Is Lush better than bath and body works?

Does lush last longer than bath and body works? I’m considering spending more money on lush rather than bath & body bc I’m unsure

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u/meowmeowsmeowsssss — 1 day ago
▲ 14 r/self

I love playing with the espresso machine at my job

I 15 (F) have been working at a bakery for the last 2 months (almost). We make sweets for a nearby hotel and we also run as a coffee shop were we sell coffee and desserts which you won’t find at the hotel. When I started this job I had 0 experience with coffee. I learnt everything from scratch and also learned how to make really nice espresso. I love the espresso machine I love the smell of espresso and I love making espresso. I love my job and I also like the customers. One small problem of mine is that I forget to have thoughts when taking orders so I just ask stupid questions without thinking first 🥲 for example a lady ordered a latte and I said “milk?”And she said “yes it’s should be mostly milk..” and I tried to save it by saying “oh I meant what type” and she looked at me weird lol. if I could id drop out of school and work here forever but sadly I can’t 😢. I’m also a very anxious and introverted person so this has helped me a lot with speaking up. It also tires me out a lot and helps me have less screen time.
I always post about problems on Reddit so I thought about switching it up a bit by posting different.
Thank you for reading hope you have a great day/night.

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u/meowmeowsmeowsssss — 1 day ago
▲ 7 r/self

I push people away before they leave me

I 15 (F) have realized that I push people away before they leave me first. I feel it’s better for me to hurt now instead of hurting later
Worst part about this is that I don’t let people in to ACTUALLY get to know me. I don’t trust people easily and it’s getting in the way of me making new friendships. I also tease a lot which makes me seem mean because I don’t know when to stop +people don’t know I’m teasing. I’m also scared to get attached. I might be a bit problematic now that I think about it.
Thanks for reading

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u/meowmeowsmeowsssss — 3 days ago
▲ 4 r/Advice

Should I quit my job early?

I’m 15(f) and I work at a bakery, I love my job and IF I could id drop out of school and work there (sadly I can’t). Recently I’ve been working from 9 to 6 and by the time I got home I was exhausted to the point I couldn’t talk. This isn’t my first job I’ve worked before but not such long hours. Throughout the days I started getting really bad headaches which wouldn’t stop for hours. When I got my period it just got worse cause I was more exhausted and had to carry heavy equipment which did not help my situation. My mom wants me to either quit or work less days because I’m 24/7 exhausted and kind of hard to talk to (after work). There’s also a creepy guy that (I think) is flirting with me. I work in a separate building so going to lunch someone needs to take me there (we have drivers there which take customers around) and there’s this one driver (over 18) that keeps calling me cute and complimenting everything each time he takes me to lunch. He also made comments when we were talking about another language by calling me “his love” and “his” (we were trying to use examples on pronouns in Greek) I get very uncomfortable and idk if my face shows that. I’m working to have some pocket money since I’m going to another county soon and I just really want the money.
Should I quit my job early or take more days off?
THERE WAS A SPELLING MISTAKE I WILL NOT BE DROPPING OUT OF SCHOOL (I meant it as in IF I COULD not I COULD)

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u/meowmeowsmeowsssss — 15 days ago
▲ 3 r/Advice

Should I stop talking to this guy?

I 15 F have been talking with a guy 17 M.
He’s really cute and I like him a lot but he makes really weird comments and I feel like he might be a bit self centered. We started talking almost a week ago and so far he’s made some interesting comments, like today I told him I wanted to dye my hair a different color and he said “I don’t like dyed hair just telling you”. Or when he told me I should straighten my hair more often because I “mog with straight hair”. He keeps asking me what I like most about him and when I answer sweet things like his eyes he’s like anything else?. He also really wants me to take my shirt off for some reason and wants to get “freaky”. At first he saw I was uncomfortable and apologized now he just keeps going. I’m considering to stop talking to him because I feel like he just wants someone to glaze him and give him attention but at the same time if I stop talking to him then I’m pretty sure my love life is gonna be done for good. I have no other people I’m interested in and I feel like he’s my only best choice atm. Also we have not met irl yet everything that he has said he said it online. Should I stop talking to him?

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u/meowmeowsmeowsssss — 1 month ago

AITA for not wanting a long distance relationship?

I (15) F have been talking to a guy (17) M on and off for a year now. We met online and we had almost similar interests. In our first conversation while we were talking about what we wanted to be in the future (he was 16 then) he told me I had no future (I told him I wanted to be a speech therapist). A few months of talking and he started to make weird comments. One night while I was at a cousins wedding (which was the night I drank for the first time) he started making comments again and we got in an argument so I told him I was gonna block him and he told me that if I did then he would hurt himself. I was 14 and tipsy so I didn’t care I blocked him without thinking it a second time. After a few months I unblocked a couple of people including him and a few weeks later he reached out to me. We started talking again and he told me that he had almost khs and I wasn’t there to support him (not on the day I blocked him) I felt extremely guilty but didn’t say anything. A few days of talking and he starts to make sexual jokes or comments? Idk how to describe them like I could be telling him I’m busy and he would say stuff like “oh well can I still fill you with cum?” And other stuff which I really don’t want to get into. Anyway a couple days in and he asked me to be his gf. I said no because I don’t do long distance (which I’ve stated multiple times but apparently I’m speaking Spanish) he got upset and begged me to block him because he was so “hurt” so I did. Couple of months later I unblock him cause I was convinced he forgot about me (kept unblocking him cause it felt weird seeing his pfp + didn’t want my mom to know I was talking to him) anyway he adds me and we start talking, this time he made no
Comments no sexual jokes up until the current past few days. On call we were talking and he told me to “lift my shirt up” as a joke I told him no and he kept asking me to do it while on face time and I kept saying no until I hung up. I told him to stop with the jokes and he referred to him being a dog and me having the ball and wanting the possibility of me doing it atleast. I told him I’d think about it (which obviously the answer was no) and then told him I’m not doing it a couple days later. He got upset but took the no. He recently told me that he loves me (says it multiple times a day) and that he’s gonna help me with my “insecurities” and “trust issue” and “help me get confident slowly but surely” I never told him I had any of that he js assumed. Anyway yesterday while I was helping a friend look for prom dresses we got in an argument on why we can’t date. (It started from him telling me to call him mine and I said no bc we are not together) he got upset and we started arguing. We have really tough circumstances and there’s no possible way for us to meet, he lives 2 hours away and I’m 15 so my parents don’t want me to take the bus to meet him + in a couple of days he’s going to military.
He got upset when I told him this and told me I was negative which got me upset because I told him I was js being realistic! And he kept trying to argue but I just let him be. On the days before this he kept complaining and complaining about anything I did and would get mad if I did not say I love you back to him. I have decided that once he goes to the military I will block him. But I still wanna know
AITA for not wanting a long distance relationship?

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u/meowmeowsmeowsssss — 2 months ago
▲ 94 r/AITH

AITAH for not wanting to share my vs perfumes with my older sister?

I (15) F have an older sister (19) F which regularly borrows my stuff and wastes half of them in a day. I have a Victoria secret perfume collection which I don’t allow her to borrow from anymore because she keeps using half of them on literal air! (She sprays them in the air and waits for it to go on her or she uses it to make her room smell nice, from every trip that I go to I tend to buy a new Victoria secret that I might not find in my country and also because it’s more convenient (it’s almost 30 euro here for one!) I let her borrow other perfumes but I notice a few missing sometimes. She does this with my other stuff as well. My lush products or shampoo I brought from my trip which I told her she could use but told her to be mindful and the next day the bottle was half empty. I recently went on a trip with my school and decided to hide them because I knew she was going to take atleast HALF of them and empty them. When I came back I put them back on my shelf and she gave me a really dirty look like I took something that was hers. I let her borrow other perfumes Ofcourse but she also tends to use other stuff without asking like lush products my mom got me after my surgery. It’s getting really annoying and I’m tired of hiding stuff in my own house!. I’m happy to share but she never actually asks for permission, I’ve talked to her about this before and she looks at me as if I’m speaking Spanish.
So AITAH for not wanting to share my vs perfumes with my older sister?

Update 1

Thank you all for giving me advice and I’m super grateful to know I’m not the a hole. I do have a safe in my room but that’s where I keep really valuable stuff, like money and other stuff. There’s not much space to fit ALL my perfumes in there and also I’m tired of hiding stuff I own in MY OWN ROOM. I have to hide money because my siblings have a history of “borrowing” whenever it’s convenient (I’m a small handmade jewelry business owner) I think I’m just going to hoard everything I own in my room and start locking the door. I’m really sad I even have to do this because we were always taught to share. This is getting to a point where even my mom told me to hide my stuff from her because she knows how much I value my collection. Thank you all for your advice I’m very grateful. If anything else happens I will be updating you.

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u/meowmeowsmeowsssss — 2 months ago
▲ 43 r/Advice

Situationship wants me to pull my shirt up on call

Me and this guy have been taking for about a year after my bf broke up with me. He’s kinda weird and says weird stuff but he’s not that bad looking so I just go with it cause I don’t really have any male friends. He lives two hours away and yesterday we video called for the first time and it was great . We were both kidding around and after we hung up he got upset. During the call he kept telling me to pull my shirt up which I didn’t do. While he was upset he explained that he wanted to see something more although we aren’t and that he wants a long distance relationship which I’ve stated multiple times I don’t want. Today we called again and he kept making the same comments. We have a two year age gap (17) m ,(15) f and idk what to do. Do I listen to him or do I block him?
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Update!
I want to thank everyone that has commented so far on my post I’m really grateful that what I’m feeling isn’t just me overthinking it. I will be blocking him in the morning and that’s it.
If anything else happens I’ll make sure to add it to this post.
Thank you to everyone that has commented 🙏

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u/meowmeowsmeowsssss — 2 months ago