an ETA. I'm worried about what immigration will ask at Heathrow.

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u/meelatalha — 2 months ago
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AITAH for not wanting sex if it is for one person's sake?

So I got recently married (arranged marriage), we have been intimate 4 times since (20 days), I like the intimacy and found out that my wife doesn't and only went along for it for me. I feel hurt and kinda lost and had a row with her. To her, she felt guilty for making me wait, i told I'm willing to wait for her only when she was ready as i love her and that she aint my property.. Her argument is that intimacy is just a physical need and she grew up understanding to serve her husband even if she doesnt, whereas mine is that it is more than that, a bond, trust and emotions but she doesn't get it. Turns out she only did it because family was pressuring her, like that's her job as a wife. I feel ashamed and upset with her, we haven't talked since. She doesn't seem to understand i want to respect and love her first, the concept seems out of this world to her. First fight

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u/meelatalha — 2 months ago

Lost my tablet on the national express

Hey guys,

I got the 717 coach outside of cineworld to get to Stansted (9pm on 30/5), like an idiot I left my tablet on the coach. I spoke to national express at the station and they said to fill out the form and the 717 bus will be returning to ipswich with new passengers. Long shot but anyone on that seen a lenova tablet??

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u/meelatalha — 3 months ago

Not sure how to live a life and to save

Hi guys hope you're well. I (26M) on 39k with nhs. I would like some advice as I feel really financially depressed. I dont live a extravagant lifestyle, I live in East anglia. At the moment after bills and basic needs, I can save one grand. My parents cannot work (not living with me) but I'm expected to support them. I'm also getting married overseas, the whole visa process is going to cost a lot and she has got many qualifications to work at the moment.

I have been following the flowchart and managed to set aside money for emergency fund and have 20k saved. I'd like to enjoy life, buy a new car as my current one is 15 years old, my mates are earning over 50k and seem to have a great life. I don't think much when spending money for others . I am struggling to find a balance between saving, giving parents financial aid and living my life. I feel like I'm living to work or be a support character.

I dont know what to do. Any advice would be great

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u/meelatalha — 3 months ago

Getting married abroad

Hi guys I (M, British citizen) getting married to in Malaysia to a Malaysian in june. I have no idea what steps i need to take into account. The plan is honeymoon in Malaysia and then she'll come visit me for a month. I would appreciate if someone can explain what are the next steps and the timeline of it please. Also the whole thing about reform uk has got me stressed. Should I be worried?

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u/meelatalha — 3 months ago