Image 1 — Jeweler said its no good, redesign is way off
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▲ 103 r/jewelers

Jeweler said its no good, redesign is way off

Hi!! We're looking for an engagement ring. I showed the jeweler the first pic, and basically he said "Nope. Bad idea" and sketched the 2nd pic.

Was wondering if it really is just a bad idea to have the marquise stones along the band like that ? I get that the small stones can easily get dinged if theyre on the outer wall of the band, but cant those be on the top or inner side of the band (as opposed to the outside, like the original ring) but still follow this shape ? He kinda just stuck them in the corners of the pear and now its like a big cluster / clump, no longer has the vibe and je nais se quoi thats like beautiful and simple but unique.

Open to any suggestions/feedback. TY<33

u/monkeygirl732 — 5 days ago
▲ 0 r/711

Iced coffee (chai) the next day ?

Hey yall, i bought iced coffee from 7/11 yesterday and kept it in my fridge. Tilted it towards the camera to show what it looks like today. Its genuinely horrendous, and i hate to complain about food lol

I used the iced coffee machine and got a chai. It was kinda weak, so i added a bit of the dark roast.

It tasted just fine yesterday. I drank it this morning and gagged -- it separated into a sour (but not spoiled) disgusting juice type liquid that lingers in your mouth for entirely too long, and a disgusting foam that makes you wish you didnt require sustenance moving forward.

Anyone else have this experience? Just a bad batch? Im deadass horrified

u/monkeygirl732 — 8 days ago
▲ 317 r/northcounty+1 crossposts

San Diego Churches are actively targeted by Zionist foreign agents

https://efile.fara.gov/docs/7653-Exhibit-AB-20250927-1.pdf

This is a Foreign Federal Agent Filing registered by Faith-by-works, a Zionist foreign agent operating all over the US, but specifically here in San Diego county.

This filing details the methods of geo-fencing churches, then actively targeting any mobile phone that enters that location with propaganda designed to promote individual cash donations to the foreign agent.

This is a great example of how tech and politics intersect right here in our own back yard, made transparent by federal paperwork. The future, even across the globe, is happening right here and right now.

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u/holyoak — 22 days ago

Red bronco pursuit

Anyone seen that red bronco pursuit a few mins ago on the 5 south ? 7 cops were on it lol Cant find it online or on the scanners

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u/monkeygirl732 — 2 months ago
▲ 7 r/shia

time/length of mourning inquiry

salam all

i am very curious how come people say muharram is 2 months and 8 or so days? where did these numbers come from? why is 40 days later so significant (arbaeen, chehlum) i have never learned the root of this practice, actually some research showed the 40 day thing is pre-islamic and not in our faith, is that true?

also, does anyone know of a well researched, well rounded guide to teach someone of actual Karbala related happenings on specific days

IE "on X day, X was martyred. on Y day, sources say they began the journey to Kufa" or even with links to reputable sources ? many sources are unfortunately stylized and dramatized and i want to teach my friend without that :( it is a terrible tragedy as is, no need to have unfounded cultural embellishments..

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u/monkeygirl732 — 2 months ago
▲ 36 r/CUTI

post-sex UTI method thats been working for me for a year+

hi all! i was getting UTIs damn near every other month despite mine & my partners' hygiene and hydration being on point, so i wanted to share the method that has freed me from them for a year ish. i do this every time its been working so maybe this can help someone else.

before sex i stay hydrated (tall glass of water an hour before is what ive been recommended) and i dont pee before sex like at all. sometimes that means we'll start hunching and i have to pee so i will opt for a quickie cus i am NOT risking not peeing enough after. immediately after, i take a big celebratory piss and chug a tall glass of no sugar 100% cranberry juice with 3-4 pills of d-mannose, making sure to relax & get all the pee out. i dont drink more liquids after chugging tht w/ the d-mannose bc it has to work its magic or whateva. i use AZO capsules but i dont think it matters too much.

saw a urologist and she found theres a lil pee leftover after i fully discard + gave me 50mg nitrofurantoin to use WITHIN AN HOUR post sex. strictly forbade peeing before sex. i hardly use the nitrofurantoin, but if ive been less hydrated or didnt have a great piss then i will take the 50mg right after sex. i use it no more than once a week. she and my PCP reassured me that wont make me antibiotic resistant i was rly nervous ab tht

I keep no sugar added pure cran juice on deck always (the bargain stores have it for reasonable prices so i just stock like 2-3 in the house) and add it into my drinks 1-2 a week IF THAT. idk if these 1-2 servings thru out the week actually does anything but it soothes my anxiety lol. I know its not super sexy or comfortable for your partner to wash up before sex esp if yall arent locked in yet but i think it helps the general vicinity that my partner washes it with just water using the handheld bidet. he is larger down thurr & ive heard that can cause more issues, and so we use water based unscented lube if needed to stay super wet down there cus big meat will def beat up your insides without staying consistently wet!

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u/monkeygirl732 — 2 months ago
▲ 384 r/Oceanside+1 crossposts

Community vigil for shooting aftermath

Hi all, the Center for American- Islamic Relations (CAIR) and the Islamic Center of San Diego (ICSD) are hosting an Interfaith Community Vigil. As you can imagine, there will be heavy police presence for safety. In seasons of immense grief, gathering in person can be a powerful tool to process tragedy. I hope to see y’all there.

Note: This flyer has been posted on CAIR San Diego’s instagram. https://www.instagram.com/p/DYheNELlDYY

u/monkeygirl732 — 3 months ago